u/Darman2

Hello,
I have a German friend. We got to know each other several months ago. Our friendship is online; we haven’t met yet.

We met by chance, talked about a topic, and then started talking regularly.

Month after month, we feel more comfortable with our friendship, we share personal things about our lives and discuss them.

He told me once: Trust takes time.

Sometimes I went through difficult moments he supported me and always asked me about my situation.

I care about him and I like him.

Does he consider me a friend now? And how do I know if I'm a real friend to him?

Thanks

Hello,

I’m 32 years old, and I’ve only been in one relationship in my life with my ex-boyfriend.

It’s a long story. We met in high school and were friends for many years. Then, in my early twenties, our relationship began. I loved him at first sight. I was honest with him and was crazy about him.

I can't describe how deeply in love I was with him, but at that time, the world and life seemed so beautiful.

Our relationship lasted four years, then we broke up.

When I was 26, he cheated on me with a girl and told me he had to get married and start a family.

I had no words; I just let him do that and moved away.

After a while, he came back to me and said he loved me and didn’t feel good with that girl (he broke up with her), so we got back together.

And for a while, he started to distance himself from me; we stopped seeing each other, and he didn't reply to my messages.

Then he sent me a message saying that (he is not gay and homosexuality is something wrong and we must stop it and end our relationship.)

I was shocked and heartbroken. I said: If you know homosexuality is wrong for you, why did you engage in a relationship with me?
He answered: I’m a bad guy.

Don’t call me, don’t text me, consider me a dead person, and even our friendship is ruined.

After that, I felt deep sadness and heartbreak over how I sacrificed years for him and loved him deeply and sincerely, and he did not reciprocate those feelings.

I felt that he was sexually exploiting me and that he didn't love me.

At the same time, the world seemed dark without him, and my life became miserable.

I miss him every day; I think about him daily.

But I am deeply saddened; even though my relationship with him ended six years ago, I haven't gotten over what happened.

How can I forget the past?
I have been single since that time.

And he got married with a girl and he had family now.

ان هروب الناس من الدول الإسلامية دليل على ان الإسلام كدين وعادات القبائل العربية ساهمت في تخلف العرب وجلبت لنا الفقر والفساد حتى ان أسلوب حياتنا مشوه وثقافتنا سيئة، الدين وهم وكذبة وعليه ان يكون إيمان فردي وأخلاقي فقط بعيداً عن السياسة وقوانين البلدان، هذه الحقيقة المرة علينا تقبلها.

Hello,

I’m living in Muslim country and I’m gay.

Let’s clarify some points:

1. 99% of Muslims are against terrorism.

2. Islamic fundamentalists are rejected by the Muslim community.

3. Most Islamic countries, both governments and societies, have fought against all forms of political Islam that seek to implement Sharia law.

4. There is no consensus on Islamic laws. What some people read is not the truth, and Muslims reject any law that calls for violence, killing, and so on.

5. The greatest crime in Islam is the killing of a human being.

6. Islamic fundamentalists are a marginalized, uneducated, and isolated group in society.

7. Regarding homosexuals and their rights:

In all religions there is hostility towards homosexuals, People's desire to form families, have children, and maintain family cohesion is what leads them to reject homosexuality.
But no one is calling for the killing of homosexuals.

Everyone knows that the far right has begun to rise in Germany and Europe, The far right is exploiting these events before the elections to spread its propaganda and win votes.

I have read many hateful comments towards Muslims, and I wouldn't rule out the possibility that the far right, if given power, would carry out ethnic cleansing.

As gay person, I’m against injustice ,hate and racism.

And this time I’m against right wing extremism.

Thanks for reading
Stay strong!

Hallo!

Glaubst du, dass es wahre Liebe im wirklichen Leben gibt? So wie die Liebe in Romanen, Büchern und Filmen?

Und glaubst du, dass wir diese wahre Liebe auch anderen schenken können?

Warum ist wahre Liebe in der LGBTQ+ Community so selten?

Danke!

Hello,

Do you think true love exists in real life? Like the kind of love in novels, books, and movies?

And do you think we can give that true love to others?

In the gay community, why is real love so rare?

Thanks!

مرحباً شباب،

اكدر اتمرن بدون التزام بنظام غذائي، صراحة التزمت شهر بنظام بس حسيت بالملل إني ما احب اللحوم والبيض وإضافة إلى هنا مكلفة وأسعارها غاليه إمكانيتي محدودة ، فهل اكدر احصل جسم مناسب وعضلات بالأكل العادي مجرد اقلل كميات واوزعها واترك الصمون والخبز والحلويات والمقليات وغيرها؟

إضافه إني شخص اختنك من اي روتين صح التزم فترة بس تجي لحظة يخرب واهسي

ممكن نصيحتكم

شكراً الكم

مرحباً،
الكثير من الفلاسفة المسلمين تم اتهامهم بالكفر والزدنقة والالحاد لأنهم شككوا بوجود الدين ، يقول ابو علاء المعري في شعر له:

هفت الحنيفة والنصارى ما اهتدت ويهود حارت والمجوس مضللهْ
اثنان أهل الأرض : ذو عقـل بلا ديــن وآخر ديِّن لا عقل لهْ

يقول ايضاً:

يرتجي الناسُ أن يقومَ إمامٌ
ناطقٌ في الكتيبةِ الخرساءِ

كذبَ الظنُّ لا إمامَ سوى العقلِ
مشيرًا في صبحِهِ والمساءِ

فإذا ما أطعتَهُ جلبَ الرحمةَ
عند المسيرِ والإرساءِ

إنما هذه المذاهبُ أسباب
لجذبِ الدنيا إلى الرؤساء

مرحباً،

اني من جنت صغير ميولي شاذة بوتوم وكنت انعجب بس بالولد وبقت ويايه لما كبرت المشكلة اني كلش هورني اخر فترة واريد sex بس اخاف اسويه من المجتمع واخاف من النماذج وما أعرف احد واريد واحد احبه يكون اكو شي عاطفي بيني وبينه بهالشي مموجود بمجتمعتنا.

صار عندي اكتئاب حاد من هذا الموضوع؟

شنو الحلول برأيكم ؟

Hello everyone,

I just started to discover Dutch and am trying to learn it.

Since I can speak Deutsch (German) and my level is B1-B2, I was surprised and confused about there’s similar things between Deutsch and Dutch.

I read that both languages ​​belong to the same family, the West Germanic languages.

So with English, is that can give me some advantage to learn Dutch faster?

Thank you 🙏

Hello,

I'm from the Middle East, I'm an atheist, and gay, 32 years old.

I have been suffering in my life since I was 18, so much fear and pain.

I'm alone and I can't adapt to the culture of my country, I live like in prison.

As a gay person, I have no rights, they treated me like a criminal, homosexuality is illegal and society never accepts it.

My mental health has become worse, I didn't live my life and I wasted my years.

So if I can move, how is the situation in natherlands?

I will be happy to hear any recommendations or tips from you guys!

Thank you!

Hi,

How is the situation in Lebanon for homosexuals?

Thank you!

Hi,

I’m living im Middle East, Im gay and atheist.

It’s truth that I live under oppression and persecution

But I’m proud to be gay I’m lucky, being gay is best thing happened to me.

I don’t live my gay life, but I’m exiting and fighting for my rights.

Be proud!

مرحباً،

لكل من يعادي المثليين أقول لك، تخيل ان يتم منعك من الزواج من امرأة بسبب قانون ما ، ماهي ردة فعلك؟

ستعيش مظلوم مكبوت مضطهد

هكذا الحال عندما تمنعون المثليين من حقهم في العيش مثلكم.

انتم تتزوجون ولديكم شركاء وتمارسون الجنس وعلى المثليين ان لا يفعلوا ذلك بسبب الدين.

اعزائي حاولوا تشعروا بالآخرين ومعاناتهم.

تقبلوا الآخرين، الحياة اكبر من فهمكم لها.

تحياتي!

مرحباً،

أنا اعتقد ان الأديان وهم وصناعة بشرية وجدت لضرورة في ذاك الزمان وان الأنبياء رجال صالحين مثل الفلاسفة حاولوا إصلاح أقوامهم بطريقة معينه ونجحت تلك الطريقة.

لكن بمرور الزمن العلم يؤكد الحقائق والدين لا يغدو سوى سرديات وغيبيات.

الفلسفة تفسر الأخلاق ووجود الإنسان ومعنى الحياة وبطرق مختلفة وتفسر الواقع.

اما الدين يميل للقمع والقتل وفرض أسلوبه بالقوة.

هنا لا اريد النقاش بصحة الدين من عدمه

لكن أنا كمثلي الجنس ولا ديني اتركوني اعيش بسلام ولا تصادروا حريتي الشخصية وتفرضوا أسلوب حياتكم وثقافتكم عليه.

تحياتي