u/FunDependent9177

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What to do if friend get mad if you dont answer their call even if you talk almost everyday?

Me and female friend talk almost everyday and we can spend hours on the phone and sometimes not even talking.

But recently I've been too tired to talk on the phone. I dont have long hours of work but I've been up late and I've been watching basketball and some livestreams on my free time and by the time I'm done that my brain is too tired to strike up conversations.

But I try not to ignore her so I call back when I can usually before the day is over but when I call back I can tell her voice sounds irritated and instead of saying hello she will say "you busy?" or "you watching livestreams?" or anything else I like to do in a irritated tone

But its obvious if i called her back im free and not doing those things. Sometimes she call two or three times back to back and then I'll panic and think it's an emergency and then answer and she will me a question about her hair which is not emergency important.

Am I being insensitive I do feel guilty when I dont answer.

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u/FunDependent9177 — 22 hours ago