What do I do
I met a man whom I found to be suitable for marriage we both like each other and are like minded when it comes to raising a family religion and I’ve learned so much religion thanks to him because he explains things to me so patiently. In his family the mother is the one who seeks a wife and she has began looking for him but when he brought me up his mom didn’t agree because I’m a convert and she fears the upbringing of her grandchildren by growing with non Muslim influences such as my family. I’m very heartbroken because I genuinely want to marry this man and in my opinion those influences are everywhere and my mom has agreed to not get involved into my children religion or beliefs and to respect it, am I in the wrong? How can I further reassure her to have her acceptance? I’m really heartbroken because I’ve never felt as happy and comfortable with a man as I do with him her concerns are real and valid but I genuinely feel looked down upon for being a convert I’ve always wished for my own Muslim family so I wouldn’t play around with that I wouldn’t let anyone influence my kids, I’m family oriented and all I wish is a family with a good man