How do I even Process this?

Me 19M gf 19F have been together for 3 years or at least were. For a couple months we were struggling with sexual issues. She’s a victim of sexual assault in her past relationship and I’ve been very mindful of that burden placed on her. The day before yesterday I went to a local fair with her family, I was very nice and pleasant. Her dad is a very bad/risky driver so my gf and I as well as her little sister (11) were all carsick. I let her sister lay on me for comfort and I brushed her back to make her feel better. Later that night I got a text from her saying that she falls in love with me everyday.

Yesterday, she went to a rodeo at that same fair with her older sister and best friend. As she was there she saw the man who raped her, and he called her name as she walked past. Obviously I wasn’t there so I had no idea this happened at the time but she called me instantly and said she knew what she had to do was leave me bc seeing him made her realize that she wasn’t attracted to me anymore like she had been with him. She also said that a few guys she saw there she fantasized about sexually and hadn’t thought about me like that for a long time.

To me this is all kinda of fucked up and I’m in so much pain, I thought I was going to marry this girl and she ripped out my heart for a man that hurt her the way he did. I just want my baby back

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u/Deep-Net-4616 — 13 days ago
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I have no idea how to process this

Me 19M gf 19F have been together for 3 years or at least were. For a couple months we were struggling with sexual issues. She’s a victim of sexual assault in her past relationship and I’ve been very mindful of that burden placed on her. The day before yesterday I went to a local fair with her family, I was very nice and pleasant. Her dad is a very bad/risky driver so my gf and I as well as her little sister 11 were all carsick. I let her sister lay on me for comfort and I brushed her back to make her feel better. Later that night I got a text from her saying that she falls in love with me everyday.

Yesterday, she went to a rodeo at that same fair with her older sister and best friend. As she was there she saw the man who raped her, and he called her name as she walked past. Obviously I wasn’t there so I had no idea this happened at the time but she called me instantly and said she knew what she had to do was leave me bc seeing him made her realize that she wasn’t attracted to me anymore like she had been with him. She also said that a few guys she saw there she fantasized about sexually and hadn’t thought about me like that for a long time.

To me this is all kinda of fucked up and I’m in so much pain, I thought I was going to marry this girl and she ripped out my heart for a man that hurt her the way he did. I just want my baby back

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u/Deep-Net-4616 — 13 days ago

Me ‘M19’ and my Girlfriend ‘F19’ are having trouble overcoming her sexual trauma

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been together for 2 1/2 years. We both love each other very much and are happy in the relationship. With that being said, prior to us being together she was sexually abused by a really bad boyfriend who did some awful things to her. The first couple of months she and I were engaging in a safe and healthy sexual relationship. However, she revealed to me that she was repressing her trauma and would like to move past it in a positive way rather than hiding it from me. Since then she and I have struggled to do anything sexual. She has become sensitive to the touch as well as touching me. I have been very clear and obedient of her rules and boundaries. But I was wondering if there was anything that I could do to help her with this journey? She has been clear to me that she still wants me sexually, but she wants to be able to reciprocate that with true emotions and no fear, which I totally understand.

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u/Deep-Net-4616 — 1 month ago

Scouting Tips

How do I know if a young player is going to have a high potential without wasting 3-4 weeks at a time?

When I send out scouts to any of the continents they always recommend bums and no hidden gems. How do I find better players using that method?

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u/Deep-Net-4616 — 1 month ago
▲ 59 r/Juve

Do we seriously not have 30 million?

Regardless if you want him or another option to be our #1 striker for next season is if not pitiful we are going to negotiate until August over €30m when we have a lot of fish to fry elsewhere.

u/Deep-Net-4616 — 3 months ago

I’m in my first ever RTTS career and I’m a 95 overall Second basemen and I’ve literally never received an offer from a team that isn’t the one I’m currently on. So obviously when I ask Stephanie for a trade I go to a random team often not preferred.

When do I get offers finally I’m in season 6.

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u/Deep-Net-4616 — 4 months ago