u/Hairy_Soup_2975

Harmadéves orvostan hallgató vagyok, és egyszrűen nem tudom legyűrni azt a stresszt amit a vizsgák előtt érzek.

Ez nem volt mindig így, másodévig teljesen nyugodtan és viszonylag magabiztosnak éreztem magam ilyen helyzetekben.

Viszont sajnos volt egy elég rossz élményem, és azóta rettegek. Úgy érzem hiába tanulok meg mindent, úgyis rá fognak tudni kérdezni valamire amire nem tudom a választ.
Már jópár vizsgán voltam, mióta ez történt és mind jól sikerültek, de az önbizalmam nem tért vissza.

Mit tanácsoltok?

I am generally a very anxious person, and I always get so incredibly stressed out a day before the exam. So much so that I literally can not even study because I will start sweating and my it makes my stomach clench.
It wasn’t like this before, but I had a very bad experience on an exam and it made me loose all of my confidence.
How do I deal with this?

We’ve been together for almost 2 years, and lately I noticed a pattern.After he hangs out with his friends (who are mostly girls) he’ll come home and act annoyed with me. He would say some passive aggressive things, and he’d acts less affectionate.

This never happens if he’s just with his guy friends or if I’m also going.
I tried asking him why he does this, but he told me he doesn’t know what I’m talking about.
Now I’m wondering that he does this because he finds those other women more attractive and he’s frustrated that I’m not as beautiful as they are.
I might be overthinking this.

What do you think, why does he do this?

Oh and btw, I know that he used to have a crush on at least one of his friends.

TLDR: he gets annoyed at me after spending time around other girls, and I’m wondering that its because he finds me less attractive than them.

So me (23F) and my boyfriend (21M) always have our ups and downs, but generally I think he is a good boyfriend. But lately I’ve noticed that after he hangs out with his friends (who are mostly girls) he comes home and he’s annoyed at me about everything.
He also becomes a bit less affectionate.
This lasts for a couple hours or maybe a day, then he goes back to normal.
I asked him about this, but he denied it. I even asked if he’s overstimulated or something, but he said that he’s not.

So now I’m thinking that it’s because he finds those other girls a lot more attractive than me, and he’s frustrated because I’m not like them?? I don’t know, I might be overthinking this but this is the only thing I can think of rn.

My skin is extremely oily, and I have a lot of blackheads in my T zone. Before I started using tretinoin, I had to squeeze them out every other day. I know it’s generally not a good idea to squeeze your skin, but if I didn’t they would just keep getting bigger (even though I was using bha regularly).

I started using 0.05 percent tretinoin hoping it would get rid of these blackheads. I’ve been using it for four weeks now. I know that tret can cause irritation and it can disrupt the barrier, so I stopped picking and squeezing my skin because I know that would make it a lot worse.

Now I’ve been using tretinoin for four weeks now, and my skin is tolerating it pretty well (I had some peeling in the first couple weeks, but it has stopped now).

So my question is: Can I go back to squeezing these blackheads? They are getting bigger and bigger and it frustrates me that I can’t squeeze them.