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I filed a complaint against my former company for delaying my salary and final settlement. Would this record be made in their account?

Long story but I filed a complaint and it reached the legal team and MOHRE said I will be receiving my money soon. I want to know how likely is this incident going to be in my former company's file? Will the complaint/ record be permanently registered or erased once settlement is reached and paid?

Edit: Contrary to what they pressured me, I did not drop the complaint but allowed MOHRE to go through the process. I am getting paid soon, but is it going to be a record on their file even though it is settled?

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 5 days ago

Bipolar disorder, casual sex and relationships [astro.com]

I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder type 1 with psychotic features in September 2025. I was in the hospital (psych ward) for about 3 weeks. This is after my last serious relationship (Islamic marriage) ended. I had converted and married a man of South Asian ethnicity. I live in UAE, where it's a mix of immigrants from all over the world.

I recently lost my job in the past month. Either due to depression or boredom, I had downloaded an app to pass time or distract myself from the feelings I have been feeling. I met a couple people and had sex with them. Some of them I had shared my diagnosis and I had talked about my past. I kinda relished in the attention of mostly shock, horror, and disgust out of these poor guys (I tried to hookup with girls as well). I had some experience exploring alternative spirituality and occult in the past, in addition to exploring different philosophies and religions. I am fond of art and music as well, however the potential remains undeveloped. I used to like writing and had a knack for public speaking but it seems lost now due to not utilizing. Reading books was a hobby but not lately. I am trying to sign up for a yoga and meditation class to find a new hobby other than ducking people.

To those unfamiliar with bipolar disorder, hypersexuality or engaging in risky behavior is a symptom. I already see a psychiatrist once a month and currently take medication (after I had my relapse when I had a brief psychosis moment - feeling targeted/ spied on). I already started taking steps to be healthy. First I recognized this is a problem (being addicted to dating apps and hooking up) and I started looking for new ways to channel this restless energy by finding or rediscovering hobbies and interests. I also have been going to the gym and eating healthy, partly for myself and partly motivated by my dating or sexual goals. In addition, I booked a counseling session with a therapist to talk more about my condition and ways to help progress my life into a more productive future.

I guess what I'm trying to find out here is, what does my chart say about me or my life in the upcoming months or year? Will I find a job? Go back to school? Find a serious relationship (unlikely but open to it)? Anything I should look out for major changes or themes? I'd appreciate it if someone could look at my chart for a reading. Thank you.

u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 8 days ago

Seeing a therapist / psychologist for the first time in a while

I found an online therapist back home (I live abroad and this option is cheaper) that had some experience in bipolar disorder and specializes in Solution Focused Therapy.

I already see a psychiatrist to help me adjust my meds once a month, on top of taking my meds consistently for the past month (I had a relapse before that, I have only been diagnosed with bipolar 1 with psychotic features for 8 months).

I think it may be a great addition to my care, but I have been dealing with some issues lately that could either be related to my meds making me restless or hypomanic. I have been hooking up with multiple people in a short period of time, and I think I'm getting addicted to dating apps and meeting new people in an unhealthy way. On top of this I have been smoking a lot (which I'm trying to quit). Consequently I'm trying to implement some healthy habits like going to the gym, eating healthy, intermittent fasting for weight loss (that I gained so much on the meds) mostly still motivated by my dating and sexual habits. I think I may have some sort of idea of what I'm doing but a therapy session might still help.

I don't have a question besides has anyone with bipolar 1 sought therapy before for self destructive behavior and made a significant progress? Is it actually helpful and effective than just meds? Any experiences?

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 8 days ago

What makes a girl girlfriend material than a casual hookup?

I'm a girl and I would like to know. I haven't had much luck in dating seriously. But it's the opposite for casual hookup. I think I'm attractive maybe a solid 6-7. I'm 28 and I have a job. Should I just focus on myself first and try to develop my personality and lifestyle rather than chasing relationships?

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 8 days ago

Recommend therapists on Saya app for bipolar disorder

Hi, I'm trying to use the Saya app for the first time. Can you recommend any well rated, reviewed psychologists specializing in bipolar disorder type 1? I live outside the Philippines and I speak English, Filipino and Cebuano.

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 12 days ago

Best elfbars flavors and varieties

I'm in UAE. I have tried elfbar bc8000 disposable strawberry ice and now ice king strawberry watermelon 30k. Which ones do you smoke and which flavors and varieties to try?

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 14 days ago

Hi so I'm currently changing meds. My old meds (Risperidone 4mg and Seroquel 25mg) got changed to Aripiprazole. The plan is to taper Risperidone and slowly increase dosage of Aripiprazole (Compify) over a month. However I am experiencing symptoms of mania like engaging in risky behavior especially meeting new people for sex, reckless spending habits, can't sleep well, being restless, wanting to go out a lot or talk to different people. It's also worth noting I just lost my job and my last working day is end of this week. I feel I'm doing all these things to try and distract myself otherwise I would fall into depression and my insecurities. I feel I might regret some of my choices later once my mood changes.

I'm currently on Aripiprazole 10mg which will go up to 15mg by end of this month.

What other hobbies can I do to stop engaging in reckless behavior? I truly need a friend, but all of my conversations with "friends" just turn out sexual quickly. It's like without bipolar or the things I do when I'm manic I have no other personality. I would truly appreciate if someone reaches out who can understand what I'm going through.

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 17 days ago

And that it's actually pretty common occurence. It could be due to hypersexuality commonly found in bipolar women (i dont have the complete facts on this, do correct if I'm wrong).

I have had wet dreams about other women, but its especially strong when I'm experiencing an uptick in my energy levels. I feel restless and always want to meet new people, both men and women.

Edit: I'm already medicated but I still feel this way. I have been going through a few hookups recently.

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 19 days ago

I just lost my job and I feel insanely lacking in communication and social skills that I feel contributed to that. I also don't have friends. I am painfully introverted and would consider myself INTP if you believe in personality types. Would therapy help my case?

Has anyone with bipolar 1 tried therapy and helped them? This lost of job has also quite triggered small bouts of depression and self pity.

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 24 days ago

Hi I'm 28F and I see there are several revert posts on here. I would like to chat with fellow female reverts from all over the world. We could discuss about anything and support each other. Would anyone be interested if I make a discord channel for all of us?

Edit: Or if you know of one already please feel free to share.

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 24 days ago

Hi, I know there's a sentiment that it's almost impossible to make friends here in this country but I still would like to try.

I live in Sharjah around Majaz 1 Corniche and I would like to meet female friends. We can hang out, go for a walk, sit and talk, and have lunch/ dinner together.

I am also a revert, from a Southeast Asian background, so meeting Muslim friends would be preferred.

DM me if interested

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u/Enough-Worth-5951 — 24 days ago