WIBTA if I didn’t want to go on a trip for my birthday?
My mother made a promise on my behalf without my knowledge to my aunt, that she’d take me and the family (like 12 people) to flights to Pennsylvania and book a Airbnb for the week of my birthday and that was my gift. She told me this after saying a guitar pedal was too expensive and if I wanted anything like that for my birthday I’d have to save up. My dad was pretty mad and talked her out of it, because that was insane. But he told me that he had to spend these “flight points” he had been saving up because they all expire it NEEDS to be on MY BIRTHDAY, I just wanna stay home. He told me I get to pick and when I tried picking Vegas or California he made 20 excuses on why they were bad picks and kept insisting that we must go to Utah (something he’s been obsessing over, not me) when I said no he called me ungrateful and said most people my age don’t go anywhere and the Utah mountains were just going to be so beautiful and I’d change my mind after a week of hiking (I hate hiking he knows this). I just wanted to stay home and eat a cheesecake, and when I try to explain this I’m just guilt tripped and called an ungrateful brat, am I? My Birthday gift isn’t even something I asked for and it’s not even my gift it’s my dad’s to himself, right?