u/Cursedsandwiches

So 2 months ago I ordered an STP freely, harness, and rod from transguy supply. Sadly DHL lost my package, so it never arrived. I got my money back, but therefore I am still looking for a good STP packer... This will be my first real penis packer, so I'm looking for a cheap, but good quality one. Around 50/60 euro's max.

Anyone got some good reccomendations?

Thanks much!

I feel like shit and I know I shouldn't but apperently it does more with me then I expected.

Yesterday I went to a punk concert with 4 punk bands, where 2 were my favorite dutch punk bands. They were great and I had such a good time! Of course I got the merch from them, but when I bhought the merch from 1 of my favorite punk bands the singer misgendered me and I have been feeling bad about that ever since. And I know he can't do anything about it. I'm a pre-t trans man and I guess I don't pass. I talked to him too and the moment I talk my passing chances go pretty much to 0. I have a high voice. But I still feel very upset about it. I feel so dysphoric and I have been crying all day because of it.

I was trying to present as masculine as I could when going to this concert. And apperently it still wasn't masculine enough that people still confidentially misgender me. Even in a punk setting where there were a lot of trans people.

I'm not anrgy at anyone. They couldn't have known. I'm just sad that how much energy I put into appearing masculine I still don't pass in the slightest. While I look in the mirror and can't even really see what gives it away. People don't even doubt if I'm a man or a woman for a second.

And I guess because I kinda look up to the singer and the band it hurted even more to hear him misgender me. I know he's human too. I don't know... Just sucks. I hope I can get the care I need soon.

I feel like shit and I know I shouldn't but apperently it does more with me then I expected.

Yesterday I went to a punk concert with 4 punk bands, where 2 were my favorite dutch punk bands. They were great and I had such a good time! Of course I got the merch from them, but when I bhought the merch from 1 of my favorite punk bands de singer misgendered me and I have been feeling bad about that ever since. And I know he can't do anything about it. I'm a pre-t trans man and I guess I don't pass. I talked to him too and the moment I talk my passing chances go pretty much to 0. I have a really high voice. But I still feel very upset about it. I feel so dysphoric and I have been crying all day because of it.

I was trying to present as masculine as I could when going to this concert. And apperently it still wasn't masculine enough that people still confidentially misgender me. Even in a punk setting where there were a lot of trans people.

I'm not anrgy at anyone. They couldn't have known. I'm just sad that how much energy I put into appearing masculine I still don't pass in the slightest. While I look in the mirror and can't even really see what gives it away. People don't even doubt if I'm a man or a woman for a second.

And I guess because I kinda look up to the singer and the band it hurted even more to hear him misgender me. I know he's human too. I don't know... Just sucks. I hope I can get the care I need soon.

In a few months I have an intake at a gender clinic. I've been really dysphoric about my voice and I want to practice already for later. Just don't know how and where to start. Anyone got some tips and tricks? I don't want to pay money tho, I don't have much available....

In a few months I have an intake at a gender clinic. I've been really dysphoric about my voice and I want to practice already for later. Just don't know how and where to start. Anyone got some tips and tricks? I don't want to pay money tho, I don't have much available....

Weird thing I know. I didn't know what else subreddit to share this in, but I needed to share it somewhere.

I'm a radical leftist. "Wokest" as it can be. And I'm a trans man. I support non-binary people, and all trans people. I study biology, and as a trans man that really got me interested in gender, and trans biology. So I've done a lot of research on this.

The stances that I have right now if that gender is a bio-psycho-social schema, based on different biological, psychological, and social factors. Being trans is biologically backed up. It has prenatal influence. The body and the brain go through different developments, and that's why being trans can happen. Being non-binary is also biologically backed up. It's close to the same, as being non-binary is also under the trans umbrella.

This all caused me to be more critical then others. No, gender is not just a social construct, and being trans is not just an identity. It's biological. And there will be signs that your brain and body developed differently.

I also believe transsexuality is valid, I even believe you technically can change your sex. Sex is made up of different characteristics: Primary sex characteristics, secondary sex characteristics, hormones and chromosomes (some believe brain sex, not sure about that one though). 3/4 things you can change, wich in my eyes you're closer to the sex you transitioned to then the sex you were at birth. Though, often sex refers to your sex at birth.

It feels like I agree with transmed talking points because of this, As I agree being trans and non-binary is a biological thing. I think watering it down to just an identity and that there don't have to be signs is harmful.

But I also don't agree, as I'm not gonna police who is trans or not. I've been in transmed spaces and they felt like hell to me, criticizing different trans people constantly. I didn't feel at home either as I'm not medically transitioned yet, and don't plan on undergoing every transition. I don't think I want bottom surgery, I'm fine enough with my packer and bottom growth.

I just needed to share this somewhere, as it's kinda been eating on me. What do you think of this? I wanna have a genuine respectful conversation. I don't feel at home by either side because of my vieuws. What do you think I am?

I live in the Netherlands. Bhought something off of transguy supply on the 4th of July. I only got a confirmation of my order, nothing else yet, and it's been weeks... I'm just really scared to have wasted my money now... I just need people to tell me what their expirience is with transguy supply? I mailed them today, hoping that they come back to me soon...

Hey, I heb begin deze maand een packer, rod, en harness gekocht van transguy supply. In amerika en andere landen zie ik alleen maar goede reviews, en dat het legit is. Maar ik heb nu wat problemen met mijn order, en ik was benieuwd hoe de expirience was hier in nederland.... Iemand ervaring met hun?

Hey. I'm a 20 year old trans man. Been on a waitinglist for a gender clinic since I was 18, and still got 2 years to go on my current waitinglist. It's been hell. I got unsupportive parents and I'm dealing with a lot of gender dysphoria.

Since a year I've been knowing about another gender clinic with only a waitinglist of 4 months max. They have a special register way, where they open the register button for a few minutes every first monday of the month. This isn't every month, though. To keep the waitinglist so short they look if they have space for more people. then they open the register button. I got some trans friends and have spoken many that got help at this gender clinic. They're happy they did it. This gender clinic doesn't let your GP or psychologist register, you have to do it yourself, at 9 am of the first monday of the month.... Tomorrow.

I talked with my psychologist about this gender clinic. She told me to do it. After I register I have to get a referral of my GP.

I'm just really scared... I'm suffering so much because of gender dysphoria. But I haven't told my parents I want to register here yet. My psychologist told me to worry about that later and just care for what's best for me right now, wich is to register. I'm just really not good with unknown things... And I'm so worried to tall my parents about it later. I'm just scared for this new path I'm walking. I guess I just need some reassurance or just to share this with someone. I'm really nervous.

Hey dudes. I'm an applied biologist which means I work a lot in fields and nature, so it would be really useful for me to wear an STP, as well as that relieves my dysphoria.

So my question to y'all is, any good STP recommendations?

I heard of the Spouti and putting that in an STP. sounds great, but does it really work well and are there better options? or should I just order the Spouti and an STP?

My budget is around 50 to 75. So I can't buy a really expensive STP, but any reccomendations? Thanks!

Hey guys.

I bet I'm not the only one who has been feeling extra dysphoric lately because of the heat. It's 35 degrees celcius here, too hot to wear a binder or layer my clothing.

Though I've been wearing binding tape for a couple of days and took it off too hasty which caused blisters... So right now I'm also tapeless, and I'm not doing well. Got peak gender dysphoria currently. So I need to know some ways to relieve that, and some tips I can use to relieve dysphoria when I go outside in crowded spaces.

What do y'all do with this weather? How do y'all cope? I need to know your secrets.

Hey guys.

I bet I'm not the only one who has been feeling extra dysphoric lately because of the heat. It's 35 degrees celcius here, too hot to wear a binder or layer my clothing.

Though I've been wearing binding tape for a couple of days and took it off too hasty which caused blisters... So right now I'm also tapeless, and I'm not doing well. Got peak gender dysphoria currently. So I need to know some ways to relieve that, and some tips I can use to relieve dysphoria when I go outside in crowded spaces.

What do y'all do with this weather? How do y'all cope? I need to know your secrets.

Yo chat. Ik zoek een goedkopere alternatief voor transtape. Als niks beter is ga ik het uiteindelijk wel kopen, maar zijn er ook andere goedwerkende alternatieven die voldoen aan mijn wensen?

Ik zoek tape die ik lang kan dragen, van ook redelijk goede kwaliteit. Die ja ook kan dragen tijdens het slapen. het liefst huidskleur, maar andere kleuren maakt niet uit.

En waar kan ik dit kopen? kruidvat hema etos? bol.com? Als je wat info hebt dat kan helpen deel het graag, alvast bedankt. :)

I got the implant, and I followed the advice of my mom to track my period anyways just to make sure I'm okay. But the app I use now is full of women shit and it just makes me really dysphoric. I don't know if there exists something I'm looking for but does someone also use period tracker apps and how do ya'll deal with it? what is the best app? How do I not feel so dysphoric about it?