Hello,
I recently will start a job and location would be either Mumbai or Bangalore (I can choose). I have never lived in both cities and I am very confused which city to choose.
I have tried to reach to couple of people and got mixed suggestions. At this point in life I want to make good friends and potentially a partner.
Any advice on which city to choose in terms of community lifestyle?
I don’t know how to put this in words but - I am stuck in my life and everything feels like numb.
I am currently in Germany and it’s been almost 5 years now. recently i resigned from my job here and took an internal transfer to India. From past 2 years life have been quite tough mentally and emotionally- i didn’t liked my job plus learning language was also tough for me. I tried personal class, group class - did same level 2 or 3 times but realised it’s not for me - even i broke in front of my language tutor lot of times. Here because of the language I came to am exhaustion point at my job plus my social life is also quite lonely (again not able yo converse in german language).
I never dated a guy in my life; earlier i was too much focused in career that I forgot about me. Growing up being a gay i always heard be financially independent or your life will be miserable. So I worked hard , moved out of india and did quite well here - but never got luck in dating. It was just hookups and fun. Also over time i realised i don’t look that good and hemce always got rejected when i comes to dating. And gradually loosed my confidence in terms of appearance. over years i. became so despate to talk to people that even i randomly started writing hi to people over instagram and try to converse - not for fun but just needed some connection.
As i took an internal transfer to india in bangalore- i am not panicking every now and then as because of the work culture plus I don’t know it would be able to make some companionship or potentially a partner.
I don’t want to go to my hometow in India which is a small village and quite homophonic and even you cannot find any guys over dating apps + my home atmosphere also has been always negative since my childhood as they always fight all the time- this has affected my childhood a lot and i never wanted to be at home permanently where there is always fight and a small place with full of homophophia.
This is led me to work hard, study hard, and I reached germany and also did quite well. But now I came to a point where i feel exhausted, In last 2 years when went home to i dia for sometime thought its a phase and will feel better but it didn’t chance in last 2 years. I could have also tried to look for jobs in other country or an English speaking job in Germany, but i came to am exhaustion that every small daily task feels like a war. And i also tried to other countries a bit but it didnt work out. Going home also is not a good feeling as i will be in that atmosphere of fight plus i am in late 20s and everyone already started asking for marriage (i am out to my nuclear family and they are fine with it).
I strongly feels the need of a partner or some some community friends or wanted to do something that gives me purpose and joy in life. Till now i have always been running away but now i am not able to - i feel dead
I don’t know how to put this in words but - I am stuck in my life and everything feels like numb.
I am currently in Germany and it’s been almost 5 years now. recently i resigned from my job here and took an internal transfer to India. From past 2 years life have been quite tough mentally and emotionally- i didn’t liked my job plus learning language was also tough for me. I tried personal class, group class - did same level 2 or 3 times but realised it’s not for me - even i broke in front of my language tutor lot of times. Here because of the language I came to am exhaustion point at my job plus my social life is also quite lonely (again not able yo converse in german language).
I never dated a guy in my life; earlier i was too much focused in career that I forgot about me. Growing up being a gay i always heard be financially independent or your life will be miserable. So I worked hard , moved out of india and did quite well here - but never got luck in dating. It was just hookups and fun.
Also over time i realised i don’t look that good and hemce always got rejected when i comes to dating. And gradually loosed my confidence in terms of appearance. over years i. became so despate to talk to people that even i randomly started writing hi to people over instagram and try to converse - not for fun but just needed some connection.
As i took an internal transfer to india in bangalore- i am not panicking every now and then as because of the work culture plus I don’t know it would be able to make some companionship or potentially a partner.
I don’t want to go to my hometow in India which is a small village and quite homophonic and even you cannot find any guys over dating apps + my home atmosphere also has been always negative since my childhood as they always fight all the time- this has affected my childhood a lot and i never wanted to be at home permanently where there is always fight and a small place with full of homophophia.
This is led me to work hard, study hard, and I reached germany and also did quite well. But now I came to a point where i feel exhausted, In last 2 years when went home to i dia for sometime thought its a phase and will feel better but it didn’t chance in last 2 years. I could have also tried to look for jobs in other country or an English speaking job in Germany, but i came to am exhaustion that every small daily task feels like a war. And i also tried to other countries a bit but it didnt work out.
Going home also is not a good feeling as i will be in that atmosphere of fight plus i am in late 20s and everyone already started asking for marriage (i am out to my nuclear family and they are fine with it).
I strongly feels the need of a partner or some some community friends or wanted to do something that gives me purpose and joy in life. Till now i have always been running away but now i am not able to - i feel dead
I recently got a offer from deloitte india (not USI) as a senior consultant and they said there are grades 1,2,3 in senior consultant.
I didn’t understood that - could you please help me understand this and how much time it takes from one grade to another?
Hi everyone, I have got an offer from Deloitte Touche Tohmatsu and planning to take the bangalore office.
I have heard so many bad things about Deloitte, it’s work culture and pressure and long hours, promotions and all…1 in 10 people might have said that their experience is good.
I understand generally consulting job is stressful but is so bad that even one can’t breath? or like is so toxic (like people are very toxic)?
I am so anxious and in general having anxiety every now and then. I mean with all that i have heard feels like to re-think if i should take it or not.
I got a offer at Deloitte Consulting (not USI) , I am unable to choose a location either Mumbai, Pune. Bangalore. Any suggestion
If your FIXED COMPONENT of salary lets say is 20 or 25 LPA, then what’s in hand and how do you calculate it?
Also, how does the grades work in Deloitte Consulting (T&T) like Senior con 1, 2 , 3….. and how much time it takes to cross each grade?