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Long term relationships

Problem: 4 years and confused if this is worth staying

Context: Would you stay in a long term relationship if from time to time may physical hurt na nangyayari if magka galit kayo or attempted physical hurt.

Is there anyone there na may ganitong experience? I don’t have a wlw friends so I can’t ask my straight friends din because I know they will advise me in a straight relationship pov.

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 9 days ago
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H1B rfe

Is it normal for RFE to be in “response to USCIS rfe was received” for 7 days already without changing status? Has anyone here who got approved and the status is still the same?

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 21 days ago
▲ 45 r/WLW_PH

Is sex really necessary?

Problem: I don’t have high sex drive now unlike before

Context:

She is my first wlw relationship, during our 1st and 2nd year okay pa naman ang intimacy namin sa isa’t isa kasi lagi kami magkasama. And then nag LDR na kami after that and now we’re 5 years already. But lately lagi namin pinagtatalunan ang sex, because ako yung nawalan ng intimacy.

And I don’t know how to explain it to her kasi hindi ko din naman alam kung bakit. But we would do it pa din naman if nagkikita kami, but she wants it to be everyday since LDR nga daw kami. But I don’t feel like doing it everyday :( And she gets mad about it, hindi ba enough yung 1 day kahit LDR?

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 27 days ago
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RFE

Hi! After submitting the additional evidence, how long does it take for them to process it? Or how long after submission will the portal be updated?

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 1 month ago

Manila embassy - h1b

Hello! Im trying to secure a slot for August but i dont know why July, September and October is open but not August. :( Does anyone know if they will open it once July is gone?

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 1 month ago
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RFE

Hello. What is the common evidence they ask for H1b extension same employer?

And how long usually it takes from RFE to approval? Premium processing

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 1 month ago
▲ 0 r/WLW_PH

Long term relationships

Problem/Goal: 5 years, but when we started there was other woman crying because of us.

Context:

May mga relationships na nagiging end game pa din ba kahit ang cause ng relationship is cheating? Our relationships is not on smooth sailing but still we got it this far, on and off but we keep coming back to each other. I don’t know there’s the same situation as ours.

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 1 month ago
▲ 0 r/WLW_PH

Confused

Problem:

Have you ever guys get confused even you’re in a long term relationship? Because I am… I’m confused if I really want to be in this relationship or I want to try again with a man.

Context:

I am in wlw relationship for 5 years, but I have this feeling na hindi naman talaga kami compatible, kada may nakikita akong wlw sa socmeds narerealize ko after na hindi kami ganun. I am an avoidant person in the relationship and she’s the anxious one. Sa loob ng 5 years hindi na din mabilang kung ilang beses kami nag cool off. And now I’m confused, what if bumitaw na ako then magsisi sa huli, or what if hindi naman talaga ako para sa babae.

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 1 month ago

Bukidnon/Camiguin for 3 days or Cebu

Hiii may nakatry ba ng Bukidnon/Camiguin tour for 3 days? Nakakapagod ba sya? Planning to bring my senior parents. Or Cebu City is much better?

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 2 months ago
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UK visa

Hello please advise. I submitted my application already and I didn’t know that standard visitor visa is allowed 3 months in advance only. I haven’t done my biometrics yet, im planning to do it on my 3 month window. Will it be ok?

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 2 months ago
▲ 3 r/h1b

H-1B Premium Processing Filed - How long until receipt notice?

Employer filed under Premium Processing on June 1st, sent via dropbox in California Service Center and still no update up to this day. Is this normal? :(

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u/GirlinManhattan0923 — 2 months ago