r/BreakUp

Breakup

Has anyone been through a breakup that you don't want to listen to music, lost your appetite even for fav. food and just want to cry, whenever.
Been in a relationship for 1.5years but seems when things got serious, I was pushed away. Truly loved him despite getting crumbs.😓

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u/omad169 — 11 days ago

Are breakups at 27 normal?

Please excuse the dumb question. Because I (27 M) just broke up with my boyfriend (30 M) for good. There were fundamental incompatibilities we couldn't get past. We dated for two years and it was the first truly loving, serious relationship I've ever had. Whereas some people experience this sort of heartbreak early on, I feel like I'm playing catch up and grieving so hard at an age where I should have "life" figured out.

I feel like no one will ever love me the way he did. Now I feel so isolated and behind in life. I look around me and everyone is in their own happy bubbles. I feel like I'll never get over this. Can anyone who experienced a breakup in their late 20s tell their experiences? Thank you.

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u/SomberDreamer — 11 days ago
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Eternal Sunshine of the spotless mind is my life rn

I wish the plot of that movie was real. I wish I can get rid of the memories. YES IK JIM CARREY GROWS TO CHERISH THE MEMORIES AND I DO TOO. But my fucken brain is just playing a montage of our best moments 24/7. I can’t turn my brain off. I want to love her forever and I don’t hate her at all for choosing herself but why tf am I still reliving something that’s already dead :/

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u/Big-Half-38 — 13 days ago

I can’t move on

I was in a relationship with someone for four years, and I loved him deeply. We broke up, but I still can’t seem to get over him. He always seemed to have an eye for other girls, and our sex life mostly consisted of me feeling insecure about whether or not he actually desired me.
He has hit me a few times. I know I’ve also yelled at him and said things I shouldn’t have, but he has done the same to me. What hurts the most is that he treats me very differently from how he treats other girls and his friends. He can be rude, arrogant, and dismissive toward me, while being understanding and kind toward everyone else.
I was never a particularly sexual person before I met him, but my relationship with him changed that. Even though I know ending the relationship was the right thing for me, I still can’t seem to let go. Part of me keeps feeling like I want to go back to him.
But deep down, I know he isn’t good for me.

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u/Time_Nerve1331 — 13 days ago