u/Dazzling-Lead-8557

Am I asking for too much in this scenario?

I have been talking to this person for two months and when we hangout we always have such an amazing time and do spontaneous things. He tends to associate dates with the amount of money he has since he doesn't like it when I pay so we end up see each other once a week.

Last week he asked me to dinner and then I also hinted at him that I had a three day weekend. Didn't mention anything and he also said he was free, so I finally asked yesterday if he's free on Monday and he said yes. It seems like I'm a low priority and I'm confused because he said he wants to be my boyfriend but is taking it slow.

He asks to play video games so there's effort in that but I can't tell whether I'm over reacting? He says he missed me and we talk all day long too so idk if I'm going crazy. I told him I feel like I am way more invested than he is a couple days ago and he reassured me that he is just as invested.

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 5 hours ago

How do you know if you should give someone a chance or trust that they’re not the right fit?

I feel like sometimes I'm way too overly picky but I also do not want to settle. At what point do you know whether to give them a chance or that they are not right for you?

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 13 hours ago

How to stop overthinking when dating someone?

I have known this guy since high school and we have been talking for two months now. I finally communicated yesterday that sometimes things feel one sided and he will be super lovey dovey one day then different the next and he is afraid of getting hurt and I get annoyed when he posts on social media but doesn't reply to my text for hours.

He was super sweet about it and it makes me paranoid because he used to reply crazy fast and the past couple days he's been taking hours. I hate that I get so paranoid and I feel like I have more interest since sometimes I check to see if he texted and I love talking to him.

Last night we went out for dinner, was affectionate the whole night and he took me to the military base where he worked out and we spent hours with each other and he was telling me all of these stories. How do I stop getting paranoid and assume he lost interest? We talk all day every day. It would be a different story if he called me in between dates or saw me at least twice a week which makes it harder

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 2 days ago

Does him taking longer to reply now mean he's less invested?

I have known this guy since high school and we have been talking for two months now. I finally communicated yesterday that sometimes things feel one sided and he will be super lovey dovey one day then different the next and he is afraid of getting hurt and I get annoyed when he posts on social media but doesn't reply to my text for hours. We only see each other once a week and we never talk on the phone so texting makes up our communication

He was super sweet about it and it makes me paranoid because he used to reply crazy fast and the past couple days he's been taking hours. I hate that I get so paranoid and I feel like I have more interest since sometimes I check to see if he texted and I love talking to him. I have told him I need more reassurance and he said he will need to prove it.

A couple days ago we went out for dinner, was affectionate the whole night and he took me to the military base where he worked out and we spent hours with each other and he was telling me all of these stories. How do I stop getting paranoid and assume he lost interest? We talk all day every day but I don't hear from him as much as I see him on social media. I'm also talking to someone else and he communicates way better and even makes the effort to call.

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 2 days ago

What is the next step after doing a learn to play program?

25 F and I'm so obsessed with hockey but I feel a bit discouraged since I work a 9-5. I live in Anaheim and next weekend will be the last class since there are only three classes total. I have been having such a hard time with stick handling!

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 6 days ago

Is once a week a normal amount of time to see someone you're dating?

I only see this person once a week and I feel like he just isn't as into me as I am? He does text me good morning and we talked all day. We also did hangout till 5 am last weekend but I am trying not to get my hopes up. Idk if I'm over reacting.

We had to post pone our plans to stay in another city since he has military training and he said he would make it up to me but I have a feeling he won't ask to hangout with me for a while. He hangs out with friends a lot and last weekend he had no plans and didn't even ask to hangout. That is when we ended up hanging out till almost 5 am. We have been talking for two months but I didn't confess to him until a month ago because before I told him I wasn't in a rush to date.

We have been seeing each other about once a week. Idk if he just isn't as into me as before because just last week he used to tell me he misses me and I haven't heard it from him this week. I do tell him I miss too and reciprocate, from the start he made it so obvious he was into me. We did have sex that weekend we were out late and yesterday he did say he is more protective and attached but idk if I should believe him.

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 8 days ago

What made you lose interest in someone you dated?

I only see this person once a week and I feel like he just isn't as into me as I am? He does text me good morning and we talked all day. We also did hangout till 5 am last weekend but I am trying not to get my hopes up. Idk if I'm over reacting.

We had to post pone our plans to stay in another city since he has military training and he said he would make it up to me but I have a feeling he won't ask to hangout with me for a while. He hangs out with friends a lot and last weekend he had no plans and didn't even ask to hangout.

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 9 days ago

How to make espresso less watery?

I just got a new nespresso verteo machine and it tastes like water! I have been using the Starbucks blonde double espresso pods :( to make Shaken espresso. Is this normal? I don't brew over ice either

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 9 days ago

I'm 25 where do I even begin?

25 F and I'm currently in a learn to play program! The only thing I'm hesitant about is how expensive it is to even join a recreational league in my area. It says it's about $7k combined with team and individual fees. I work 8-5 Monday thru Friday and I'm a bit lost as to how to start after I finish the Learn to play program.

I am having the most fun I've ever had and it's so amazing seeing so many women joining as well. Any suggestions as to where to go next and how was your journey like?

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 13 days ago
▲ 2 r/EDM

Any songs similar to these?

Prada - casso

Minero - bipolar

One in a million - bebe rehxa

Little luck - fortella

Need some new recommendations and have not been able to find anything on Spotify

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 13 days ago

Now that the refreshers taste horrible are there any other alternatives? I normally get a mango dragonfruit refresher! I don't like anything too tart or overly sweet.

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 15 days ago

Coffee is very watered down after descale

For some reason I can barely taste the espresso. I did a factory reset with a couple of clean rinses afterwards. I have the Vurteo Plus machine and I can barely drink the coffee

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 15 days ago

25 F and I can't seem to make girl friends for the life of me. Even when I vibe with the person it ends up being one sided and I never hear from them again or they keep the convo short through text. I graduated college years ago and have been working full time. No one ever reached out and I feel like I have to put most of the effort in. I can't help but feel so alone and I also don't have a relationship either. My own brother never even aknowledges me which is depressing.

I love hockey, ice skating, video games and snowboarding. I will not be answering any creepy men on here. Just looking for a friend and I also live in California

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 17 days ago

I am talking to someone I have known since elementary school.. And he has been trying to get at me for years. We have gone on a couple of dates and finally kissed last week. Went to the movies and he held my hand first, kissed me while we were at the back of a little swan boat on a lake, held hands in public, went to our old elementary school at night and kissed in the rain. We ended up cuddling in his car and being affectionate while it was raining it was like a movie.

We both tell each other we are basically the same person, we have similar personalities, humor, values and interests. We send each other good morning texts with hearts through out the day, he always opens the door for me and he just the sweetest. We are both equally protective of each other with the opposite sex and we always hype each other up. During the time we had that amazing date he was also in the process of moving and that's when things started feeling off.

We have been texting for two months and he always replies pretty quick (idc how quick I'm just giving a reference). Since then he takes a few hours to reply, he stopped sending me memes on insta, stopped sending me cute pics on snap, he is just overall distant. I have been pulling away a bit and he will sometimes double text but things feel different.

We hungout one more time after that date and it felt off from the start but we eventually became affectionate again but it wasn't the same vibe. I finally brought it up to him and wanted to clear the air and he said the move has been affecting him and it reminds him of how much he used to move all the time. Apart of me wants to believe him but I've been so sad lately because he's been so consistent and all about me for the longest time. He just finished moving on Thursday as well 😩 and I can't help but think he doesn't like me as much anymore

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 19 days ago

I'm 25 and I have not had any good experiences this year. Most of the people I have dated were from high school so starting from scratch is so intimidating. I ended up getting ghosted twice this year and right now I'm talking to someone I've known for years. We have gone on a couple of dates and finally kissed last week. Went to the movies and he held my hand first, kissed me while we were at the back of a little swan boat on a lake, held hands in public, went to our old elementary school at night and kissed in the rain. We ended up cuddling in his car and being affectionate while it was raining it was like a movie.

We both tell each other we are basically the same person, we have similar personalities, humor, values and interests. We send each other good morning texts with hearts through out the day, he always opens the door for me and he just the sweetest. We are both equally protective of each other with the opposite sex and we always hype each other up. During the time we had that amazing date he was also in the process of moving and that's when things started feeling off.

We have been texting for two months and he always replies pretty quick (idc how quick I'm just giving a reference). Since then he takes a few hours to reply, he stopped sending me memes on insta, stopped sending me cute pics on snap, he is just overall distant. I have been pulling away a bit and he will sometimes double text but things feel different.

We hungout one more time after that date and it felt off from the start but we eventually became affectionate again but it wasn't the same vibe. I finally brought it up to him and wanted to clear the air and he said the move has been affecting him and it reminds him of how much he used to move all the time. Apart of me wants to believe him but I've been so sad lately because he's been so consistent and all about me for the longest time.

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 19 days ago

I'm 25 and I have not had any good experiences this year. Most of the people I have dated were from high school so starting from scratch is so intimidating. I ended up getting ghosted twice this year and right now I'm talking to someone I've known for years. We have gone on a couple of dates and finally kissed last week. Went to the movies and he held my hand first, kissed me while we were at the back of a little swan boat on a lake, held hands in public, went to our old elementary school at night and kissed in the rain. We ended up cuddling in his car and being affectionate while it was raining it was like a movie.

We both tell each other we are basically the same person, we have similar personalities, humor, values and interests. We send each other good morning texts with hearts through out the day, he always opens the door for me and he just the sweetest. We are both equally protective of each other with the opposite sex and we always hype each other up. During the time we had that amazing date he was also in the process of moving and that's when things started feeling off.

We have been texting for two months and he always replies pretty quick (idc how quick I'm just giving a reference). Since then he takes a few hours to reply, he stopped sending me memes on insta, stopped sending me cute pics on snap, he is just overall distant. I have been pulling away a bit and he will sometimes double text but things feel different.

We hungout one more time after that date and it felt off from the start but we eventually became affectionate again but it wasn't the same vibe. I finally brought it up to him and wanted to clear the air and he said the move has been affecting him and it reminds him of how much he used to move all the time. Apart of me wants to believe him but I've been so sad lately because he's been so consistent and all about me for the longest time.

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 20 days ago

I'm 25 and I feel so embarassed for not having a best friend or a close group of friends. I feel like everyone I know has a best friend and I feel like such a loser. I'm someone that is very liked and I'm always told I have such a great energy and that I'm filled with positivity. But why is it that I have no one?

I know I'm not a bad person and I don't force things upon people. Anytime I make effort it's always one sided and I feel discouraged. I've taken classes and gone out of my way to try new things with no luck. How do you manage these emotions when you feel lonely? I am dating someone rn and I feel so embarassed since he has so many friends and I don't. I have always felt like an outsider and never understood why others can make friends so easily. I don't drink or smoke which makes it very difficult for me and making girl friends is so hard idk why

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u/Dazzling-Lead-8557 — 20 days ago