u/Gold_Tap1007

I'M STILL KINDA CONFUSED ABOUT USING THE LIST METHOD

so i already have a list but how do y'all use? like do i repeatedly write the list daily or just affirm that my list has come true? I'm really unfamiliar with this method ngl and I'm trying not to obsess over it tbh so HELP A GAL OUT HEREHE

i got my piercing over a month ago, around july and I've been trying to clean it every weekly but now I've seen how swollen it is, idk what to doooo and I'm afraid it'll get bigger so i decided to take my piercing off for now.

any advices? huhuhu this is my first helix piercing and my dream is to get many piercings but seems like it'll not work

I feel lonely again Kasi it feels like I'm being abandoned by my boyfriend.

Every night, I've noticed how busy my boyfriend has gotten and ayoko Maging clingy masyado when I know na busy sya but sometimes it feels like he barely giving me attention na and super low effort, gets KO Naman na both Kami may depression but most of the time ako ang nag eeffort.

He wasn't the same as before, dati may school pa sya and he would always talk to me immediately after uwian but now he goes out 2/3pm then uuwi Ng 9/10 pm and what's the hardest thing is we're LDR

Ayoko sumuko on our relationship but there's nothing new and I'm afraid he's doing something behind my back even if he reassured me before that he will never do that but.. idk..

I really want him to be my future husband pero at the same time, I'm scared of getting hurt again.

Help a Girl out everyone! I just woke up and recieved two Voice messages from my Boyfriend Hours ago because I was asleep, I'd noticed that I couldn't react to their messages which made me suspicious so I went to check his IG to see if he's still awake but for my surprise, their messages says "UNAVAILABLE"

IDK if I'm blocked because I can't see their accounts on Search but can see their accounts on message, it's neither they deactivated their account but deactivating can still message and you can react to their messages but for my case I don't know why it does that unless I'm blocked...

Edit: Update, APPARENTLY my boyfriend's account got suspended and we don't know how to fix it..

Natawag akong Oa kasi naka separate yung binili kong Eggs sa ibang eggs sa ref and pinagalitan naman ako dahil naging upset ako ng super nun inubos nila yung isang pack ng slice bread na binili ko, am I overreacting dahil dito??

For context, Inipon ko yung baon ko pangbili ng groceries ko para Hindi ko na need bumili sa canteen ng school at para maka save ng money.

Kinaumagahan nalaman ko na may nag-ubos ng pack ng slice bread sa ref which dapat pang-breakfast ko kasi walang kami breakfast, in short we're poor or more like Hindi sila praktikal, Hindi USO mag stack ng pagkain sa bahay.

So nagalit ako kasi that was mine and I bought it using my baon, instead of an apology or something, ako pa pinagalitan kasi madamot daw ako and about sa eggs naman, Isang dozen ang binili ko which naka separate sa eggs nakalagay sa ref, Two families are using the ref so kaya naka separate yung akin.

I explained naman kung bakit ganon yet napaka Oa at Maarte ko daw dahil I choose to keep what is mine and what I worked hard for.

I want to improve literally everything in my life especially My Academic Performance and My well-being, but I feel so tired and couldn't sleep for 8 hours straight but even if I hit the 8 hours by sleeping twice in a day, I'll still feel sleepy.

Idk what to do, currently planning my schedule because I have classes from 7 am to 2 pm but it feels like I have little time even tho there's 8 hours more before I sleep.

8 hours for sleep

8 hours for School

8 hours for myself (Self-care, Gym, Ect.)

I wanna have excellent academic performance while having good sleep and good mental and physical health.

For Context, I [F18] is planning and determined to start my fitness journey, I was skinny before quarantine and gained a lot of weight during and after it.

And now I'm 5'3, 49 kg and skinny-fat.

Why do I need tips? Because I've noticed when I lost weight, my limbs became thin First instead of my torso which makes me look unbalanced.

I know I should lift more but should I do cardio minimally?? I don't really want to do cardio tbh because I'm kinda scared of losing fat around my limbs again.

Lmk if you have tips ✌️😖

Additional: Planned to workout 3x weekly (Lower, Upper and Full body)

I came to a realisation that I am indecisive,

Idk how to decide properly without messing it up and when I did decide it's neither I can't commit

To what I choose and struggle with it so I'll eventually stop with it.

How do I fix it? Lmk please.

For Context, My boyfriend seems to be calling every Friend that is a girl "Best friend" which is honestly weird tbh and at first I didn't mind but a while back, My boyfriend's ex close friend that is a male spilled that My boyfriend seems to be more focused on Girls or only listened to them.

I honestly don't know what to do with that information at first but I'm not just used to having a partner be extremely close with the opposite gender, He called them Girls "Best friends" but his close Guy friends are just "Friends"

Am I overreacting or WIBTA FOR thinking it's weird and A red flag?