▲ 5 r/AskDad

Dad asks "what are you doing" everytime i answer, and frequently says "are you okay" and "i hope you are okay"

This is my first time posting on this sub and I think its starting to become justified, I am a 20m. About every single time my dad calls me he says "what are you doing" and on top of that frequently texts things like "are you okay?" And "I hope you're okay" sometimes frantically in a block of text, sometimes multiple times in a single block of text.

I know I'm justified in feeling kind of weird about it, and at this point I get frustrated everytime I answer, how do I approach this and how do I tell him to stop and make it all stop.

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 17 hours ago

Kind of new to this need some advice

Hey so I'm not new to OD but I am new to passport online dating, Im from the US, American women have severely disappointed me. I got a like from this girl she is a 10 smoke show from Algeria, verified. I'm nervous to even text her, I know, I shouldn't be. still wanna try.

I dont even have an idea of what to say she only has pictures of herself no bio not even any interests (pre made interests on the app) thinking I mention something about her heritage like "let's do a culture swap, tell me one phrase or slang from Algeria and I'll teach you an American one" it could go wrong but it strikes up conversation which is what I like about it.

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 4 days ago

LADIES AND GENTLEMAN, WE GOT EM.

Guys half life 3 is confirmed, last night, in the wee hours, my thoughts pondered. To half life three as they usually do, as i went to bed, up came gabe from the clouds. He had but one thing to say to me "fear not child as half life three is along the corner, this December we are finally making an announcement, that will shake gamers to their core" when I woke up I knew that I will not die with half life 3 not being made (im 20 btw) get ready guys. It's coming.

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 6 days ago

Was this patched

Basically a few days ago I was literally getting the lines of code for blurred images and unblurred images through network or elements and when I pasted the unblurred images code into a new web browser it revealed the images now Ai is saying this has been patched when I literally did it a few days ago, sometimes Ai gets it wrong(like it literally said earlier when i was doing this that the blurred images weren't working because they fixed it on that day even though it ended up working) so was this actually patched or is it lying? I looked at userincomingrow or whatever and its red out i honestly don't remember how i did it in the first place so thats another proble was just wondering if anyone knows what or if something happened in the last few days

The only response I got was from someone mad about punctuation and everyone else liked his comment even when he didn't use proper punctuation himself. Like genuinely is this what this species has come to?

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 11 days ago

there's no way they patched this in a few days

Basically a few days ago I was literally getting the lines of code for blurred images and unblurred images through network or elements and when I pasted the unblurred images code into a new web browser it revealed the images now Ai is saying this has been patched when I literally did it a few days ago, sometimes Ai gets it wrong(like it literally said earlier when i was doing this that the blurred images weren't working because they fixed it on that day even though it ended up working) so was this actually patched or is it lying? I looked at userincomingrow or whatever and its red out i honestly don't remember how i did it in the first place so thats another proble was just wondering if anyone knows what or if something happened in the last few days

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 16 days ago

Is there any hope left

So after my previous post I decided to post on the uad forum and had a support ticket open and a support person email me, if you don't know, my software has been glitching ever since I downloaded it the first time, I think fl studios may have read it once (maybe, I'm not sure. but I thought it did) but could not get it to read it again at all, after that i unstalled, and have not been able to install since uninstalling the drivers the first time. So fast forward to about a few days ago and they instructed me to reinstall windows 11 and a whole list of steps to do, and i did those steps exactly, including that and also using windows installing and uninstalling software(windows 10 version like they said), clearing storage, and im sure you can guess where this is going. After doing those steps I'm getting the exact same error message, has anyone gone through this and was there ever a fix uad Apollo twin x usb, im wondering if the drivers are stuck on my PC or something but clearly I'm missing something.

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 1 month ago

What helped my panic attacks drastically, in one day.

It took several days, but I finally got that b#tch on a leash and she's not getting off of it anytime soon. I literally wanted to kms; it was as bad as it got. I'm not joking, and it happened instantly every time. I had a bad one, then it was quiet for weeks, but one day I had a really bad one, then for days after, and that's the point I'm at now (I quit weed exactly a month ago).

But now I can literally (almost) talk about it and not have it affect me at all, and I use "almost" really loosely—it basically doesn't affect me at all. I feel so liberated, not on any medication either. I can finally do everything a normal person can too, because I am normal. That's the thing I realized: my anxiety, my brain, my feelings, it's not my job to manage it, it's my brain's job. I don't pay attention to any other feelings; I don't pay them any mind. Why should I for BAD feelings?

I came to the realization in one night that there is NOTHING I can tell myself or think about my panic attacks to make it better, so that's exactly what I did. Every time I've had a panic tonight (got saved from 4 or 3), the first thing I do is space out my thoughts, then imagine I'm in a room and I'm designing it, similar to the game Disney Infinity 3.0 if you've ever played it. Also, I have a TikTok ASMR streamer that I've been watching for a few days now who also helps; her name is firesighedasmr. While I'm watching it, that's when I leave to go to my "happy place."

TikTok ASMR gaming streams act as the barrier in between my happy place and my anxiety. It saved me three times tonight, this process, probably even more while I was figuring it out. Mind you, I was literally driving to the emergency psych hospital this time last night, a couple of hours before. I didn't go in; I drove back to my apartment.

Your anxiety is obsolete, but the more time you let it control you, the harder it will be to turn back, so do it now while you still can. Obviously, I'm not a master, but I've already gotten wayyyy better in the past three days, and it just completely clicked with me, so hopefully you guys can try this and it will help you too.

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 1 month ago

What made my anxiety way better in one day

It took several days, but I finally got that b#tch on a leash and she's not getting off of it anytime soon. I literally wanted to kms; it was as bad as it got. I'm not joking, and it happened instantly every time. I had a bad one, then it was quiet for weeks, but one day I had a really bad one, then for days after, and that's the point I'm at now (I quit weed exactly a month ago).

But now I can literally (almost) talk about it and not have it affect me at all, and I use "almost" really loosely—it basically doesn't affect me at all. I feel so liberated, not on any medication either. I can finally do everything a normal person can too, because I am normal. That's the thing I realized: my anxiety, my brain, my feelings, it's not my job to manage it, it's my brain's job. I don't pay attention to any other feelings; I don't pay them any mind. Why should I for BAD feelings?

I came to the realization in one night that there is NOTHING I can tell myself or think about my panic attacks to make it better, so that's exactly what I did. Every time I've had a panic tonight (got saved from 4 or 3), the first thing I do is space out my thoughts, then imagine I'm in a room and I'm designing it, similar to the game Disney Infinity 3.0 if you've ever played it. Also, I have a TikTok ASMR streamer that I've been watching for a few days now who also helps; her name is firesighedasmr. While I'm watching it, that's when I leave to go to my "happy place."

TikTok ASMR gaming streams act as the barrier in between my happy place and my anxiety. It saved me three times tonight, this process, probably even more while I was figuring it out. Mind you, I was literally driving to the emergency psych hospital this time last night, a couple of hours before. I didn't go in; I drove back to my apartment.

Your anxiety is obsolete, but the more time you let it control you, the harder it will be to turn back, so do it now while you still can. Obviously, I'm not a master, but I've already gotten wayyyy better in the past three days, and it just completely clicked with me, so hopefully you guys can try this and it will help you too.

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 1 month ago

I can't get this to work

I have been having the biggest issue with this software. First, it wasn't reading in FL Studio, so I uninstalled and reinstalled it. All plug-ins and the drivers(so labeled uad powered plugins) However, that seems to have caused a bigger issue: now I can't uninstall it no matter what. Even when I reboot my computer multiple times like it keeps asking, the problem persists. Does anyone know a fix? Apollo twin x USB

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/Bumble

Should I just not text anymore

Honestly, things have been quiet since Thursday after she didn't reply to my question about calling around 6. I wasn't expecting that since she gave me her number and we had some decent light conversation going, so I’m debating if I should reach out. I might just send a single, 'Hey, I hope you had a good day,' text on Wednesday and see how it goes. If she doesn't reply to that, I'm just going to let it be. Is that a good idea?

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u/Despeate-Radish-432 — 1 month ago