u/Dramatic_Zombie_2208

Hello

Anu po safest gamit niyo pampatay ng ipis na safe sa dogs please.

Hello, puwede ba same day ang trade-in at delivery? O maghihintay pa ako ng 2 days? Sa August 10 daw ang delivery, pero may alis ako ng August 10 at posibleng uwi ko ay August 14 pa. May idea ba kayo kung paano o puwede bang August 15 na lang i-deliver? Kasi nailagay pag-checkout, "ship on August 10." Kaya ine-expect ko mga August 15 makukuha, tapos ngayon naka-"waiting for dispatch" na at "get by August 10." Saka hindi ko na ma-cancel. Before kasi ship on date. Duon palang e ship lol. Nakoo namaannnn 🥲

I have this old workmate/friend. We were kind of close before, but she kept bragging about everything to my face, from every guy she dated (which she keeps changing, and the relationships don't last for a month or two, unlike me, I have a three-year relationship) to how rich her family(while I provide for my family) or her new things (all of which were on loan), to everything. I don't know if I'm insecure or jealous. I just don't want to hear about it or see it. I cut her off. I don't care about what she feels, lol. I'm protecting my peace and focusing on my own path. Am I a bad person? Lol

I don't want to compare myself to you, neither I'm jealous, but I'd rather not see/hear about it. I'm happy for you, though, but do you really need my validation? Hahaha

Hello!

WFH na gusto lang kachismisan. I need new friends. busy na ng mga tropa ko sa life nila at saka WFH ako kaya minsan lang magkita-kita.

You can talk about anything pero dahan-dahan lang sa rant or negative rant, if ever. Let's chika about positive and good things in life.

Let's talk about your next trip.

Are you planning to hike?

Your dating stories?

Currently struggling because my sister will be having her classes next week. Though 4th year na siya, malaki at masakit pa rin ang tuition at weekly allowance.

Nainggit lang ako makita yung mga kakilala ko or ka-batch. Kahit sabihin pa na mas okay yung career ko kaysa sa kanila, makikita mo sila na they're enjoying their own money and spending it on themselves. Pero ako, ikaw, tayo bilang panganay—yung matira na lang sa sahod natin ang para sa atin.

Little to no savings kasi may tuition ng kapatid, maintenance ng magulang, kuryente, at pagkain sa bahay. May sarili rin akong bills kasi I don't live with my family.

Gusto ko lang ng success stories ng mga Ate/Kuya. Sana may mag-share para ma-inspire din tayo. May bunga ba ang pagiging selfless natin?

I want to disappear.

I'm so burnout. I want to rest, but I don't have a backup plan. I'm the backup plan. My parents depend on me. My two siblings depend on me. Even my partner depends on me. I'm a woman, and I earn a lot, pero wala natitira sa akin kasi lahat naka-depende sa akin. Nauubos ako. Ubos na ubos na ako. Na kahit pahinga, hindi ko afford.

Gusto kong umabsent ng 2 weeks o mag-resign at magpahinga ng isang buwan, pero paano sila? Pasukan na. Pangbayad ng kuryente sa bahay. Hindi ako nakatira sa parents ko kaya may sarili rin akong rent at utilities.

Yung partner ko? Halos tax ko lang sahod niya. Around 30k lang. Paano niya ako mabubuhay niyan? Siguro hindi ko maiwan kasi mamatay din ako sa lungkot mag-isa. Nasa probinsiya pamilya ko.

Aso ko na lang talaga ang alam kong nandiyan para sa akin. Kahit ang liit, parang ibinubuhos niya buong buhay niya para ipagtanggol at alagaan ako.

Palagi na lang sila, paano ako? If pipiliin ko sarili ko, kaya ko ba silang makita na mahirapan? Pero ubos na ako. Pagod na ako. Sobrang pagod na. Nasabi ko na ba na pagod ako?

Gusto ko na mawala.

I’m currently working as a US-based accountant earning around 80k net with HMO, government benefits, and taxes paid. Honestly, the compensation was okay and the company was nice at first, but lately I’ve been wondering if the stress is worth it.

When I started, my workload was manageable. I was handling around 6 properties. Then it grew to 9, and now 13 properties. Most of the work is bank reconciliation and month-end related, review of p&l. Balance sheet recon. I enjoyed it at first but with this new client I was given, it’s so draining especially when the books of other properties are so messy.

Some of the counterpart accountants are very hard to communicate with. Sometimes there are no replies to important questions, incomplete support, and it’s hard to balance when the information is lacking. It’s just stressful because it feels like it’s my fault why the books aren’t fixed right away, they don’t want to cooperate. All their bank recons are almost force balance. Tapos ayaw nila question sila. Ahahah Help me so I can help you, please?

Another thing is that there seems to be no growth at all. Many have been with me for longer — around 4 to 5 years — but there's still no promotion. Just more workload but no significant increase.

I think a big factor is that we changed supervisors recently. I really liked my previous supervisor because he was supportive and trusting. The current supervisor is still a bit micromanaging, maybe he's still groping since he was new, but it's also really stressful.

At this point, I feel like I want to find a healthier environment. I hope there's an angel on the subreddit haha ​​🙂