u/DeepTadpole6288

i feel super tight since last week and i can barely insert my current dilator anymore. my body clenches involuntarily without me having any control about it, it just clenches and doesn't let go and i feel like i can't reach these muscles; like i have 0 control about them.

also, i am experiencing sharp pain since my last dilating session on friday, i haven't dilated since then.. why does it suddenly hurt so bad?!

did anyone else experience this?

I’m currently reading the 4th story in TAB and I’m so confused with all these names. Who are all these people and what’s aelins mission and why??

leighfer, doneval, kingdom of melisande ???😭

im currently reading AB after TOG and QOS and now I finally met Sam and I don’t know how I’ll ever be able to move on from him😭 I know she’ll end up with another love interest but Sam is so🥹🥹 is the other mmc worth leaving sam behind?😭

hi, i just had an appointment at my gyn and told her even after surgery and dilating nothing works, so i wanted to ask for pelvic floor therapy because i heard a lot of people here are doing it, but she said it makes no sense to force something up there when im traumatised by it?

Like basically it wouldn’t help because touching it/going in would be making it worse?

I don’t believe that because so many of you did go to pelvic floor therapy and said a lot of good things about it so what should I do?? is she right or should I just look for another gyn for a second opinion??

I’m dilating since two months and I’m stuck on the same dilator since a month. I just don’t feel like I’m getting any more stretched or anything, it just hurts the same and I’m wondering if I’m just meant to live this way without ever sleeping with my boyfriend 😭😭

why are we cursed with this shitty condition?? why does it take so long to progress? it’s so fucking frustrating!!!

has anyone else experience this before while on the mini pill?

sometimes, when I’m on my period, I barely bleed and it’s just a lot of black discharge. I’m worried what could be the cause of this because I just want to bleed normal red blood, and a normal amount??

has anyone else had this experience?

I was extremely anxious these days so that could be also the reason but damn I could fit in a bigger size this week too and today even the smaller one hurts and so I noticed I’m close to my period.. has anyone experienced this before?