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Im 26 and never dated and i know i will never date. I am a very weird guy as in i am not very social. All i wanted is to have a partner, someone to share my life with but i know i have no chances since i am not a social guy.

I have started to see no future for me, no light at the end of the tunnle. I cant force myself to go to work anymore or trhing to find a better workplace. When i think about how lonely and devoid of love my future will be i just lose power and drive to do anything. Sometimes I think what was the reason to be born when its clear I am such a weird guy and nobody will want to be with me.

I wonder, for people that were or are in my position, how are you able to cope with this? I know people say hobbies but it doesnt work anymore. Sport didnt work either and even at work, when im supposed to keep my brain to working stuff, it wanders to the ideea of how i will always be alone. Therapy doesnt work either.

Im 26 and never dated and i know i will never date. I am a very weird guy as in i am not very social. All i wanted is to have a partner, someone to share my life with but i know i have no chances since i am not a social guy.

I have started to see no future for me, no light at the end of the tunnle. I cant force myself to go to work anymore or trhing to find a better workplace. When i think about how lonely and devoid of love my future will be i just lose power and drive to do anything. Sometimes I think what was the reason to be born when its clear I am such a weird guy and nobody will want to be with me.

I wonder, for people that were or are in my position, how are you able to cope with this? I know people say hobbies but it doesnt work anymore. Sport didnt work either and even at work, when im supposed to keep my brain to working stuff, it wanders to the ideea of how i will always be alone. Therapy doesnt work either.

I am 25, 1 month away from being 26 and i never had a relationship. Actually, I have never been on a date in my entire life.

My main problem is that im just not a social guy. I dont have any health problem, im not fat but not fit, im just an averege guy in eastern europe. Main problem is that as i said at the start, I am not social, I dont have any friends( just two three guys online that i have been speaking with for 5-6 years ) and while weird, never felt the need of having friends, just one person in my life to share it with.

My hobbies are also very not popular, anime, gaming and other things that interest me are chess, history, culture, maybe writing or other solo activities. I am really passionate about them and its not that im not up to finding more, but out of all activities i tried i couldnt find any new hobby. I also found out i dont enjoy hobbies that have a lot of people in it.

I dont have any friends now irl. When i was young i used to have some but not now. Weirdly, i dont feel the need of having a friend group. Im not the type to drink a lot, go out party, dont like clubs. I wouldnt mind a good friend if I would ever find one, but until now never met anyone i felt i wanted to create a friendship with.

Problem is I feel the need to have a gf, a relationship. I would prefer someone like me but i know the chances of finding someone like me are near impossible, not to say that i dont meet any girls anyway in the first place. All girls i met in the past, which were online, were not interested in me and my lifestyle. I met only one that was ok with me but didnt want a relationship because of past trauma and decided to be alone. I feel like there is no chance for someone like me, especially nowadays when dating is even worst. Feel like all good girls are already taken and as a guy whos not social is even harder

Im 26 and i see no future for myself, i dont find this life worth living, cant say i had one day in the past 6 years that i can say i was happy to be alive.

I never been on a date. I wanted to have a relationship since I was 14 years old but the truth is I will never have one. I am a weird guy, I dont socialize and dont have any friends and never felt like wanted any. I just wanted one person to share my life with. Since as a guy i cant make the first step its also game over.

I still live with my parents and since i dont see any future i think i will live with them till they kick me out, not that i care too much. I work only 4 days 4hours per day, ofc dont have a lot of money. I bearly resist working those hours because i find no reason to continue this life.

All my hobbies are "consume" hobbies. Anime and gaming thats all that interest me. I tried to find other hobbies didnt work. I tried to go out of my comfort zone and socialize more and it didnt work. Its not me and i couldnt force myself to be fake anymore.

People usually tell you to live how you want, but what happens if your way of life is not wanted by the world itself?

Theres no reason to continue with this life. I dont want to change and its clear this life will continue to be worst so the only way is to find a way out.

Im 26 and i see no future for myself, i dont find this life worth living, cant say i had one day in the past 6 years that i can say i was happy to be alive.

I never been on a date. I wanted to have a relationship since I was 14 years old but the truth is I will never have one. I am a weird guy, I dont socialize and dont have any friends and never felt like wanted any. I just wanted one person to share my life with. Since as a guy i cant make the first step its also game over.

I still live with my parents and since i dont see any future i think i will live with them till they kick me out, not that i care too much. I work only 4 days 4hours per day, ofc dont have a lot of money. I bearly resist working those hours because i find no reason to continue this life.

All my hobbies are "consume" hobbies. Anime and gaming thats all that interest me. I tried to find other hobbies didnt work. I tried to go out of my comfort zone and socialize more and it didnt work. Its not me and i couldnt force myself to be fake anymore.

People usually tell you to live how you want, but what happens if your way of life is not wanted by the world itself?

Theres no reason to continue with this life. I dont want to change and its clear this life will continue to be worst so the only way is to find a way out.

I am 25, 1 month away from 26, and I never had a relationship in my life, actually, I never even had a date, no kisses, no hugs, no handholding, nothing. I am thinking that for me there is no chance and this has affectes my life very negatively.

I am a "weird" guy, as in I am a very introverted or maybe better to say loner type of guy. Dont have friends, I have only 2 guys I talk to online and only online. Never felt the need of having friends, I just dont feel the need of wanting to go out with friends, i dont drink, i dont like places where there are a lot of people.

I tried dating apps and zero succes. I met somr girls online and while the speaking stage was going well, the moment they found out i either had no experience or more important, that i dont really have friends because I am more of a loner, they ghosted me or either told me that they are looking for social guys.

My hobbies are also not popular with girls, video games and anime. I really tried to find other acitivites to enjoy but i just couldnt find any that i wanted to do long term out of enjoyment.

I feel like there is no chance for a guy like me. Not to say that I dont really make the first step and I feel as a guy not doing the first step is game over.

This also affected my life in a bad way. I am more depressed, i still live with my parents , i dont have a good workplace and i also cant push myself to learn to find a better one, even if im capable to do better. When i look at my future i see myself living a lonely life so whats the point?

I see there are more and more lonely guys. Some even have friends group and cant find a relationship so what even are my chances?

I am 25, 1 month away from 26, and I never had a relationship in my life, actually, I never even had a date, no kisses, no hugs, no handholding, nothing. I am thinking that for me there is no chance and this has affectes my life very negatively.

I am a "weird" guy, as in I am a very introverted or maybe better to say loner type of guy. Dont have friends, I have only 2 guys I talk to online and only online. Never felt the need of having friends, I just dont feel the need of wanting to go out with friends, i dont drink, i dont like places where there are a lot of people.

I tried dating apps and zero succes. I met somr girls online and while the speaking stage was going well, the moment they found out i either had no experience or more important, that i dont really have friends because I am more of a loner, they ghosted me or either told me that they are looking for social guys.

My hobbies are also not popular with girls, video games and anime. I really tried to find other acitivites to enjoy but i just couldnt find any that i wanted to do long term out of enjoyment.

I feel like there is no chance for a guy like me. Not to say that I dont really make the first step and I feel as a guy not doing the first step is game over.

This also affected my life in a bad way. I am more depressed, i still live with my parents , i dont have a good workplace and i also cant push myself to learn to find a better one, even if im capable to do better. When i look at my future i see myself living a lonely life so whats the point?

I see there are more and more lonely guys. Some even have friends group and cant find a relationship so what even are my chances?

I am 25, 1 month away from 26, and I never had a relationship in my life, actually, I never even had a date, no kisses, no hugs, no handholding, nothing. I am thinking that for me there is no chance and this has affectes my life very negatively.

I am a "weird" guy, as in I am a very introverted or maybe better to say loner type of guy. Dont have friends, I have only 2 guys I talk to online and only online. Never felt the need of having friends, I just dont feel the need of wanting to go out with friends, i dont drink, i dont like places where there are a lot of people.

I tried dating apps and zero succes. I met somr girls online and while the speaking stage was going well, the moment they found out i either had no experience or more important, that i dont really have friends because I am more of a loner, they ghosted me or either told me that they are looking for social guys.

My hobbies are also not popular with girls, video games and anime. I really tried to find other acitivites to enjoy but i just couldnt find any that i wanted to do long term out of enjoyment.

I feel like there is no chance for a guy like me. Not to say that I dont really make the first step and I feel as a guy not doing the first step is game over.

This also affected my life in a bad way. I am more depressed, i still live with my parents , i dont have a good workplace and i also cant push myself to learn to find a better one, even if im capable to do better. When i look at my future i see myself living a lonely life so whats the point?

I see there are more and more lonely guys. Some even have friends group and cant find a relationship so what even are my chances?