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I’m rewatching older BGC and I’m starting to think Redd lowkey had a thing for Aysia and Jada. The way she interacted with them always felt a bit different from how she came at the rest of the girls.

I do think she’s funny and extra, but there are also moments where she takes things way further than they need to go, like something small turns into a way bigger situation than necessary, especially with Jada and the other girls.

Curious how everyone here sees her overall.

After my first diagnostic, I felt like I was starting from zero. Now I can see improvement in how I think through questions, but it still doesn’t feel obvious in timed sections. For people who’ve gone through this, is there usually a delay between understanding the test better and actually seeing consistent score increases?

I did the same hike twice once with friends, once solo. With people it felt like a fun activity, but alone it felt way more intense in a good way. I noticed way more sounds, details, and honestly felt a bit humbled by how big everything felt, it was so peaceful.

Does anyone else feel that shift when they hike alone?

Rewatching rhoa, it honestly feels like nene liked Cynthia most when Cynthia was quieter, more agreeable, and willing to follow her lead socially. The second Cynthia became more confident in her own opinions and friendships, the dynamic started getting weird. I do think they genuinely loved each other at one point, but there was always an imbalance there that eventually blew up.

Cynthia definitely tolerated way more from nene than she would’ve from anybody else in that group, and I don’t think people talk about that enough.

And before y’all jump me because I know how this sub feels about nene😭I like her too, I just always felt like their friendship was uneven.

I feel like people talk about Trina like she was this huge rap legend, but her actual career never really matched that to me. She was known, stayed visible, and had reality TV, but musically she never seemed THAT big outside of certain eras/places.

Do y’all think she was underrated and should’ve been bigger, or do people kinda rewrite her impact because of nostalgia and Love & Hip Hop: Miami?

looking for books that felt intense, psychologically weird, emotionally heavy, or just hard to stop thinking about afterward.

idk if it’s social media, stress, the economy, or what, but people genuinely seem colder now. less community, less empathy, less patience. everyone feels exhausted, distracted, or emotionally checked out all the time. it’s weird because it feels like everyone notices it but nobody really talks about it.

There are so many things I only figured out way too late about skin, makeup, and even grooming in general.

What’s something simple you learned that completely changed your results once you started doing it? Could be skincare technique, product order, makeup placement, anything.

I’m curious how other writers approach their process. Do you fully outline everything first, or do you just start writing and let the story evolve naturally?

I feel like I switch between both and end up getting stuck either way. What’s worked best for you?

Rewatching old episodes , I feel like Dorinda is often shown in two extremes either she’s funny, warm, and entertaining, or she’s in a much more emotional and reactive headspace in group situations.

A lot of her scenes are also tied back to conversations about her personal life and past relationships, and over time it starts to feel like she’s constantly processing things while still being in the middle of group dynamics and filming. It makes me wonder if she was ever actually in a fully stable place during her time on the show, or if we were always watching her navigate things in real time.

I don’t mean that in a judgmental way at all, I just think her RHONY arc feels different compared to other Housewives because of how often her personal life seems to overlap with conflict and emotional moments. Curious how others read her overall journey was there ever a “calm” version of Dorinda on the show, or was that just never really her storyline?

I’m a flight attendant and lately I’ve been feeling really burned out. The irregular sleep, constant schedule changes, exhaustion, and difficult passengers are starting to get to me.

The confusing part is I genuinely love the lifestyle traveling, freedom, layovers, meeting new people, and not being stuck in an office. Has anyone else in aviation felt this way? Did the burnout pass or did you eventually leave?

I had an abortion last Friday. And Since then I’ve mostly felt relieved and back to normal. I’m not full of regret and I’m not having this huge emotional breakdown people seem to expect.

I have a bf and we both knew it wasn’t the right time, so the decision felt clear. It was stressful leading up to it, but after it was done I mainly felt like a weight was lifted.

What’s bothering me now is when I mention it to people and say I’m okay, they get quiet or look at me strange. Like I’m supposed to be more upset than I am. Now it has me overthinking my own reaction even though I know how I genuinely feel.

Been noticing a lot of sellers still pricing and negotiating like it’s a much hotter market than it is. Expectations seem stuck in a different cycle while buyers are underwriting harder and being way more selective.

Creates this weird gap where deals just sit because neither side wants to be the first to adjust.

Anyone seeing the same disconnect or is this market specific?

For me I love solo traveling it’s so peaceful and freeing.
💕✈️Which kind of traveling do y’all prefer road trips, cruises, trains, or flights?

I know Taurus gets called stubborn, but I’m pretty open to hearing people out If I’m presented with factual information or a good point, I’ll change my mind. And if I’m wrong, I’ll apologize. Maybe it’s my Libra Moon + Gemini Rising making me more flexible, I usually keep my opinions to myself unless asked.😭

I’m a beginner BA with experience in requirements, stakeholder engagement, process mapping, and Agile delivery support. I’m trying to move beyond just execution and get more into strategic work better discovery, stronger requirements, and more influence on outcomes instead of just documentation.

For those further along, what helped you make that jump?