u/Gloomy_Enthusiasm754

I am 20M.

Parents forced me into science and then into engineering (tier 2). Now I am dropping out and joining a tire 3 college for BBA. I had many backs so had to. I know in this job market engineering would be better but science, coding aren’t my things and not even those subjects.

So, I HAD A LOT OF FIGHTS like proper shouting etc in past 4 years with my parents due to all this. What should I do? Things aren’t the same anymore between us.

My relationship with my brother has also been spoiled because of this.

Their dream of “ek doctor ek engineer” is over. Relatives and the whole world will be behind them because of this.

Secondly, I am also scared to start this new college and I haven’t lived my life in past 4 years, it’s like I just cried, nothing else.

20s mein you can do 3 things- 1- make your career.2- live your life to fullest. 3- balance these two.

i don’t have any of the 3 things. And career anxiety won’t even let me live life.

have no friends either so just came here to talk about it

Any advice on how to do better in life and relationships would be helpful.

Thank you

I am 20M.

Parents forced me into science and then into engineering (tier 2). Now I am dropping out and joining a tire 3 college for BBA. I had many backs so had to. I know in this job market engineering would be better but science, coding aren’t my things and not even those subjects.

So, I HAD A LOT OF FIGHTS like proper shouting etc in past 4 years with my parents due to all this. What should I do? Things aren’t the same anymore between us.

My relationship with my brother has also been spoiled because of this.

Their dream of “ek doctor ek engineer” is over. Relatives and the whole world will be behind them because of this.

Secondly, I am also scared to start this new college and I haven’t lived my life in past 4 years, it’s like I just cried, nothing else.

20s mein you can do 3 things- 1- make your career.2- live your life to fullest. 3- balance these two.

i don’t have any of the 3 things. And career anxiety won’t even let me live life.

have no friends either so just came here to talk about it

Any advice on how to do better in life and relationships would be helpful.

Thank you

I am 20M.

Parents forced me into science and then into engineering (tier 2). Now I am dropping out and joining a tire 3 college for BBA. I had many backs so had to. I know in this job market engineering would be better but science, coding aren’t my things and not even those subjects.

So, I HAD A LOT OF FIGHTS like proper shouting etc in past 4 years with my parents due to all this. What should I do? Things aren’t the same anymore between us.

My relationship with my brother has also been spoiled because of this.

Their dream of “ek doctor ek engineer” is over. Relatives and the whole world will be behind them because of this.

Secondly, I am also scared to start this new college and I haven’t lived my life in past 4 years, it’s like I just cried, nothing else.

20s mein you can do 3 things- 1- make your career.2- live your life to fullest. 3- balance these two.

i don’t have any of the 3 things. And career anxiety won’t even let me live life.

have no friends either so just came here to talk about it

Any advice on how to do better in life and relationships would be helpful.

Thank you

Any similar recc? LOVED THE MOVIE. Don’t tell the old ones would have probably watched them. Even English ones work. Anything in rom coms work.

Also Nobody wants this is a good one. Something like that as well.

Is this true? Are you sure? I am thinking of joining BBA hons or maybe BSC eco whatever I get into tbh..but exams are online and can be given from home? Like bha tbh I just want the degree mil jayegi aaram se? Also, do business school people require to do one internship in every break or is it just for law school?

I am talking about midterm and endsems not jsat…

The “v” subReddit will delete the post or comments against it so those asking on “v” subReddit here’s the real review.

I am no hater but if I could go back in time I would choose Manipal. There’s no college life in v. Just academics.

Also mahe people what good and bad do you think?

Pros-

No ragging.

No North Indian South Indian difference. ( very rarely).

Placements are okish ( 4-5k students are unplaced in 2026 batch).

Clubs and chapters are good.

0% attendance policy for 9 pointers (very useful but it’s for their benefit only cause managing the crowd is very tough in vit like lifts subways etc so they give this policy for their benefit only)

Diwali vacation is of 1 week compared to other colleges (like 2-3 days). Although this time we have our final exam 3 days after Diwali. And we have exams lab exams right before Diwali vacay so cooked.

Cons-

Less vacations compared to ALL other colleges. Winter are just 10-14 days. And summer are 2 months exact.

VERY OVERCROWDED. Not “bit”. VERY.

Literally takes 10-15 mins outside the lift.

No AC classes (although many colleges don’t, just stating differences compared to my friends).

For boys- outing is chill. For girls- you can’t be even 1 sec late. If a girl is late- 15 day no outing like you cannot step out of campus. And maybe a fine.

Nothing outside the college. A few restraunts and two theatres. Although a bowling alley sort of things opened 6 months ago, it’s overcrowded or closed whenever I have gone (3 times).

Water isn’t good for health or hair. (south problem though).

Night messes are shit. (For boys atleast)

Except darling mess, all other messes are inconsistent with their quality of food.

If you are not a 9 pointer, you don’t get room of your choice. Unless you have 9 pointer friends who can take you in. Although, a friend of mine with 9.8 cg got 3ac and wanted 2Ac. Now you can understand.

There are a LOT of non AC rooms so it’s tough to live in them (varies on one’s pain baring capacity as well).

If you are North Indian. Travelling via train gonna take 24-60 hrs, depending on your city.

PDA like being very close etc leads to 15 day suspension. More than that anything like caught drinking, cheating in exams with phone, chits etc leads to sem back.

No thing called as “clubbing” exists in vit.

We have two midterms (called cats) one is closed and other is open, although open are no easy, one final (FAT) and 3 internals (quiz), the date is announced in classes. Other colleges have 1 midterm and 1 final.

We have so called “FFCS”, where you can choose your teacher and course which is just bs, you will choose 100% of the same courses (they send a list) and maybe one more course that’s all.

There are no assisgmenta now. We have “projects”, instead do of quiz (teacher decides), and these projects can be easy af or tough.

Marking is relative (some other colleges have it as well).

Being a North Indian, you don’t get to go home for 4 months (jan-April) as theirs hardly anytime, south people can.

You are not given any preparation leave for finals, other colleges have atleast 1 week to 15 days. Ours have 3 days (sat sun and mon) at most.

Mostly Saturdays will be working.

When you get a back, you give “make up exam” and you get E (lowest grade), no matter how much you score. And if you don’t want it, you need to fail makeup and repeat the whole subject again. In other colleges you just give the exam and get the grade accordingly.

You cannot live out of the hostels unless you have a parent or guardian who signs the register weekly.

Firstly, you motherfuckers stop spamming the fucking account with your VIT ranks.

Use your common sense that no one knows their that what BRANCHA they are going to get even the chancellor does not know it this year because this is the first time that negative marking has been done

second yes, the exam is RIGGED because you don’t have common sense. If you go and check you will see that there are people were saying we are getting calls from agents who want to offer. So don’t you think that they will be peoplein this world that will accept that offer and will actually pay money to get into this shit hole.

The overenthusiastic ones who want to prepare before coming, VIT motherfuckers live your last 23 months of your whole fucking life because if you’re not a nine pointer in this shit hole, then you are already doomed for next four years, and after that once you are in the job market, you have to cry for life.

Now let’s come to the TEA, so my dear friends, consider this as destiny, turning of tables or whatever you want

Just one question- what action can a student take when he or she catches a faculty making out with another one? (FYI- that faculty is blacklisted and gave me a back, she is single, not sure about the guy) 🥰🥰

When 10-12 hrs of your day are gone in a job you hate.

7-8 hours you sleep.

Rest of the time in eating, scrolling, Netflix, household work etc.

When to enjoy life?

I am alone. My family lives far away from me and we don’t have very good relations.

How to work on spirituality AND WHEN TO LIVE LIFE? Like travelling and just existing etc? When your mind is constantly thinking and worried. Never at peace and rest.

More than spirituality, I want to live, but you just get 15-20 days in a year to actually live.

What’s the purpose of such a life?

I was at hostel office due to some work. Then a warden/teacher enters (he was wearing brown ID). Along with two boys who were shirtless. One was wearing a boxer and other a towel.

Later a friend of their came with their clothes

Were they just smoking or is it what it is?

I was traveling via bus. It was a 3 to 3.5 hour journey, and the bus was scheduled to leave around 2 PM. There were only around 40 to 50 passengers onboard. I had booked the ticket through MakeMyTrip, where the bus was clearly marked as non stop and without washroom facilities.

The bus was already delayed because a couple arrived almost half an hour late, and the driver and conductor waited for them before starting the journey.

About one and a half hours into the trip, while most of us were resting, a young woman around 20 to 22 years old requested the driver to stop the bus so she could use a washroom. The conductor refused and said the bus would not stop. After arguing- he agreed to stop ON THE ROAD. What was frustrating was the complete lack of understanding from him. A man can manage on the roadside if absolutely necessary, but for a woman, especially on a highway, it is neither safe nor dignified.

the bus was earlier stopped because a four year old boy needed to pee on the roadside.

There were also several elderly women and men on the bus, and anyone with basic empathy would understand that older people cannot hold their bladder for long periods. Thankfully it was a girl who could hold, but what if she was 60?

After a lot of arguing and repeated requests from passengers, we finally convinced the conductor to stop near a petrol pump. We had even called the bus company helpline, but they were of no help. What was shocking was that the conductor was not some immature teenager. He was a man around 50 years old, yet completely insensitive to the situation. We even asked him, “What if it was your wife, daughter, mother, or sister in this situation?” But he had no shame in his eyes.

When the bus finally stopped near Dwarka, there were washrooms only for men. The women had to go behind a wall because there were no proper facilities for them.

Thankfully that girl had family With her today, what if she was alone? How would she have told that the shameless conductor told her to pee on the road?

What if it was a 60 year old here instead? What if a 60 year old woman could not sit on the floor to pee? How would she have peed? What if the people on the bus did not stood up against the conductor?

Kindly take care of these things and be cautious when you are travelling alone.

I used ChatGPT to put my words together.

So a lot of astrologers (and after a lot of self analysis) told me that my career will be in COMMUNICATION..and I am like WTF. It’s not the 90s where I will write communication skills on my resume etc. how tf am I supposed to make a career out of communication😭 the only thing that comes to my mind is BPO.

Any suggestions?😭

Also, yes I have good communication skills

When will make up for these fat happen? Like we have some re-fat around 18-20 who are those for?

I am Ted from how I met your mother.

I am desperate for love (for now I have my robin as well), I am unemployed. I hope I find my love.

Don’t tell me anything though, just watched 10 episodes. But I am TED.

Bye. Love you.

I am Ted from how I met your mother.

I am desperate for love (for now I have my robin as well), I am unemployed. I hope I find my love.

Don’t tell me anything though, just watched 10 episodes. But I am TED.

Bye. Love you.

I am 20M. Dropped out of engineering after doing it for 2 years.

I am taking a drop year to explore and prepare.

Now, I am interested in finance. Open to explore other fields as well. Please give me some career guidance!! And wish me luck as well 😬

Took science and engineering due to parental pressure.

Myquals-

10th 91.2% (icse)

12th 69% (isc)

Don’t ask for engineering c

I am 20M. Dropped out of engineering after doing it for 2 years.

I am taking a drop year to explore and prepare.

Now, I am interested in finance. Open to explore other fields as well. Please give me some career guidance!! And wish me luck as well 😬

Took science and engineering due to parental pressure.

Myquals-

10th 91.2% (icse)

12th 69% (isc)

Don’t ask for engineering c

I try to be a good person, staying out of mind games, lying, tactics etc.

In fact I spend most of my time alone. I have 0 friends.

But at times I end up fighting with my parents (like really bad fights). They are hurt and so am I but then I feel guilty

So how should I know if this was meant to be and was my karma or am I creating more karma for me?

I have tried to handle things patiently and with love but it does not work.

So, how to know in this or any other situation that you are burning past life karma or creating it?

I have Ketu in 1st and Rahu in 7th (ofcourse) across ALL my divisional charts. Maybe 1-2 don’t, like there are some who have Ketu rahu in same house (yes it happens).

Would like to get some light on this..what does this mean? Why is it so consistent across almost all charts..I have seen around 15-20 charts and never saw something like this

I think Ketu really rules my life..

So are you a Ketu dominant person and how has your life been? Specially people who are in 30s and 40s?