u/Fun_Equipment_1531

I wish to understand traits of an abusive and non abusive human

It can be a friend, partner ,parents etc.

I keep hearing that "everyone is human and people make mistakes," especially about parents, close friends, or partners who deeply hurt someone during the worst period of their life.

My question is: where do you draw the line between a genuine mistake and a conscious choice that someone is responsible for?

If the harm contributed to long-term mental health problems, and the people involved either abandoned you or said things that caused lasting damage, is forgiveness something you owe them? Or is it reasonable to decide not to forgive?

How do you distinguish compassion for someone's humanity from minimizing the consequences of what they chose to do?

I'm interested in psychological and philosophical perspectives, not just personal opinions.

I am applying to some high ranking fashion Institutes in Europe like UAL, Glasgow University of Arts

They do provide scholarships, but even if I get it, I won't be able to afford the tuition fees.

Are there any ways that I can fund my education?

I want to study fashion design, but my rank is not that good to get into top campuses, but I might get other courses at campuses like channai and kolkata which I don't want to study like leather design.

So this is one thing, secondly if I have choices like nift kangra, kannur, which one is better and how? Also I am from North indian so concerned about food and also safety as a female.

My top choice is fashion design but I can look for firstly textile the knitwear and then accessory design.