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Day 5 👑 | What Part of Yourself Are You Still Afraid to Face?

Let me ask you something…

Have you ever noticed yourself repeating the same patterns, reacting to the same triggers, or hiding parts of yourself because you’re afraid of what they might reveal?

Sometimes the hardest person to confront is ourselves. Not because we don’t know, but because we choose not to address it within ourselves.

We’re on Day 5 of our 7 Days of Self-Love Challenge at r/HealingTheCrown, and today we’re diving into SHADOW WORK🌑

Shadow work is about exploring the parts of ourselves we’ve learned to hide, suppress, or reject.
The insecurities. The jealousy. The fears. The habits we keep repeating.

But what if those parts of you aren’t something to be ashamed of, but something worth understanding?

You can’t change what you refuse to acknowledge.
And today, we’re turning that awareness into INTENTION.

Today’s Challenge

❤️** Tier 1 — Meditate**: Give yourself at least 5 minutes to observe your thoughts and emotions without judgment.

🧡 Tier 2 — Journal: Complete your meditation and reflect:
What is something about myself I’ve been avoiding or struggling to accept? What might that part of me need?

💛 Tier 3 — Set an Intention: Meditate, journal, and move your body. Then set ONE intention based on your reflection.
For example:
Instead of “I need to stop comparing myself to others,”
Try “I intend to celebrate my own progress without measuring it against someone else’s journey.”
Remember, a goal is about what you want to accomplish. An intention is about how you choose to show up.

🌙 Today’s Affirmation
I am willing to understand every part of myself, even the parts I once tried to hide. I choose awareness, compassion, and intentional growth.
You don’t have to force yourself to unpack painful memories. Start wherever you feel comfortable.

👑 DAY 5 CHECK-IN
What’s one intention you’re setting for yourself?
❤️ Self-acceptance
🧡 Self-compassion
💛 Confidence
💜 Emotional healing

Drop your emoji below! Or share your intention if you’re comfortable.
And if you’re just joining us, it’s not too late!
You don’t have to reject parts of yourself to become someone new. 👑

We’re halfway through our 7 Days of Self-Love Challenge at r/HealingTheCrown! 👑

And if you’re just finding us,
IT’S NOT TOO LATE TO JOIN!

I don’t want these seven days to be another challenge we complete and forget about.
I want us to take the three habits we’re practicing meditation, journaling, and intentional movement and carry them into the next 28 days.
Because imagine what could change if you consistently gave yourself time to reconnect with YOU.

Today, we’re focusing on our feelings and womb wellness. 🌺

Our bodies carry us through so much. Stress, emotions, hormonal changes, and the expectations we place on ourselves can all influence how we feel.
And sometimes we’re so busy trying to get to the next thing that we don’t even stop to ask ourselves how we’re doing.

So let me ask YOU: How are you REALLY feeling today?

Not how you think you should feel. How do you actually feel?
And what would it take to move a little closer to the emotional state you desire?

👑 Today’s Wellness Challenge

❤️** Tier 1 — Meditate**: Take five minutes, yes just five,to check in with your body. Breathe, notice your emotions, and release the pressure to feel anything other than what you’re feeling or listen to a guided meditation if you need some direction.

🧡 Tier 2 — Journal: Reflect on yesterday’s wellness goal and ask yourself:
What emotions have I been carrying lately, and what helps me feel more peaceful, grounded, and connected to myself?

💛 Tier 3 — Move: Complete your meditation and journaling, then reconnect with your body through stretching, walking, dancing, yoga, or gentle hip-opening movements.

🫶🏽🧘🏽‍♀️Today’s affirmation:
I honor my body’s wisdom. I allow myself to feel, release, and create space for the peace and abundance I desire.

Remember, raising your frequency doesn’t mean forcing yourself to be happy all the time.

It’s learning how to recognize your feelings and intentionally nurture the energy you want to bring into your life.

🌺 now let’s do a community
WELLNESS CHECK-IN 👇🏽

How are you feeling right now?
❤️ = Peaceful and grounded
🧡 = Emotional or overwhelmed
💛 = Motivated and hopeful
💜 = Still figuring it out

Drop your emoji below.

We’re not chasing perfection. We’re creating a healthier relationship with ourselves, one day at a time.

There was a point in my life where I lost everything.
My job. My apartment. I even got kicked out of school.
I couldn’t handle the pressure of everything happening around me, and looking back, I realize I was trying to do everything alone while pouring almost nothing back into myself.

Taking my life back didn’t start when my circumstances suddenly got better.

It started with a decision:
I can handle this.
I can heal myself.
That belief became non-negotiable.

One of the first commitments I made to myself was meditation.

I started with 30-minute sessions, listening to frequency music and trying to let my mind clear.
And the beginning was HARD.
My thoughts were racing. Even after doing it consistently for a week, I didn’t feel different. There were times I genuinely questioned whether any of it was working.

BUT I kept my commitment to myself anyway.

I had no idea then how much that decision would eventually pay off.
Today, I’ve gone back and finished school. I have multiple streams of income. I’ve built communities and opportunities around things I care about, and I’ve manifested pieces of the life I once only dreamed about.

And somewhere along the way, I learned something that completely changed how I understand self-love:

One of the highest forms of self-love is self-discipline.

Not punishment.
Not working yourself into the ground.

Loving yourself enough to keep the promises you make to yourself—even before you have proof they’re working.

That’s what meditation started teaching me.

And tomorrow, I want to invite you to practice that with me.

For the next seven days,

Healing The Crown 👑 is doing a free 7 Days of Self-Love Challenge

I’m going to share exactly what we’re doing tomorrow, and there will be different levels depending on how much you’re ready to commit.

But rn, I want you to think about one question:

If you stopped waiting for your life to change and started intentionally showing up for yourself, what could you dream yourself doing ?

We start tomorrow. Drop an answer below if you feel open to sharing or a crown 👑 if you are in.

It’s so important to form a personal relationship with God, but how do we know how to interpret what we are asking about? Ask for a sign and trust that the Lord will lead you on the right path.

God will forgive you before you even forgive yourself

It is in the quiet moment that we will hear God, this is why meditation is so important for connecting us back to source. How can we listen if we never stop talking?

No one in my family taught me about boundaries growing up and it wasn’t until we had a presentation on consent that I even learned that it is ok to say no to people’s requests. Even with that setting distance from people was not a norm for me and this book has taught me how to do that in a healthy way.

Every check I have marked is a record that of a line that has been crossed and an example of violations I no longer will accept

Now that I have the tools to lead a healthy relationship I feel so much more free.

I’ve had a tendency to people please from being taught to be overly obedient and now I have freed myself.

Anyways, I hope these help someone else as well 💙

My top 3 books recommendations for healing, except they get more and more difficult to understand and implement

1. Easy read and truly changed my life
2. Helped me to it my daily anxiety
3. The guide that drastically changed my life and gave me back control of who I am

Drop your top 3 below