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▲ 3 r/rant

i feel so unappreciated

my friends and i planned a week-long camping trip in california. i love to cook, especially for others, and offered to grocery shop and cook and prep if they literally just split the cost with me. i’m paying for my part of the food completely.

i worked 4 ten-hour shifts this week and got off at 7 pm every night. last night i didn’t even stop home before immediately driving with my boyfriend to the grocery store to shop for our week of meals. got home in time to cram all of the groceries into our fridge and head to bed so i could wake up for work this morning. i worked until 4 pm, got home all sweaty and gross and yearning for a shower (i work with autistic kids,) but just went to work meal prepping. i meal prepped from 4–7:30 pm. a full 3.5 hours. then after that i had time to pack. i packed all of our essentials, from the toilet paper to the plastic bags to the soap to the wet wipes. i thought of everything and made sure we didn’t go without anything.

when i got to our friends car, he was extremely upset with me specifically. he wanted us to leave at 7 pm, which i was informed of mid-meal-prep, and was upset that i was ready at 8:30. i got a few minutes of silent treatment and then he verbally berated me in front of the entire car about how im chronically late to everything. when i told him about how much work i’ve put into prepping all of our food, he simply responded that i have no excuse still for how late we were because i should’ve been preparing all week. i told him i worked full time this week and still got no mercy. just more confrontation. no thank you or acknowledgment for how much time i have spent cooking for these people. i’m tempted just to send them the money back and tell them to figure their own food out. no one stepped in to defend me either or to thank me. i’m really pissed and feel like the rest of the vacation is ruined for me and i’ll likely resent my friend until he apologizes. (which, knowing him, he won’t.)

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u/Gullible_House_4124 — 7 hours ago
▲ 1 r/femalehairadvice

trying to fix my curly hair routine

for reference it’s so low maintenance right now. just shea moisture shampoo and conditioner. idek my hair curl type. but it’s either greasy and stringy or greasy at the top and completely dry and wispy at the ends. help me 🫠 i just want shiny, moisturized, ALIVE, healthy hair.

u/Gullible_House_4124 — 14 days ago
▲ 1.9k r/whatdoIdo

this is a long one so buckle in…

we moved into this property three months ago. our landlord requires that we pay rent through an external website. out of the three times we’ve paid rent, it’s actually worked and not caused us issues.

the last two times we have paid rent, the website has charged us three times for the same amount. i split my rent with three people, so we all pay a third of the rent. last month, i paid one third and it charged me for two months’ worth of rent. this month, my sister was charged three times.

last month, when the website quadruple charged me, i called to let them know what happened and that i didn’t have $4000 in my bank account. the landlord laughed and reassured me that everything would be solved. the way that situation ended was by me paying a fee for my payment bouncing and also being charged an overdraft fee by my bank. the landlord didn’t fix this fees because the rent site was external and their “hands were tied.”

this month, my sister was charged three times. rent was due on a friday which was when she paid it. when i went to pay my part, the website told me i only owed $50. we messaged our rental management immediately and were ignored. the entire weekend we did not receive a response which is very typical for them. however, on saturday, we all checked the website again only to receive a message that our landlord blocked payments on our account, meaning none of us could pay rent. on monday, rather than receiving a response from our landlord, we got a notice to pay or vacate on our door.

my boyfriend went into their office to confront them and they claimed that they had sent us a text to respond but it didn’t end up going through. they also notified us that because they’ve waived late fees in the past (for events also being caused by the shitty website,) they will have to charge us a late fee for this month. so our rent is up by $200. again.

idk what to do at this point.

u/Gullible_House_4124 — 18 days ago
▲ 3 r/Posture

i’ve been suffering from lower back pain and some extreme knee issues on my left side. i also believe i have grown a bit of a neck hump. which exercises could improve my core strength and posture?

u/Gullible_House_4124 — 21 days ago
▲ 8 r/jawsurgery

i talked to my dentist about jaw surgery and he just said to refer back to my ortho who is determined to fix my overbite using invisalign. that’s not going to fix my breathing, scalloped tongue, or my recessed chin!

is there a way insurance would cover a sleep study test?

u/Gullible_House_4124 — 25 days ago