u/klaire_bxby

My boyfriend is British while im Asian. Last Monday, he told me he wanted to take a break, but he also told me not to wait for him because it’s not worth it and I deserve better. But I still insisted and told him I’d wait for him. I honestly feel like I’m better and happier with him. We literally just celebrated GF’s Day last week, even though we both know it’s just some made-up thing on the internet lol, but he still made sure I felt loved and made an effort for me.

What makes this harder for me is that I’m really worried about him because of the things he’s told me before. Last June, he told me that if it wasn’t for me, he would want to die. We talked about it, i want him to know im always there for him, and he told me he didn’t want to give up and that he wanted us to bond more and spend more time together. Then last July, he told me that he’d be better off dead and that I could be happy somewhere else. We talked about it again, and somehow we ended up talking about our future together. So now that he’s at his lowest again, I can’t help but worry about him a lot.

I know he’s going through so much right now. He’s depressed, and I feel like losing his friend to suicide was kind of his breaking point. I’m genuinely sad about what happened to his friend too, and knowing that he’s dealing with that loss makes me worry about him even more. I really sympathise with him because I know he’s hurting, and I know everyone deals with grief differently, so I tried my best to respect the space he needed.

My man is actually really good at showing me how much he loves me, but whenever he’s at his lowest, he doesn’t really express himself or talk about what he’s feeling. And honestly, that just makes me want to understand him more. I don’t only want to be there when everything is good and he’s happy. I want to be there when things are bad, i wanna feel his pain. I want to be there through the thick and thin, when he’s struggling. I just want him to know he doesn’t have to deal with everything alone.

I really love him, and we had plans together even though we’re in an LDR. He’s always been so loving towards me, he respects me, and he understands me. In our last conversation, I told him I’d wait for him, but he kept saying he was serious about not wanting me to wait. He told me I should try to find my own happiness and that I can do better. I just told him it was okay because I didn’t want to make the conversation even longer or make him feel more stressed, especially when I know everything is still so raw for him.

I honestly don’t know what I’m supposed to do now. I want to give him the space he needs, but at the same time, I really want to check on him and let him know I’m here. I don’t want him to feel pressured or think I’m pestering him. I just miss my man so much. I'll be lying if i said i dont want us to be togather again, but if he really doesn’t want to anymore, I’m willing to accept that. It just really hurts right now. I guess more than anything, I just want to know that he’s going to be okay.

TL;DR: My boyfriend ended our relationship while he’s grieving and depressed, and I don’t know how to approach him anymore. He’s told me before that he wanted to die and that he’d be better off dead, so I’m really worried about him now. I want to respect his space, but I also really want to check on him and make sure he’s okay.

Im not a british but i want to post and vent here, because i know theres some cultural difference between us and i wanna understand what do you guys think. My boyfriend is british while im an asian. Last Monday, he told me he wanted to take a break, but he also told me not to wait for him, saying that it’s not worth it and that I deserve better. But I still insisted and told him that I’d wait for him. I honestly feel like I’m better and happy with him. We just celebrated GF’s Day last week, even though we know it’s literally just a made-up thing on the internet, he still made sure that I felt his love and effort for me.

At the same time, I know he’s going through a lot right now. He’s depressed too, and I feel like losing his friend to self deletion was kind of his breaking point. I’m also genuinely sad about what his friend went through, and knowing that he’s dealing with that loss makes me worry about him even more. I really sympathize with him because I know how hard this must be for him. I respected his need for space because I know everyone grieves differently.

This man is actually really good at showing me how much he loves me, but whenever he’s at his lowest, he doesn’t really express himself or talk about what he’s feeling. And honestly, that makes me want to understand him even more. I don’t just want to be there when things are good and he’s happy. I want to feel his pain too. I want to be there with him through the thick and thin of life, even when things get really hard for him. I just want him to know that he doesn’t have to carry everything alone.

The thing is, I really love him, and we had plans together even though we’re in an LDR setup right now. He’s such a loving man who respects me and understands me. Our last conversation, I told him I’d wait for him, and he said he was serious about not wanting me to wait for him. He told me that I should try to find my own happiness and that I can do better. I just told him it was okay because I didn’t want to make my response any longer or stress him out because of me, especially since everything is still so raw for him.

I honestly don’t know what the right thing to do is. I want to give him the space he needs, but at the same time, I really want to check on him and let him know that I care. I don’t want him to feel pressured or like I’m pestering him. I just miss my man so much. I want us to be back together, but as i said if he dont wanna Im willing to accept it, it just really hurts rn. More than anything, I just hope he'll be okay when the time comes.

Last monday, my boyfriend told me hewanted to take a break, but he told me not to wait for him, saying that it’s not worth it and that I deserve better. But I insisted and told him that I’d wait for him. I honestly feel like I’m better with him. We just celebrated gf's day last week, even tho its just a made up in internet, he made sure i felt his love and efforts for me. At the same time, I know he’s going through a lot right now, and I feel like losing his friend because of suicide was kind of his breaking point. I respected his need for space because I know how hard it must be for him. I also understand that everyone grieves differently.

The thing is, I really love him, and we had plans together even though we’re in an LDR set up rn. He’s such a loving man who respects me and understands me. I really want us to be together again, but I don’t want to become a burden or make him feel pressured. Our last conversation, i said I'll wait for him and he said he was serious not to wait for him and told me that I should try to find my own happiness, i can do better he said.I just told him it was okay because I didn’t want to make my response any longer for him just to be stress coz of me, especially since everything is still so raw for him. How can I approach him in a way that i dont want him to be resentful of me? I want us to be back again. I really miss my man. I hope he'll be okay when the time comes.

My ldr boyfriend loss his friend last year, and another one just last week. He's been suffering that i cant even imagine, i love him and i wanna feel his pain too. He broke up with me just yesterday saying i shouldn't wait for him and i deserve better. But im better with him. Im sorry for his friend too, i can't imagine how terrible he felt. I want to lessen my boyfriend's pain, i love him but it seems that i should let him go. But i just wanna know if its him that is saying it to me Or there's a chance we can go back together? He's depressed because of life bs and the loss of his friends, he told me they are like his family.

He broke up with me while he's grieving of his friend and also a loss of friend a year ago. He's experiencing so much hell of a pain rn i know, i wanna feel his pain, be there for him, wait for him until he's ready. I know there's no comfort when his friend died while suffering from his life. I said I'll wait for him but he said i shouldn't, he wants me to find happiness, and that i can do better. But i found happiness and i was better when we're together. I love him so much. i simply wish he'll decide when he's in good state and come back to me. A very good man that loved, respected and understood me. I love him and respect his decision, stop bugging him rn, but still i want him to go back to me.

Problem/Goal: Grieving bf broke up with me and it hurts so much and idk how to move on

Context: I love my boyfriend so much, i cant even call him an ex. Kahit ldr lang kami pinaparamdam nya pagmamahal nya. Konting problema, kahit charger kong di gumagana ay nagooffer syang help at kahit ano paaaa. Then last aug 3, he gave red roses for gf's day kahit alam naman natin gawa gawa lang yun huhu but still he made an effort for me. We're good and i know meron syang mga problema na di nya sinasabi sakin pero i always say and made him feel na nandyan lang ako sakanya. But last week, his friend died and he said he needs a break and i should not wait for him daw and i deserve better. But i was better when he's in my life. Now di ko alam gagawin ko sa mga flowers at cards na binigay niya and ayaw ko sana laging nakikita sa kwarto lalo na anglalaki huhuhu also the love letters! Ughhh nakakaiyak. Ayaw ko naman mag move on agad agad kasi mahal ko sya but i respect him enough to let him go.

My ldr bf's friend just died coz of su*cide and idk how can i support or offer comfort/help. For context, last 2 nights lang to nangyari. Kaya pala parang cold bf ko sakin kasi aside sa alam ko na struggle sya sa life, he asked for alone time and told me what happened to his friend. I know sobrang nahihirapan at masakit sa part niya itong nangyari, kasi parang family na narin mga kaibigan nya and last year din nawalan syang isa pang friend.

Previous attempts: puro chat lang ako sakanya na im here for him and idk what else i could do huhu kasi we're miles away. I need some advice how to help my bf? He's a foreigner and not a pinoy po and ayokong makulitan sya sakin if ever puro ako chat sakanya kasi he asked for alone time din

I just wanna ask if being clingy is annoying sometimes? Di pa naman sinasabi sakin ni bf pero i feel its too much for him na. BUT, di talaga ako clingy ngayon at ang mga topics namin ay very light lang kanina. Before naging kami todo bigay syang atensyon, he will continue to update me and kita ko sakanya na kahit wala na kaming matopic itutuloy nya parin. Talagang napakaconsistent nya noon. Compared now or should i say these past few days na parang nanlilimos nalang akong atensyon, he just left me on read and i observed na hindi na sya ganon kasweet. He always assures me naman na ako lang talaga. I just keep on thinking na baka stress sya sa life rn. Tbf naman straightforward syang guy like if may gusto and ayaw agad naman sasabihin. Im just overthinking na baka makipagbreak sya dahil gusto nya magkaroong space and it'll break my heart ik huhu

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