u/Grouchy-Rice-5521

Would a man be okay to pursue a woman who is still unsettled in regards to her career and in the process if building it and looking for jobs ?

Edit: okay to all the new comers reading this, I think most men didn't get my question. Please read the above que carefully and I am in no way doubting your provider abilities nor does a working woman convey that she is going to provide for the whole family.

Hey everyone. I have applied for M.teach at SCU. Thus wanted to connect with people who study there or planning to go.

I know these are the kind of things people would hear or read and say astaghfirullah! But I can't help but feel this way. I feel that Allah is just not listening or answering my prayers. He sees what I am going through but still making me go through it for the last 3 years. I have been jobless , well just did some part time jobs but never been actually employed properly in my field since I finished my master's 3 years ago. I feel so defeated and like a failure in life. My mum is hell worried for me and I feel helpless for not being able to do anything for her , to make her proud. I feel zero motivation for anything the more time passes, then I feel like it would have been better if I was just married ,but I know that would have been a diff set of problems. I am very privileged in my life ALHAMDULILLAH that I can stay unrmployed for so long and still have a roof over my head and food on my plate and clothes to wear, but there is this gnawing feeling that I am wasting my life and ughhhh I don't know. I am 28 years old for God's sake!!

Hey I am here in UAE on a visit and simultaneously looking for jobs in life science sector. Anyone here working in research labs in unis or any company and give me any suggestions how to get any opportunities for internship or job or even volunteering? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks!!

Ughh I have an application to complete. I hate writing stuff for admissions or jobs. Just hate it!!! I can't seem to finish it . It is a lot!! Motivate my guys to do better . Ughhh

So I matched with this guy on a matchmaking app. Then we spoke online for sometime he made a powerpoint for me after 2 days of speaking which said some reasons why we are compatible. Then we started uncovering some of our differences, he said he is willing to meet me halfway on those. Then we decided to meet finally. Our first meet was beautiful. He was really respectful towards me. Then after few days of talking again those differences started fogging my mind and I spoke to them about it again and we had a long discussion over it at the end of which he told me he really liked me and was willing to make it work. I once also put up a scene with him because he didn't reply to me for 7 hrs , he said he got busy at work. Anyway then few days later, we decided to meet again and just before the day we were about to meet, he started replying late to my msgs and finally sent me a big paragraph on how we have different values and all this is going at a pace way fast for him. For the pace context, I just told him that I casually mentioned about you to my family, he took it fine at that time but later on idk he gor scared). I guess I was bringing marriage up and that chickened him out. But I am 28 now and I ain't got time to date around for years and then end up in nothing . Anyway then we said good bye to each other on text. I thanked him for the date again. Now since that day and today I have been thinking about him that how he was actually a decent person or idk i just keep blaming myself that I messed it up and wish for his text to pop up.