u/Critical-Concept-933

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How do I come to terms that I will never go to college

I have a 1.6 gpa, community college isnt a option because I get bad anxiety on highways and because I dont have any friends to move in with, im on a iep but my accommodations will be to heavy for community college and college, I cant do online courses because I got a 72% on the one I did for credit recovery, and trade school had nothing that would be good for me or that I want to do, and everyone tells me that itll be impossible for me to go

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 2 days ago

I am a massive failure

I have a 1.6 gpa due to my health (autism, adhd, mdd, and physical disabilities) and due bullying probelms, I cant even go to college and im to stupid to do community college because of my anxiety around traffic, and trade school doesnt have what I want to do work wise

I cant even go the degree, which is cyber security, I want because of my inability to do math above a 4th grade level, and I cant force myself to come to terms that ill just be working a minimum wage job for the rest of my life, im on a iep aswell, it everyone tells me it should be easier but its not, I cant even connect or bond to people easily and I have debilitating social anxiety, I want to be normal

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 2 days ago
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Is college still good for me

I have a 1.8 gpa due to my health, bullying, and transferring, I am on a IEP for autism, adhd, and mdd, I cant do online schooling easily because its drained me and ive tried to do it before, I passed with a C-, I also cant do math above a 4th grade level and when I try to do it any farther I struggle and tutoring doesnt help since I still dont understand it, I am trying to get diangosised with dyscaluca, there isnt any community colleges that have dorms near me, driving on city roads make me extremely anxious, or will accept the accommodations I need​, and the trade schools dont offer what I wanted to do, which was cyber security, which im looking at other things to do

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 5 days ago

Idk what's im doing wrong

Im autistic, people lie about things that im interested in or treat me like a pet, they dont bother learning about my interest so they dismiss me talking about them or call my interest stupid, dumb, boring, or lame, I do force myself to only talk about theres but its draining to me, I cant make new friends because my interest are unknown and I live in a rural area and cant drive, and im disabled, im so close into just pretending that I like popular stuff, like Taylor Swift

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 5 days ago
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Do I need new interest?

Im 17 and autistic, I keep on having people dismiss me talking about my interest or calling it stupid and lame, ive attempted to mask my interest and only talk about theres, I cant make friends easily and cant connect to people easily, ive tried to find people who like the same things as me but ive had no luck and I only have 3 close friends who are all busy, what do I do

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 5 days ago
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Is dropping out reasonable

Im being bullied badly, my school doesnt want to do anything and when they do they make it worse for me, my teachers talk about me in the teachers lounge, I cant transfer or go online, because my school doesnt offer online classes, and my teachers make fun of me in the teachers lounge, and I have no friends at my school and im being bullied for being ND and queer, and the kids who are bring up there religion when I am being bullied by them

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 12 days ago
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I dont know what I should do

I might have to go back to my old school, which refuses to do anything about bullying and ive had teachers treat me like a toddler, and I get made fun of in the teachers lounge for my memory problems, the reason why I might is because I might get kicked out of my school for being out of district, I cant go online or go to any other school due to the distance and because I struggled doing a online class for credit recovery, I dont want to go back to my old school for the reasons ive said above, and im already on a IEP, and my meeting already happened, I dont know what I should or can do, I need help

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 12 days ago
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Im forced to go to community college, is there any with dorms? And will they allow some of my iep accommodations, the ones I need are math problems being reworded and just one extra day for assignments, which im hoping arent to heavy, I also cant do math above a 4th grade level, tutoring doesnt help and causes me to cry out of frustration, my gpa is a 1.8 so thats why im forced to go, please just tell me now if I need to just come to to terms that ill work at some grocery store, and I want to major in cyber security, since its the only thing thats interested me​

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 14 days ago

I dont have emotional empathy, im fully aware of it, I feel off when I cant comfort people, I do have cognitive empathy, it just seems draining to constantly comfort people, i mostly only care about the people im close, outside of them is truely dont care about anyone, I do have autism, ADHD, and MDD, ive been told that im a bad person, but I simply dont care, I am trying somewhat to get better, I just dont know how to yet

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 15 days ago

Im 17, im neurodivergent and I have a chronic, I have no one irl to talk to about my illness since my pain is around a 5-7 most days, and im forced to mask it, im in a constant state of burnout from masking, I dont want to bother my online friends about my illness because I dont want them to worry about me, I have no support group for my issues, I dont know how to find one, I cant connect to people easily and im in a rural area, and I still cant drive, the closest one in person would be almost 30 minutes away, I just want to stop living in a constant loop for once, I do have other issues but my illness is the main one thats bothering me

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 16 days ago

I have finals coming up, my friend is back in the ER, im being bully heavily and my school wont do shit, im worried about lashing out at my friends and I have no one irl to talk to about any of this without being dismissed or being told that its my fault, I should have dropped out my freshman year

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 17 days ago

Im 17, im autistic and I have adhd, and if I dont get good grades I get kicked out of school, and good at my school is Ds and above but I was told that "I could probably do better", and this was AFTER explaining how much ive been struggling both socially and mentally, and I had to report a bullying issue and they sided with the kid because "there a good kid", when they arent, and I have straight Ds and Cs, and one F in a class that ive been struggling in

I dont know what I can do if I get kicked out, I cant do testing well and I will fail the GED, online school will be hard on me because my mental health with be bad and there isnt any school near me that I could go to, what should I do if I do get expelled? Im so lost and luck

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 19 days ago

Im autistic and im 17, I have two friends who text me frequently and care about my interest and special, the rest either dont want to try to play it, ignore me talking about it, or just start talking about there own, and when I tell them nicely that I havent bother to play theres they start pressuring me into playing it, I have no irl friends because of this and I have no one irl to speak to about my special interest, im aware that this might make me selfish but atp im so done and irritated with people who treat me like shit over this and they constantly over step my boundaries with stuff

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 20 days ago

I wanted to do computer science or cyber security, but I most likely have dyscalica, ive been trying to het tested for it im at a 4th grade math level, I am on a IEP but I think that the accommodations I would need would be to heavy for college, I already have to go to community college, and I have to move for it, I also have autism and adhd, I do like art but I dont think it would be a good degree for me due to my MDD making me lose interest in my projects easily​, I just need to know if its realistic or that I should find something else to do, no trade school isnt a option because the one closest to me doesnt have what I want to take

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 21 days ago

Its the only thing people irl see in me most of the time, I cant mask anymore because it makes me sick and I physically cant anymore, I wish I was neurotypical so I would be treated somewhat normally

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 22 days ago
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I keep on being told this whenever I bring up issues I have with friends and with bullying, im neurodivergent so I cant tell if people are being serious when they say it and im just confused and curious about why people say it, Im also probably going have to go to community college to be successful, so if it is truly get better please tell me

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 22 days ago

Ive tried to report it, nothing happens, its getting to the point where im considering dropping out because im being made fun of for everything (my believes, being neurodivergent, my trauma, being queer), my school wont let me go online and I cant transfer, and I cant handle "just ignoring it", and im physically disabled so I cant even fight back if it becomes physical, what the hell do I do

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 23 days ago

Im 17, my friends stopped talking to me when I broke up with my ex for at the time undiagnosed MDD, I eventually got diangosised and when I told them in our group chat they completely ignored me and only focused on graduation ideas, when we dont even graduate until next year, they dont even care about my special interest, they refuse to play it and dismiss me when I try to talk about it, so I dont anymore, and then they try to talk about there interest, only send me stuff about there interest, and they defend the people who are bullying me and teasing me and tell me to just suck it up and ignore it, what should I do?​

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u/Critical-Concept-933 — 23 days ago