u/GayCatbirdd

Short question:

What surgery options are there for someone who has had a double mastectomy without any expanders/reconstruction yet?

Longer but similar question:

I have already spoken to a plastic surgeon about what potential things can happen after a Double mastectomy, but I was also wondering what you guys think, my plastic surgeon said I can get implants later on after the double mastectomy/get reconstruction after. Is this true? his thoughts were just get everything removed and if I do not like what it looks like I can always come back to see him and then we could do actual reconstruction/implants. And since I am so skinny my layer of skin is already thin, so he thinks separate surgeries would benefit me anyways.

I do trust he’s correct in this but I would just like to know others agree with this.

As I said I am skinny, and have small breasts, I wanted to go flat and keep my nipples, but plastic surgeon said he could only do a male configuration, but I want to present feminine, so I am seeing first how ‘saggy’ I get and then probably will try smaller implants if I do not like the way that looks.

But do any of you have suggestions on other surgery options, I am new to all of this as I have the BRCA gene and never thought to change my body, I am kinda forced into this. Again I am skinny, so fat transfer isn’t an option for me.

I am not currently looking, but I would like to get a head start on thinking about it. Those of you who are demi and in relationships, how did you do it?
Where did you meet, apps? Irl? Hobbies?

I have crippling anxiety so it is difficult for me to jump into a date early on without actually knowing the person more.

And those of you who are single and demi, hows it going? What has been best that you have noticed for finding people, even if it hasn’t found you a relationship yet.

In the past I have used discord and apps(Her) but these things are not like they used to be, and I would like to eventually find someone closer to me.

Whats the cold tolerance for luna moth cats? I have a hundred that just hatched and wish to release the majority outside on host plants while hiking, but we are currently experiencing a freak cold drop, its mid 40’s F at night here for next 2 days. And next week it’s gonna do it again. Will they survive a drop like this?

Has anyone here had a double mastectomy done with chronic eczema? I have one scheduled for later this year, and was just wondering if anyone before the mastectomy got like a steroid injection or if their doctors recommended to do something different due to eczema.

I get about 3-5 spam calls a day from 866 numbers and 833 and 877 and sometimes even my area code, ever since I added the spam blocker app all it does is block my doctors but does absolutely nothing to stop the constant stream of ai voice message loan calls.

I don’t want to answer the calls because I am scared it will make it worse, but its been months of 3-5 calls a day at all times a day, 7 am 10 pm, its driving me insane, I have 66 voicemails because a week ago I decided maybe if my voice mail fills up they will stop calling, but my box is only 95% full.

Is there anything I can do to stop these?