Do you have stories where your intuition or senses tell you your significant other is near you / is arriving without them letting you know beforehand?

It's a rather unique experience per se but I'd love to hear from ISFJ men (but all are welcome) who may have experienced my question above?

Without giving too much information, there's this guy who I've known for a while, but lately, he has been expressing interest. One time, he said out loud that he sensed my presence and that his gut feelings are rarely wrong. He then proceeded to do something that he knew I liked.

It doesn't happen all the time, but I've witnessed it a few times to say that it's not purely coincidental. Till this day, I don't know how or what it is, that he's just able to tell I'm around his proximity. I'm amazed and full of questions. I don't even know if it's just towards me or if he also has other senses towards other people.

So I'm here to try to understand from you ISFJs. Is there someone significant in your life that you can just feel with absolute certainty they're near you? If so, how? What about them that makes your senses tingle? What's your story like?

It's so interesting and definitely special to know someone knows when you're around them. So I'd hope to hear from you folks :)

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u/DeedeeHearts — 1 day ago
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Do you have stories where your intuition or senses tell you your significant other is near you / is arriving without them letting you know beforehand?

It's a rather unique experience per se but I'd love to hear from ISFJ men (but all are welcome) who may have experienced my question above?

Without giving too much information, there's this guy who I've known for a while, but lately, he has been expressing interest. One time, he said out loud that he sensed my presence and that his gut feelings are rarely wrong. He then proceeded to do something that he knew I liked.

It doesn't happen all the time, but I've witnessed it a few times to say that it's not purely coincidental. Till this day, I don't know how or what it is, that he's just able to tell I'm around his proximity. I'm amazed and full of questions. I don't even know if it's just towards me or if he also has other senses towards other people.

So I'm here to try to understand from you ISFJs. Is there someone significant in your life that you can just feel with absolute certainty they're near you? If so, how? What about them that makes your senses tingle? What's your story like?

It's so interesting and definitely special to know someone knows when you're around them. So I'd hope to hear from you folks :)

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u/DeedeeHearts — 2 days ago

Is it a good time to convert and park some cash into USD?

As the above, is it a good time to convert some cash into USD. A platform offers higher interest rates for usd than sgd and is currently offering 0% fee. The rates seems lower than some screenshot I took in March and April. New to this, thoughts?

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u/DeedeeHearts — 21 days ago

Suggestions for affordable therapy sessions

Hi all, life has been overwhelming lately, and I feel I need some professional sessions to help me process what I'm going through. I'm currently unemployed, so I'm looking for something that's either complimentary or wouldn't burn a hole in my pocket. Your recommendations would be much appreciated.

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u/DeedeeHearts — 24 days ago
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I care for him so much but I don't know what to do anymore

I'm sharing here because I feel overwhelmed, and I hope you all could share some gentle advice over here.

This guy is a music streamer, and I've supported him for a few years. Initially, I was infatuated, and I tried to express it to him, but he didn't seem to reciprocate, so I was chill. I still hung out on his stream and supported him regardless because I've always appreciated his talent.

Move forward to a few months back, a viewer started teasing us, and a few others chimed in. Both he and I played along with it. I thought nothing much about it, but the next day when I was neutral towards him, he seemed to be awkward around me and then made remarks about finding someone else. That hurt me. I tried to brush it off, but I couldn't. It was a small thing, but because I felt like my feelings became unacknowledged, it became bigger than anyone anticipated. I kept my distance, and I think he was hurt by it. I was getting mixed signals, and eventually, I went to message him to ask for clarity on his feelings for me. He said there was nothing and that he saw me as a friend. Because of that, and I got busy, I kept my distance and didn't actively go into his livestream.

Through this period, it was a series of him anticipating when I would come into his livestream, but when I'm there, he would freeze and become awkward around me. I know it wasn't intentional, but I was also getting hurt because I didn't know where to position myself. He was also making passive-aggressive hints through his music about wanting to be together romantically. Compared to back then, I know he has some sorts of feelings towards me. But I don't know what changed.

The thing is, I've communicated about my hurts. And I can see he makes up for it. However, I mentioned that if I mattered to him, I was hoping he would initiate conversation. But it was always me, and while he doesn't owe me anything, communication is where I feel loved. I care so much about him, which is why I tell him all these. Otherwise, I wouldn't even bother to talk things out.

The lack of convo makes me feel like I'm the only one trying. But it sucks because I also know that he is trying. In his own way. I just feel like we're not seeing eye to eye, and I'm frustrated at the turn of events. I care for him, and I don't want him hurt, but it also makes me exhausted because I feel like I'm emotionally responsible for us both. I know it's not my job, but I can't help but worry how my actions would impact him. In the end, I'm stuck in this loophole . Do I take a break from this because we're both hurting or do I stay so he doesn't feel like I walked away from him.

It's been hard because it's not like he doesn't care. He does, but I just wish he could open up to me and be vulnerable with me. I want us to do the hard talk, but I also feel worn out because I feel like I'm the one doing the initiating, and it makes me question till when do I continue initiating convo always? Meeting up isn't possible currently because we currently live in different countries.

I care for him so much and I want to make this work but I'm tired and I don't know what to do anymore. Thoughts?

Please be kind with your responses 🙇‍♀️

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u/DeedeeHearts — 24 days ago
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Finding root cause for "No Audio Output Detected"

ISSUE SUMMARY:

Laptop repeatedly shows "No audio output detected. This has led to power failure, power surge, and other intermittent problems and now back to audio output not being detected. This has been happening since March.

WHAT LEVEL 1 & 2 SUPPORT DID:

- Uninstalled / reinstalled audio drivers

- Updated BIOS and Windows

- Replaced motherboard, I0 boards & speakers

HISTORY/USAGE CONTEXT:

- Laptop is a recent model, only ~1.5 years old

- Very minimal usage (mostly for browsing, documentation, light tasks)

- No drops, spills, or physical damage

- When the motherboard was replaced, the audio worked briefly. Then the same issue reappeared

CURRENT SITUATION:

They're suggesting to replace the motherboard

and IO Board again, but since these parts were

already replaced, and the issue persisted, I'm not

convinced this will solve the root cause

LOOKING FOR ADVICE:

- Any theories on the actual root cause?

- Anyone experienced similar cascading failures on your laptop?

- Is there a specific component or subsystem I should ask the Service Engineer to check?

Essentially, I'm tryna get to the root cause and find a permanent fix to this, so appreciate if anyone could give some insight.

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u/DeedeeHearts — 1 month ago