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Rm has been banned from Pixel Project (violence against women organization)

I think the army fan base is too strong and parasocial I dont see BTS losing much support and in a few days or weeks nobody will care as much about the situation

Edit: all the "we are womens before we are Armies" was performative. The fans are just as performative as BTS I guess its the perfect match no wonder Armies are their "girlfriends"

Edit: Judging by the comments Armies went from crying and getting angry at BTS members for visiting Chris Brown concert and getting angry at anyone who said it was ok. And now those same army are saying they will still support BTS and getting angry at anyone who says they are shouldnt. These fans are hypocrites and performative. BTS can do whatever they want this is more of a cultdom than a fandom.

I saw a clips of Chris brown concerts and about 70 percent were black women and you can sprinkle latina and white in there for the rest.

I notice the largest group is black american women (followed by black american men although they arent big concert goers for chris brown)

Online I hear black women complaining about chris brown but in real life its mostly black women keeping his career afloat and his pockets full

Why is that? As a black woman im frustrated

I just got done arguing with a guy who I thought was white on a sub 😅 he talked about white women are better and most attractive and black women bleach their skin and wear blonde wigs all the time. I told him I only wear my natural hair and never bleach my skin and plenty men are attracted to me.

And then he told me he is black man and only dates black women but was just saying how majority of black women are.

I was in shock and it makes me worry about black women dating black men who will look at one as the "exception black woman " and date her while hating the rest of black women.

Be careful your not dating a black women hater that still wants a relationship with us and have sex with us.

I almost went one a date with one until he told me he normally dates latinas but since I was pretty and nice he wanted to date me. Then he had the nerve to get angry when I rejected his date and told him to date a latina instead. He blew up my phone and social media account so much that I had to block him.

Be careful out there

Would be racist of a non black person like an asian person wore a hat that had fake locs attached?

I really enjoy listening to mainly BTS and other kpop bands but sometimes I feel like I shouldn't be supporting but I feel conflicted.

I have seen some racist things in kpop and some things said from BTS member RM about darker skin that makes me wonder if they are closet racist and then I feel guilty listening to their music.

But in general they seem nice and respectful to black people

They seem to love black culture and black american hip hop, rap, R&B and jazz and love our dance styles so I keep thinking they love and appreciate black american people but sometimes I wonder if it's just appropriation and our culture is just a "custom " to perform in to make money.

I don't know if I'm overthinking but am I disrespecting myself as a black woman being BTS and kpop fan?

Im tired of racist trying to tell black women they are undesirable and unfortunately seeing some black women buy into it.

Black women are so beautiful and feminine. Black women have beautiful feminine curves of hips, full lips and curvy bodies and almond shaped eyes. Beautiful melaninated skin that the sun doesn't burn so easily but is sun kissed instead. Black women glow in the sun. Black womens unique hair can be molded into any shape or left as is to protect our head from heat and give us a beautiful soft fluffy crown that is hard to imitate.

Other races of women try to do all those squats and surgery to get some of feminine curves and beauty black women get naturally.

They even copy our style and the way we talk to be considered cool and not corny. There are some music industries that make millions trying to copy the way we sing and dance and even rap.

Everytime we come with a new trend or invention its stolen globally, but racist dont want to give us black women.

And some black men that want to put down black womens dark skin are usually dark skin themselves and they have internalized racism and self hatred issues.

So they try to make themselves feel better than their counterparts by saying we are all rachet, ghetto and too loud for them.

But notice those same black men get angry at the so called "dark, rachet, ghetto, loud black women" if they date a white man or a man of another race.

If black women are so ugly and terrible they should be happy we dated someone else but instead they get jealous and call us traitors and tell us we should date black men only.

The reason why they do that because they know we are valuable beautiful and desirable but they dont want to face their own insecurities. They want to use to feel insecure to validate them.

And If there is another other race of man loudly shouting they dont want to date us its because of their internalized racism not because black women lack beauty.

Thats why racist secretly date black women because they don't want to openly admit attraction.

So dont buy into the lies. Our beauty is God given and we should take confidence in it.

Do you watch the show? What do you think of it?

When black women date white mem some black men have some real nasty things to say about it making her feel like a traitor and telling black women to never go back to dating black men.

But the crazy part is that every single one of these black men have dated a white women before. And those same black men never have outrage when they see black men dating white women and say they can date whoever they want.

So I was watching my favorite kpop artist Jungkook from BTS livestream and it was about 4 hours of him playing videos, music and chatting with fans.

But the one video he played of a black person on tiktok had to be a video of a black man talking how much he loved fried chicken and how black people carry hot sauce every where (well I don't myself). And the Jungkook was laughing and found it so amusing but I couldn't help but get embarrassed about how stereotypical it was.

Plus it made me think if he had to search that to get that video or did it just "pop up" on his feed. I dont know I felt like he was laughing at black stereotypes or maybe I'm overthinking im not sure I just felt slightly offended.

I put the link of the short clip from the live at the bottom maybe yall can look at it and tell me if its not big deal or not.

I have been having aching pain 6 days after upper right wisdom tooth extraction and dentist diagnosed me with dry socket. She put some medicine in a gauze and told me to keep it in for 30 minutes it did help the pain but there is some ache. She gave me a syringe to clean the area.

She didn't tell me how often to use the syringe so im nervous to use it. I called the office but they are now closed for the weekend. Im so scared I'm going to do something wrong and make pain worse.

How do you guys feel about non black friends playing music with the n word in it?

Like a lot rap music? Im starting to meet new friends from around the world and I have a korean freind that loves rap and there are a lot of N words in the songs when he plays it should I be offended? I never really notice the N word until other races play the songs.

Rappers should know by now that hip hop is global and that when they put the N word in their songs all races will hear it and play it right?

I need opinions from the fellow black delegation?

How do you guys feel about non black friends playing music with the n word in it? Like a lot rap music? Im starting to meet new friends from around the world and I have a korean freind that loves rap and there are a lot of N words in the songs when he plays it should I be offended? I never really notice the N word until other races play the songs.

Rappers should know by now that hip hop is global and that when they put the N word in their songs all races will hear it and play it right?

I need opinions from the fellow black delegation?

I do have space but want to say no but want to know if I'm wrong.

To make a long story short. My friend will be leaving to another state for three months. She said she wants to come back even though she is not completely sure if she can.

She has a husband that can take her car but they argued a few days ago and not talking to him right now ( they fight she ignores him for a few days then they talk again). She dont live with her husband right now but they are still technically married.

The thing I would say yes but I dont want to be in between her husband and her. Her husband is emotionally abusive to her and threatened to get a gun on the phone with her one time when she was over my house because he thought she was cheating. Me and her husband also got into an argument before so I dont talk to him anymore.

So I'm worried while shes gone he's going to want the car and she might tell him no and he might find out its at my house and I might be in the middle of some drama.

But am I over thinking this? Will I be a bad friend if I say no?