u/GL1tCh1_KitCh13

NO 18+!!⚠️

💜Hi! My name is Kitchi and I’m 15, turning 16 this month actually!

💜I am from England! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿
I love Minecraft, Roblox, Music, Pokemon and Maskmaking. I also draw and I like to make digital music on GarageBand.

💜I mainly listen to all different types of music, but here are some of the bands I listen to!
Foo Fighters
Pearl Jam
Slipknot
The Traveling Wilburys
Negative XP (he’s a 1 man band)
The Hives
AC/DC
(Sometimes game soundtracks, like Minecraft)
Linkin Park
And there are loads more!
My 2 favourite songs are;
Handle With Care by The Traveling Wilburys
Scott Pilgrim vs. The World by Negative XP

💜I normally watch interrogation videos on YouTube, and very recently I started watching Wemmbu! Only like a week ago though!

💜I’m currently in the process of getting a diagnosis for autism/adhd, and I struggle socially and am not good at making friends. I’m looking for someone who I can have a long-term friendship with.

💜I also don’t like being isolated and it’s happened a lot.

💜As your friend, I will always be here for you and be a safe person for you to vent to about your problems, and we can always play games online together! I have a LOT of time on my hands and don’t really have a social life irl so I’ll normally always be available! I’m also good to go on calls because I enjoy talking to people!

💜So I hope we can be friends! 🦄🌈 :D

NO 18+ DO NOT INTERACT!! ⚠️

💜Hi! My name is Kitchi and I’m 15, turning 16 this month actually!

💜I am from England! 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿
I love Minecraft, Roblox, Music, Pokemon and Maskmaking. I also draw and I like to make digital music on GarageBand.

💜I mainly listen to all different types of music, but here are some of the bands I listen to!
Foo Fighters
Pearl Jam
Slipknot
The Traveling Wilburys
Negative XP (he’s a 1 man band)
The Hives
AC/DC
(Sometimes game soundtracks, like Minecraft)
Linkin Park
And there are loads more!
My 2 favourite songs are;
Handle With Care by The Traveling Wilburys
Scott Pilgrim vs. The World by Negative XP

💜I normally watch interrogation videos on YouTube, and very recently I started watching Wemmbu! Only like a week ago though!

💜I’m currently in the process of getting a diagnosis for autism/adhd, and I struggle socially and am not good at making friends. I’m looking for someone who I can have a long-term friendship with.

💜I also don’t like being isolated and it’s happened a lot.

💜As your friend, I will always be here for you and be a safe person for you to vent to about your problems, and we can always play games online together! I have a LOT of time on my hands and don’t really have a social life irl so I’ll normally always be available! I’m also good to go on calls because I enjoy talking to people!

💜So I hope we can be friends! 🦄🌈 :D

I’m honestly really worried about him and I want to make sure he’s ok. He’s blocked everyone’s numbers including mine. My other friend’s mum found him luckily and obviously brought him back home.

He’s at breaking point and I’m not going to go into detail about it here for his privacy but I hate seeing him go through this and I just want to help him. After everything he’s told me and us both having similar issues I just can’t stand seeing him like that.

I highly doubt he is going to be in school for a while now because of this, so communication is going to be hard for a bit but I just want to make sure he’s alright. If he unblocks my number (which I doubt he will due to his current state in general) I’ll message him, and if he is allowed into school I’ll go and check on him.

I was really scared and so were my other friends when I heard he’d gone missing. I couldn’t stop crying but I was relieved when I heard he had been found.

He needs help and he needs to speak to a professional. I just want to be there for him.

Does anyone have any advice on what I can do to support him?

So I would do anything for my friends.
I would make sure they had gifts on their birthdays, I was always bringing in food to share with them all, I allowed them to use my things, I would hug them, I offered them support and said I’d always be there for them whenever they needed someone, I even went as far as walking for an hour to give one of them something they needed during the holidays.

Everything was going great! They became the main reason I was so excited to go in seen as I have never really had friends before. I was added to the group chat and we would all play Roblox together sometimes. One of them even came over to my house! I was always available whenever they needed me.

One of them in particular had previously been trying to help me with my struggles and he was doing it really well. He genuinely helped me out a lot. He was the one who came over. For someone who also struggles he genuinely was amazing and I appreciated everything he did.

It lasted for around 4 months.
Despite them knowing I can be quite insecure about myself, things took a turn for the worst after me and him got into an argument 3 weeks ago.
I was in a really bad headspace on that day, and they could clearly see I was overwhelmed. I didn’t mean to do it but I lashed out and said that he hates me and wishes I would disappear, to which he got angry at me and said “when have I said that?!”

I was really upset and regretted what I had said. I apologised to him the next day and he said it was fine and that he also wanted things to go back to normal. However, he was really distant. I assumed that this was because he was still processing what had happened.
Over the weekend, I thought back on what I had said and I decided that I was going to try to ease the tension by not saying anything like that again, so when Monday came along this was exactly what I did. I didn’t bring it back up and things seemed to be going alright, but as time has gone on it’s gotten really bad.

Because of what happened, most of the group have completely turned on me, even though I haven’t actually done anything to the others.
I’ve been trying to fix what I did and I’ve been giving him space over the last few weeks because he has asked for it, I found out through another person, but he is completely ignoring me now, acts like I don’t exist and he seems to be a bit quieter unless one of the other members of the group is there in general. So he isn’t being himself around the others either. He keeps looking over at me and yesterday he glared at me across the room. It really hurts, but I have been trying not to let it bother me. I’ve also been speaking to adults about this too and getting help so then I’m not putting it all on him.

One of the other guys in the group started being distant as well, so I asked him if I’d done anything to upset him as well. He told me he wanted to stay neutral with me, and that he has wanted it to be neutral the entire time but felt bad so he didn’t tell me until then. So he basically lied to me the whole time. He ended up completely cutting me off, blocking me, deleting me on everything and I was removed from the group chat.
He also has been going to sit with another group at lunch which is fair enough. With him people are too scared to speak up.
He even made his sister delete me off her friend’s list.
Thankfully, there are still a couple of people in the group who I can still talk to.

So basically, I was always there for my friends, but I slipped up once, tried to fix it, but it’s been nearly a month now and it seems to be getting increasingly worse. Most of them have turned on me. I feel really guilty.

I was thinking of leaving it another week and then approaching the one who is being distant gently, but I’m a bit scared to do this.

So I would do anything for my friends.
I would make sure they had gifts on their birthdays, I was always bringing in food to share with them all, I allowed them to use my things, I would hug them, I offered them support and said I’d always be there for them whenever they needed someone, I even went as far as walking for an hour to give one of them something they needed during the holidays.

Everything was going great! They became the main reason I was so excited to go in seen as I have never really had friends before. I was added to the group chat and we would all play Roblox together sometimes. One of them even came over to my house! I was always available whenever they needed me.

One of them in particular had previously been trying to help me with my struggles and he was doing it really well. He genuinely helped me out a lot. He was the one who came over. For someone who also struggles he genuinely was amazing and I appreciated everything he did.

It lasted for around 4 months.
Despite them knowing I can be quite insecure about myself, things took a turn for the worst after me and him got into an argument 3 weeks ago.
I was in a really bad headspace on that day, and they could clearly see I was overwhelmed. I didn’t mean to do it but I lashed out and said that he hates me and wishes I would disappear, to which he got angry at me and said “when have I said that?!”

I was really upset and regretted what I had said. I apologised to him the next day and he said it was fine and that he also wanted things to go back to normal. However, he was really distant. I assumed that this was because he was still processing what had happened.
Over the weekend, I thought back on what I had said and I decided that I was going to try to ease the tension by not saying anything like that again, so when Monday came along this was exactly what I did. I didn’t bring it back up and things seemed to be going alright, but as time has gone on it’s gotten really bad.

Because of what happened, most of the group have completely turned on me, even though I haven’t actually done anything to the others.
I’ve been trying to fix what I did and I’ve been giving him space over the last few weeks because he has asked for it, I found out through another person, but he is completely ignoring me now, acts like I don’t exist and he seems to be a bit quieter unless one of the other members of the group is there in general. So he isn’t being himself around the others either. He keeps looking over at me and yesterday he glared at me across the room. It really hurts, but I have been trying not to let it bother me. I’ve also been speaking to adults about this too and getting help so then I’m not putting it all on him.

One of the other guys in the group started being distant as well, so I asked him if I’d done anything to upset him as well. He told me he wanted to stay neutral with me, and that he has wanted it to be neutral the entire time but felt bad so he didn’t tell me until then. So he basically lied to me the whole time. He ended up completely cutting me off, blocking me, deleting me on everything and I was removed from the group chat.
He also has been going to sit with another group at lunch which is fair enough. With him people are too scared to speak up.

Thankfully, there are still a couple of people in the group who I can still talk to.

So basically, I was always there for my friends, but I slipped up once, tried to fix it, but it’s been nearly a month now and it seems to be getting increasingly worse. Most of them have turned on me. I feel really guilty.

What do I do? I was thinking of leaving it another week and then approaching them gently.

So we are going away to the caravan for a couple of nights and I normally struggle to sleep there. I have a bunny plushie that I wanted to bring along with me so I can cuddle that instead during the night.
I told my parents about it and they thought it was really childish because I am 15. We got into an argument about it.
I don’t see the issue. I struggle to sleep when we are down there and I just wanted to bring something that I can sleep with. It’s not like I’m running around the site with it is it? That would be different, it’s just literally to help me sleep.

AITAH?