tan this, tan that- GURL SIT YO ASS DOWN and read this

A tan is, in fact, a sign of UV damage. It's your skin producing more melanin to protect itself from further damage. So yes, while I absolutely agree that people should normalize tanning in melanated skin and stop treating darker skin like an insecurity or something that needs to be "fixed", you should still do your best to protect your skin from unnecessary (emphasis on unnecessary, we need vit D too) UV exposure. The goal isn't to fear a tan, it's to prevent avoidable sun damage.

First of all, India has an extremely high UV index for most of the year. If you don't prevent further tanning, no amount of product is going to keep up. Aggressive sun protection and covering up are far more effective than chasing miracle products.

A tan fades naturally as your skin sheds pigmented cells, usually over 2-6 weeks, but you can help it fade more evenly and safely.

1. Use sunscreen every day (PS: pls check PA ratings)

  • Protects your skin
  • Don't just look at the SPF, look at the PA rating too. SPF mainly protects against UVB (sunburn), while UVA is a major contributor to tanning, pigmentation, and photoaging. Ideally, choose a sunscreen with SPF 30 or 50+ and PA+++ or, preferably, PA++++. Basically, we need a broad-spectrum sunscreen.
  • Reapply if you're outdoors for more than 2 hours or if you're sweating heavily.
  • If possible, wear full sleeves or UV arm sleeves or those UPF jackets while commuting. Duppatta divas look like cool ninjas. I've seen people use umbrellas too.

2. Moisturize regularly

Well-hydrated skin sheds dead skin cells more evenly.

3. Gentle exfoliation (3 times a week)

Use ONE mild chemical exfoliant containing lactic acid or glycolic acid. (precautions listed at last)

Avoid harsh scrubs, as they can irritate your skin.

Physical scrubs, coffee scrubs, sugar scrubs, ubtan every day, etc., won't remove a tan faster. They often just irritate your skin and can leave it looking patchy.

4. Be patient

A genuine suntan usually takes 4-8 weeks to fade if you're no longer getting significant UV exposure. If you're still tanning a little every day, it can seem like it never goes away.

5. Finally... please stop being afraid of tanning.

I made this post because I'm genuinely tired of seeing people associate tanning only with aesthetics while completely missing the fact that it's a sign of sun damage. The priority should be protecting your skin, not chasing your original shade as fast as possible.

From personal experience, after going to the beach, it took me over two months to get back to my original skin tone (yes it took time because I didn't follow any de-tan routines except sunscreen), and that's OKAY. I was just glad it was a tan and not a fucking sunburn.

Your skin did what it was supposed to do: it protected itself. Now just help it recover, protect it better the next time, and give it time. It'll fade.

Precautions for chemical exfoliants

  • Start with 1–2 times a week and increase only if your skin tolerates it.
  • Don't use multiple exfoliating acids on the same area in the same routine.
  • Avoid using them on irritated, freshly shaved/waxed, or broken skin.
  • Sunscreen is non-negotiable. Exfoliating acids make your skin more sensitive to the sun, so skipping sunscreen can worsen tanning and pigmentation.
  • If you experience burning, severe redness, swelling, or peeling, stop using the product and let your skin recover.
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u/DieWalkure6 — 2 days ago

Wavy Hair Journey and a tad bit of success

I never thought my hair would turn out wavy lol. I started researching a lot about hair care in September 2025, and got a hint that I might have wavy hair in October 2025 (after spending tonnes of money on anti-frizz and smoothening products).

Searched up reddit, commented on wavy hair sub, got banned coz apparently the last 2 pictures of this thread aren’t wavy. I was confused asf, posted on the curly sub, and redditors on there backed that I did not have wavy hair and when I shared a picture of my long hair to confirm, I was told that it’s coz I tied up my hair when it was damp.

Why am I sharing all this? Not to prove a point, but to share that if you gotta ask “do I have wavy/curly hair”- you most probably do and give the routine a go!

I’m still experimenting and have a lot of room to improve, but just wanted to let it out here.

I genuinely gave up on my waves after that told me I had straight hair, but picked it up again in may 2026 (5rd picture). I used loreal hyaluron purifying shampoo and conditioner, and arata curl cream and gel.

For picture 3 and 4, I used dedicated a dedicated shampoo for curls, and conditioner too. And I also used fix my curls’ gel and leave in conditioner. And at last, used a mousse and air-dried.

The first 2 pictures are from yesterday where I used the same styling products, but experimented with quantities, and used a wide toothed comb after leave in. Also, I only used the loreal shampoo again, and skipped the conditioner (ran out).

At night- satin bonnet and pineapple!

I’m open to suggestions because on day-2 I had a lot of frizz and I go to gym 4-5x a week and idk how to handle/tie styled hair😭 I’m afraid of ruining or “denting” it.

u/DieWalkure6 — 4 days ago

Wavy Hair Journey and a tad bit of success (last 2 pictures) 2a-2b hair type, low porosity

I never thought my hair would turn out wavy lol. I started researching a lot about hair care in September 2025, and got a hint that I might have wavy hair in October 2025 (after spending tonnes of money on anti-frizz and smoothening products).

Searched up reddit, commented on r/Wavyhair, got banned coz apparently the last 2 pictures of this thread aren’t wavy. I was confused asf, posted on r/curlyhair, and redditors there backed that I did not have wavy hair and when I shared a picture of my long hair to confirm, I was told that it’s coz I tied up my hair when it was damp.

Why am I sharing all this? Not to prove a point, but to share that if you gotta ask “do I have wavy/curly hair”- you most probably do and give the routine a go!

I’m still experimenting and have a lot of room to improve, but just wanted to let it out here.

I genuinely gave up on my waves after that sub told me I had straight hair, but picked it up again in may 2026 (5th picture). I used loreal hyaluron purifying shampoo and conditioner, and arata curl cream and gel (really shitty products ngl)

For pics 3 and 4, I used moxie hydrorepair shampoo and conditioner (it's reallyyy hydrating, love both teh products). And I also used fix my curls’ gel and leave in conditioner (protein styling duo). And at last, used curl up's mousse and air-dried.

The first 2 pictures are from yesterday where I used the same styling products, but experimented with quantities, and used a wide toothed comb after leave in. Also, I only used the loreal shampoo again, and skipped the conditioner.

At night- satin bonnet and pineapple!

I’m open to suggestions because on day-2 I had a lot of frizz and I go to gym 4-5x a week and idk how to handle/tie styled hair😭 I’m afraid of ruining or “denting” it.

u/DieWalkure6 — 4 days ago

Wavy Hair Journey and a tad bit of success (last 2 pictures) 2a-2b hair type, low porosity

I never thought my hair would turn out wavy lol. I started researching a lot about hair care in September 2025, and got a hint that I might have wavy hair in October 2025 (after spending tonnes of money on anti-frizz and smoothening products).

Searched up reddit, commented on r/wavyhair, got banned coz apparently the last 2 pictures of this thread aren’t wavy. I was confused asf, posted on r/curlyhair, and redditors there backed that I did not have wavy hair and when I shared a picture of my long hair to confirm, I was told that it’s coz I tied up my hair when it was damp.

Why am I sharing all this? Not to prove a point, but to share that if you gotta ask “do I have wavy/curly hair”- you most probably do and give the routine a go!

I’m still experimenting and have a lot of room to improve, but just wanted to let it out here.

I genuinely gave up on my waves after that sub told me I had straight hair, but picked it up again in may 2026 (5th picture). I used loreal hyaluron purifying shampoo and conditioner, and arata curl cream and gel (really shitty products ngl)

For pics 3 and 4, I used moxie hydrorepair shampoo and conditioner (it's reallyyy hydrating, love both the products). And I also used fix my curls’ gel and leave in conditioner (protein styling duo). And at last, used curl up's mousse and air-dried.

The first 2 pictures are from yesterday where I used the same styling products, but experimented with quantities, and used a wide toothed comb after leave in. Also, I only used the loreal shampoo again, and skipped the conditioner.

At night- satin bonnet and pineapple!

I’m open to suggestions because on day-2 I had a lot of frizz and I go to gym 4-5x a week and idk how to handle/tie styled hair😭 I’m afraid of ruining or “denting” it.

u/DieWalkure6 — 4 days ago

Wavy Hair Journey and a tad bit of success

I never thought my hair would turn out wavy lol. I started researching a lot about hair care in September 2025, and got a hint that I might have wavy hair in October 2025 (after spending tonnes of money on anti-frizz and smoothening products).

Searched up reddit, commented on r/wavyhair, got banned coz apparently the first 2 pictures of this thread aren’t wavy. I was confused asf, posted on this sub, and redditors here backed that I did not have wavy hair and when I shared a picture of my long hair to confirm, I was told that it’s coz I tied up my hair when it was damp.

Why am I sharing all this? Not to prove a point, but to share that if you gotta ask “do I have wavy/curly hair”- you most probably do and give the routine a go!

I’m still experimenting and have a lot of room to improve, but just wanted to let it out here.

I genuinely gave up on my waves after this sub told me I had straight hair, but picked it up again in may 2026 (3rd picture). I used loreal hyaluron purifying shampoo and conditioner, and arata curl cream and gel.

From 4th picture onwards, I used dedicated a dedicated shampoo for curls, and conditioner too. And I also used fix my curls’ gel and leave in conditioner. And at last, used a mousse and air-dried.

The last 2 pictures are from yesterday where I used the same styling products, but experimented with quantities, and used a wide toothed comb after leave in. Also, I only used the loreal shampoo again, and skipped the conditioner (ran out).

At night- satin bonnet and pineapple!

I’m open to suggestions because on day-2 I had a lot of frizz and I go to gym 4-5x a week and idk how to handle/tie styled hair😭 I’m afraid of ruining or “denting” it.

u/DieWalkure6 — 4 days ago

How to get back after multiple failures?

My original attempt of CA inter was in Jan 2025. I failed it bcz I stopped studying (family plus personal issues). Again failed in Jan 2026 (family is now tired since they expected me to pass in one go, since i scored really well in foundation in one go)

After that, I've never really studied much, apart from a little bit of accounts and law. I wish to appear for exams again.

My questions are:

  1. which attempt should I target?
  2. the last time i studied things were in 2024. How do I resume everything now? I do have my class notes as I attended classes diligently
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u/DieWalkure6 — 9 days ago

May Skincare Pan

🍄klairs gentle black deep cleansing oil: gave me closed comedones. I have combination acne prone skin sensitive to fragrance. This is lightweight and takes heavy makeup off quickly, but has fragrance. My skin-type handles only micellar water - 6/10 WNRP

🍄Wishcare body lotion: Again, heavily scented. It did reduce the frequency of ingrown hairs after waxing, and helped a teeny bit in my keratosis pilaris (KP) too. Lightweight and good for summers. This was my second bottle. - 8/10 WNRP since I have found better alternatives for KP

🍄Vaseline lotion: love the fragrance, helps a lot in layering and is non-sticky, hence can be used in summers too. Emptied a lot of bottles. - 10/10 WNRP ONLY because I want to try something else

u/DieWalkure6 — 1 month ago

Why did everyone go from hating him to apologising? Inframe: shivprizzz

A while ago this guy was hated on a lot for being with different girls. Why are comments filled with stuff like “everyone needs to apologise”

u/DieWalkure6 — 2 months ago

2a hair (medium porosity)- did a curly routine for the first time, what am I doing wrong?

Products: loreal hyaluron purifying shampoo and conditioner, detangled in the shower

Styled hair upside down when dripping wet

Arata cream: around 3-4 peas, and then combed
Arata gel: same quantity and then scrunched

Plopped for 10-ish mins.

sotc with a silicone serum

I never tried a gel before. How do I have like 0 definition even from a gel😭😭😭 Am I forcing waves or doing something wrong?

The next day they were just straight-ish and looked like unkempt straight hair which had matted

u/DieWalkure6 — 2 months ago

gel recommendations[1c/2a?] Medium porosity

The picture attached is just dove shampoo and a random conditioner.

I’ve tried leave in conditioner from ashba and bare anatomy. Tge latter has a lot of silicones so thinking of ditching it. Ashba gave me slight hold but by the end of the wash day my hair would be straight-ish again. A frizzy mess.

I’m thinking of introducing a hair gel. Any recommendations pls? I wash my hair twice a week. Do gels last for 2-3 days or do I need to refresh?

u/DieWalkure6 — 2 months ago

21F, commerce with maths background, I’m considering aviation seriously and want honest reality check before committing.

  1. How true are claims about pilots being treated poorly or power abuse?
  2. Is aviation still a good long-term career, or becoming oversaturated?
  3. How long did it actually take you from CPL to your first airline job?
  4. What was your total cost (CPL + type rating + living + waiting period)?
  5. How many people from your batch are still unemployed or not flying?
  6. Realistically, what % of CPL holders get into airlines within 1-2 years?
  7. How difficult is it to stay current if you don’t get a job immediately?
  8. Have you seen people leave aviation after investing heavily? Why?
  9. If you could go back, would you still choose this path?
  10. Is networking/relations involved in hiring?

My bachelors will be over in may 2027.

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u/DieWalkure6 — 2 months ago

this meme is funny until you realise it’s your life 😭

indian girls, what actually helped you deal with strict parents / curfews / no independence?

like real strategies. ik gaining financial independence is the most important step, but im still 21 and will be a student till im 24. not “wait till you move out” advice, I mean real things that worked while you were still at home.

I’ve been stuck in a pretty controlled environment for a while now and I need practical ways to start changing that.

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u/DieWalkure6 — 2 months ago