Rate all my Dssa’s! ( I have OCD, anxiety, and ADHD)

Starting from left to right we have.
Sharon
Weliber
Mayberry
Bella, on top of Bella Scruffles
Marley, on top of Marley Kiki
And Rose.
I hand sew all there gear and if you have any tips for that please comment them.

u/FuzzyLlam-a — 16 days ago

My ESSA Rose

Hello I am new to the community and this it rose my ESSA she’s fairly new I make all her gear myself (bc real gear is expensive) she is an Australian Shepard border collie mix rescue. If you have any questions or tips please put them in to comments.

u/FuzzyLlam-a — 18 days ago

Rate my hand sewing area! ?/10

In the 1st photo you will find the location
In the second photo you will find my kit and sphere magnets to hold my needle and scissors
In the last photo you with find fabrics and other miscellaneous items

u/FuzzyLlam-a — 29 days ago

AITAH/ My friend and I got into a fight and she gaslight the friend group.

My friend group all has electric bikes or scooters that the ride around except me. We were riding around and my friend I’ll call her Layla got a bug in her eye and kept going then my friend I’ll call her Nyrah stopped and we were talking (forgot to mention this is not on a real road just in the neighborhood we all live in) and Layla crashed into Nyrah’s scooter scraping the side off it because her peg hit it. Everyone was fine except for a minor scratch that healed overnight but most importantly Layla kept blaming everyone but herself for the crash she caused .

Later we were with are younger siblings and they wanted to play a game. On person was the police and all the mailboxes were stoplights, the police would shout the color of the light and all normal road rules applied including we had to make turn signal noises with are mouths.

My little sister Lily (10 F) was the cop we were playing with a large amount of people my whole friend group and her friend Braylee. I went down the hill to turn and everyone else was ahead of me because the have electric bikes and scooters. Lily shouted Red,Yellow,Green,Yellow,Red which caused confusion of some people stopping and some going the to people in the front stopped but me just coming up the hill thought it was green.

Mind you I don’t have breaks my bike is very old and I don’t have breaks other then my foot dragging on the road.(which has already made such a big hole in my Walmart shoes to the point where when I bike my big toe can feel the breeze.)

So I crash into the person in front of me.They were fine but Nyrah however gets crashed into on her scooter and her chest goes over the handle bars she was fine after pouting (Adult by the way) for a while and now she has a small bruise but we’ll all agreed it was Lily fault she said sorry and we continue playing.

However the next day in the GC Nyrah changes the name to “Lily the worst cop” Lily tells me to text in the GC that she is leaving and everyone asks why she said it hurt her feelings and I reminded everyone that she is 10 nobody seemed to care and we got into a full fight me mostly speaking for Lily.

Then Layla said “Seems like you and Sanjay were the only ones that didn’t get hurt yesterday💔” when nobody was even talking about her crash. I said we weren’t even talking about that she ignored that and went on to say I got badly hurt when yesterday when we asked her she said yeah I’m fine.

Then she said and it was completely her fault . And I said oh really because yesterday it seemed to be everyone but your fault. Everyone agreed that her words were being twisted even after she was full on yelling and cussing at us blaming us.

She was like no your twisting my words and went on about how she (my best friend since her birth) hated me for twisting her words. Sanjay the only boy in the group repeatedly told everyone to chill which of course only flamed the fire.

I took myself out of the GC somebody added me back and asked why I left I said I don’t want to be in a GC with people that are being stupid unreasonable and narcissistic. Then Layla texted you know you made me cry thinking I truly was stupid.

(For this part you need to know that of us to she was always the pretty one the cool and werid one “nobody understands”) I said great she said that not nice to say to a friend. I said no matter how many times I say your gorgeous smart and funny it doesn’t matter does it but as soon is I address that your being stupid you care like your life depends on it. I said “you say awful stuff about everyone as soon as somthing little happens like they eat your chip.” Things little calling your little sister (7) the B word when she asked to share your snack then begging her to not tell their mom.

She says awful things about me and my body and laughs when I tell her to stop her defense was that it was funny?? Then she repeatedly called me asking to talk it out and said why won’t you answer r u scared then asked me to meet her somewhere I turned down both. Then she said I was dragging it out and my defense was she was dragging it out by trying to call me and make her meet her. At the end I texted her privately and said” I am sorry and I want to apologize but I also think you should apologize even if you don’t mean it but I also can’t control you” she responded quickly with a one word sorry and I responded with and apology about us both being wrong.(I didn’t mean a word just wanted this to end)

So redit am I wrong or not

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u/FuzzyLlam-a — 29 days ago

First embroidery project as a seamstress!!!Please give advice on how to improve!

u/FuzzyLlam-a — 29 days ago

Trying to make cat coasters that I saw have any advice(I’m a beginner)3rd project

Also I don’t know how to put my needle in the wooden thing in the picture is anyone could help me.

u/FuzzyLlam-a — 1 month ago

Am I in the wrong here/ Me and my best friend got into a fight and she ended up gaslighting the whole group.

My friend group all has electric bikes or scooters that the ride around except me. We were riding around and my friend I’ll call her Layla got a bug in her eye and kept going then my friend I’ll call her Nyrah stopped and we were talking (forgot to mention this is not on a real road just in the neighborhood we all live in) and Layla crashed into Nyrah’s scooter scraping the side off it because her peg hit it. Everyone was fine except for a minor scratch that healed overnight but most importantly Layla kept blaming everyone but herself for the crash she caused . Later we were with are younger siblings and they wanted to play a game. On person was the police and all the mailboxes were stoplights, the police would shout the color of the light and all normal road rules applied including we had to make turn signal noises with are mouths. My little sister Lily (10 F) was the cop we were playing with a large amount of people my whole friend group and her friend Braylee. I went down the hill to turn and everyone else was ahead of me because the have electric bikes and scooters. Lily shouted Red,Yellow,Green,Yellow,Red which caused confusion of some people stopping and some going the to people in the front stopped but me just coming up the hill thought it was green. Mind you I don’t have breaks my bike is very old and I don’t have breaks other then my foot dragging on the road.(which has already made such a big hole in my Walmart shoes to the point where when I bike my big toe can feel the breeze.)So I crash into the person in front of me.They were fine but Nyrah however gets crashed into on her scooter and her chest goes over the handle bars she was fine after pouting for a while and now she has a small bruise but we’ll all agreed it was Lily fault she said sorry and we continue playing. However the next day in the GC Nyrah changes the name to “Lily the worst cop” Lily tells me to text in the GC that she is leaving and everyone asks why she said it hurt her feelings and I reminded everyone that she is 10 nobody seemed to care and we got into a full fight me mostly speaking for Lily.Then Layla said “Seems like you and Sanjay were the only ones that didn’t get hurt yesterday💔” when nobody was even talking about her crash. I said we weren’t even talking about that she ignored that and went on to say I got badly hurt when yesterday when we asked her she said yeah I’m fine. Then she said and it was completely her fault . And I said oh really because yesterday it seemed to be everyone but your fault. Everyone agreed that her words were being twisted even after she was full on yelling and cussing at us blaming us. She was like no your twisting my words and went on about how she (my best friend since her birth) hated me for twisting her words. Sanjay the only boy in the group repeatedly told everyone to chill which of course only flamed the fire. I took myself out of the GC somebody added me back and asked why I left I said I don’t want to be in a GC with people that are being stupid unreasonable and narcissistic. Then Layla texted you know you made me cry thinking I truly was stupid. (For this part you need to know that of us to she was always the pretty one the cool and werid one “nobody understands”) I said great she said that not nice to say to a friend. I said no matter how many times I say your gorgeous smart and funny it doesn’t matter does it but as soon is I address that your being stupid you care like your life depends on it. I said you say awful stuff about everyone as soon as somthing little happens like they eat your chip. Things little calling your little sister (7) the B word when she asked to share your snack then begging her to not tell their mom.
She says awful things about me and my body and laughs when I tell her to stop her defense was that it was funny?? Then she repeatedly called me asking to talk it out and said why won’t you answer r u scared then asked me to meet her somewhere I turned down both. Then she said I was dragging it out and my defense was she was dragging it out by trying to call me and make her meet her. At the end I texted her privately and said” I am sorry and I want to apologize but I also think you should apologize even if you don’t mean it but I also can’t control you” she responded quickly with a one word sorry and I responded with and apology about us both being wrong.(I didn’t mean a word just wanted this to end) So redit am I wrong or not.

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u/FuzzyLlam-a — 1 month ago

AITAH/ My best friend gaslighted my friend group and turned herself into the victim

My friend group all has electric bikes or scooters that the ride around except me. We were riding around and my friend I’ll call her Layla got a bug in her eye and kept going then my friend I’ll call her Nyrah stopped and we were talking (forgot to mention this is not on a real road just in the neighborhood we all live in) and Layla crashed into Nyrah’s scooter scraping the side off it because her peg hit it. Everyone was fine except for a minor scratch that healed overnight but most importantly Layla kept blaming everyone but herself for the crash she caused . Later we were with are younger siblings and they wanted to play a game. On person was the police and all the mailboxes were stoplights, the police would shout the color of the light and all normal road rules applied including we had to make turn signal noises with are mouths. My little sister Lily (10 F) was the cop we were playing with a large amount of people my whole friend group and her friend Braylee. I went down the hill to turn and everyone else was ahead of me because the have electric bikes and scooters. Lily shouted Red,Yellow,Green,Yellow,Red which caused confusion of some people stopping and some going the to people in the front stopped but me just coming up the hill thought it was green. Mind you I don’t have breaks my bike is very old and I don’t have breaks other then my foot dragging on the road.(which has already made such a big hole in my Walmart shoes to the point where when I bike my big toe can feel the breeze.)So I crash into the person in front of me.They were fine but Nyrah however gets crashed into on her scooter and her chest goes over the handle bars she was fine after pouting for a while and now she has a small bruise but we’ll all agreed it was Lily fault she said sorry and we continue playing. However the next day in the GC Nyrah changes the name to “Lily the worst cop” Lily tells me to text in the GC that she is leaving and everyone asks why she said it hurt her feelings and I reminded everyone that she is 10 nobody seemed to care and we got into a full fight me mostly speaking for Lily.Then Layla said “Seems like you and Sanjay were the only ones that didn’t get hurt yesterday💔” when nobody was even talking about her crash. I said we weren’t even talking about that she ignored that and went on to say I got badly hurt when yesterday when we asked her she said yeah I’m fine. Then she said and it was completely her fault . And I said oh really because yesterday it seemed to be everyone but your fault. Everyone agreed that her words were being twisted even after she was full on yelling and cussing at us blaming us. She was like no your twisting my words and went on about how she (my best friend since her birth) hated me for twisting her words. Sanjay the only boy in the group repeatedly told everyone to chill which of course only flamed the fire. I took myself out of the GC somebody added me back and asked why I left I said I don’t want to be in a GC with people that are being stupid unreasonable and narcissistic. Then Layla texted you know you made me cry thinking I truly was stupid. (For this part you need to know that of us to she was always the pretty one the cool and werid one “nobody understands”) I said great she said that not nice to say to a friend. I said no matter how many times I say your gorgeous smart and funny it doesn’t matter does it but as soon is I address that your being stupid you care like your life depends on it. I said you say awful stuff about everyone as soon as somthing little happens like they eat your chip. Things little calling your little sister (7) the B word when she asked to share your snack then begging her to not tell their mom.
She says awful things about me and my body and laughs when I tell her to stop her defense was that it was funny?? Then she repeatedly called me asking to talk it out and said why won’t you answer r u scared then asked me to meet her somewhere I turned down both. Then she said I was dragging it out and my defense was she was dragging it out by trying to call me and make her meet her. At the end I texted her privately and said” I am sorry and I want to apologize but I also think you should apologize even if you don’t mean it but I also can’t control you” she responded quickly with a one word sorry and I responded with and apology about us both being wrong.(I didn’t mean a word just wanted this to end) So redit am I wrong or not.

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u/FuzzyLlam-a — 1 month ago
▲ 2 r/u_FuzzyLlam-a+1 crossposts

Am I in the wrong here/ Me and my best friend got into a fight and she ended up gaslighting the whole group.

My friend group all has electric bikes or scooters that the ride around except me. We were riding around and my friend I’ll call her Layla got a bug in her eye and kept going then my friend I’ll call her Nyrah stopped and we were talking (forgot to mention this is not on a real road just in the neighborhood we all live in) and Layla crashed into Nyrah’s scooter scraping the side off it because her peg hit it. Everyone was fine except for a minor scratch that healed overnight but most importantly Layla kept blaming everyone but herself for the crash she caused . Later we were with are younger siblings and they wanted to play a game. On person was the police and all the mailboxes were stoplights, the police would shout the color of the light and all normal road rules applied including we had to make turn signal noises with are mouths. My little sister Lily (10 F) was the cop we were playing with a large amount of people my whole friend group and her friend Braylee. I went down the hill to turn and everyone else was ahead of me because the have electric bikes and scooters. Lily shouted Red,Yellow,Green,Yellow,Red which caused confusion of some people stopping and some going the to people in the front stopped but me just coming up the hill thought it was green. Mind you I don’t have breaks my bike is very old and I don’t have breaks other then my foot dragging on the road.(which has already made such a big hole in my Walmart shoes to the point where when I bike my big toe can feel the breeze.)So I crash into the person in front of me.They were fine but Nyrah however gets crashed into on her scooter and her chest goes over the handle bars she was fine after pouting for a while and now she has a small bruise but we’ll all agreed it was Lily fault she said sorry and we continue playing. However the next day in the GC Nyrah changes the name to “Lily the worst cop” Lily tells me to text in the GC that she is leaving and everyone asks why she said it hurt her feelings and I reminded everyone that she is 10 nobody seemed to care and we got into a full fight me mostly speaking for Lily.Then Layla said “Seems like you and Sanjay were the only ones that didn’t get hurt yesterday💔” when nobody was even talking about her crash. I said we weren’t even talking about that she ignored that and went on to say I got badly hurt when yesterday when we asked her she said yeah I’m fine. Then she said and it was completely her fault . And I said oh really because yesterday it seemed to be everyone but your fault. Everyone agreed that her words were being twisted even after she was full on yelling and cussing at us blaming us. She was like no your twisting my words and went on about how she (my best friend since her birth) hated me for twisting her words. Sanjay the only boy in the group repeatedly told everyone to chill which of course only flamed the fire. I took myself out of the GC somebody added me back and asked why I left I said I don’t want to be in a GC with people that are being stupid unreasonable and narcissistic. Then Layla texted you know you made me cry thinking I truly was stupid. (For this part you need to know that of us to she was always the pretty one the cool and werid one “nobody understands”) I said great she said that not nice to say to a friend. I said no matter how many times I say your gorgeous smart and funny it doesn’t matter does it but as soon is I address that your being stupid you care like your life depends on it. I said you say awful stuff about everyone as soon as somthing little happens like they eat your chip. Things little calling your little sister (7) the B word when she asked to share your snack then begging her to not tell their mom.
She says awful things about me and my body and laughs when I tell her to stop her defense was that it was funny?? Then she repeatedly called me asking to talk it out and said why won’t you answer r u scared then asked me to meet her somewhere I turned down both. Then she said I was dragging it out and my defense was she was dragging it out by trying to call me and make her meet her. At the end I texted her privately and said” I am sorry and I want to apologize but I also think you should apologize even if you don’t mean it but I also can’t control you” she responded quickly with a one word sorry and I responded with and apology about us both being wrong.(I didn’t mean a word just wanted this to end) So redit am I wrong or not.

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u/FuzzyLlam-a — 1 month ago