u/Emergency-Yam-8991

Hello! Need a recommendation for a backpack. Will be giving it as a gift.

I accidentally found out that my mother (43) is taking contraceptive pills when I was only looking for a marker pen in her bag. I figured out that the reason she's been coming home late (3am to 4am) is because of this guy. I know the usual time she goes home since madalas akong nagpupuyat kaya nung napansin ko na halos mag-iba na yung oras at routine niya, iba na yung kutob ko.

Another day, gamit ko yung phone niya nung may pinapaayos siya sa'kin regarding sa bank account niya and I was looking for the older messages of her bank when I stumbled upon their conversation. Nabasa ko how they planned to meet up every after work 10PM at madalas pang nagpaparinig tong lalaki na wala raw pangkain kaya pinapadalhan ng nanay ko ng pera o dinadalhan ng pagkain everytime pumupunta siya.

May nabasa pa ako na nanghihingi itong lalaki ng 3k, different weeks para sa pagbabayad daw dahil may sakit ang tatay niya tapos may babayaran daw para sa motor niya. Another text I saw nanghihingi ang lalaki ng tulong para sa visa application niya dahil walang wala na raw. I am so mad at my mother for being so stupid and at this guy for being a gold digging ass.

I searched this guy's number online and saw his name. Of course, as a daughter, since my father died in 2023, I should accept my mother being happy with this guy, but ibang usapan na to na napapansin ko na parang madalas pang nawawawalan ng pera tong nanay ko. I saw my mother recently withdraw 5k amount of money sa bank transaction niya, magkaibang araw. Tapos ang sagot niya lang sakin para daw sa gastusin sa bahay namin? Bakit siya magwwithdraw ng pera para sa bahay, never nawalan ng pera sa bahay! Laging may pera na nasa bahay! Malayo pa ang bayaran ng bills, kaya bakit siya magwwithdraw ng ganung kalaking pera?!

When I searched the guy's account, naka-lock ang account, pero yung mga post na nakatag siya? HE HAS A WIFE AND CHILDREN. My mind was a mess, thinking na my mom is letting herself be a mistress. I KNOW I'M WRONG FOR INVADING THEIR PRIVACY.

Just today, I messaged the wife: "Is this your husband's number?"

And you know what the wife told me? "Who's this? I don't know him". The wife called me several times only asking kung sino ba ako pero di ko rin nasagot since late ko na nakita.

HINDI NIYA ALAM YUNG NUMBER NG ASAWA NIYA O NAGTATANGA-TANGAHAN LANG? Tapos after kong i-send ang screenshot na nasa profile niya na kasama yung asawa niya, bigla niya akong blinock???? AYAN BA YUNG WALANG ALAM AT HINDI KILALA YUNG NUMBER NA YON???

I feel like magkakuntsaba tong mag-asawang to para perahan yung nanay ko.

Problem/Goal: How do I tell my mother that the guy she's with, only wants her money?

Context: I accidentally found out that my mother (43) is taking contraceptive pills when I was only looking for a marker pen in her bag. I figured out that the reason she's been coming home late (3am to 4am) is because of this guy. I know the usual time she goes home since madalas akong nagpupuyat kaya nung napansin ko na halos mag-iba na yung oras at routine niya, iba na yung kutob ko.

Another day, gamit ko yung phone niya nung may pinapaayos siya sa'kin regarding sa bank account niya and I was looking for the older messages of her bank when I stumbled upon their conversation. Nabasa ko how they planned to meet up every after work 10PM at madalas pang nagpaparinig tong lalaki na wala raw pangkain kaya pinapadalhan ng nanay ko ng pera o dinadalhan ng pagkain everytime pumupunta siya.

May nabasa pa ako na nanghihingi itong lalaki ng 3k, different weeks para sa pagbabayad daw dahil may sakit ang tatay niya tapos may babayaran daw para sa motor niya. Another text I saw nanghihingi ang lalaki ng tulong para sa visa application niya dahil walang wala na raw. I am so mad at my mother for being so stupid and at this guy for being a gold digging ass.

I searched this guy's number online and saw his name. Of course, as a daughter, since my father died in 2023, I should accept my mother being happy with this guy, but ibang usapan na to na napapansin ko na parang madalas pang nawawawalan ng pera tong nanay ko. I saw my mother recently withdraw 5k amount of money sa bank transaction niya, magkaibang araw. Tapos ang sagot niya lang sakin para daw sa gastusin sa bahay namin? Bakit siya magwwithdraw ng pera para sa bahay, never nawalan ng pera sa bahay! Laging may pera na nasa bahay! Malayo pa ang bayaran ng bills, kaya bakit siya magwwithdraw ng ganung kalaking pera?!

When I searched the guy's account, naka-lock ang account, pero yung mga post na nakatag siya? HE HAS A WIFE AND CHILDREN. My mind was a mess, thinking na my mom is letting herself be a mistress. I KNOW I'M WRONG FOR INVADING THEIR PRIVACY.

Just today, I messaged the wife: "Is this your husband's number?"

And you know what the wife told me? "Who's this? I don't know him". The wife called me several times only asking kung sino ba ako pero di ko rin nasagot since late ko na nakita.

HINDI NIYA ALAM YUNG NUMBER NG ASAWA NIYA O NAGTATANGA-TANGAHAN LANG? Tapos after kong i-send ang screenshot na nasa profile niya na kasama yung asawa niya, bigla niya akong blinock???? AYAN BA YUNG WALANG ALAM AT HINDI KILALA YUNG NUMBER NA YON???

I feel like magkakuntsaba tong mag-asawang to para perahan yung nanay ko.

Previous Attempt: None. Madalas ko lang paringgan yung nanay ko na lagi siyang ginagabi umuwi.

How to convert straight payment to installment po?

My situation:

1. Bumili po ako kahapon ng item worth 50k

2. Ang limit ko po ay 60k

My question is:

1. Pwede na po ba akong mag request ng transaction conversion today?

2. Okay lang po ba mag 24 months?

Pls help me po 🙏

Help me choose a gym pls! Anyone here who has experience in Fit Avenue? How’s the experience? How much usually if may coach or required ba na meron?