u/HanSoIoBerger

I’ve used before and not sure if it’s a fake delta it was a tutorial from skibidi tech so just wondering if I’m gonna get hacked

Hi, I’m only a teenager, I’m 14 years old. My mom has been going through depression for years now, and I’ve had to comfort her when she trauma dumps onto me for so long, and I’ve grown very tired of it. We’ve all been through a lot together- my mom and my dad have (and are still going through) a very messy divorce, which has still not officially been resolved yet.

My nanny died a few years ago of dementia, (grandma) someone who my mother was very close to and had a deep bond with, and now her friend is dying of cancer- something that has been ongoing for months, and now she only has a few days left to live, with her family choosing to only have family visit her- meaning my mother cannot see her anymore.

Elaborating on what I said earlier- my dad is living separately, and also caused us to lose our house- (we had a middle class lifestyle in a 3 story house, and now live in a lower class 2 story tiny house in a more poorer area) all this grief has piled onto her, with her also ongoing menopause, my father dragging on the divorce and not severing ties- which means if she died, he could file a dispute to get some of her money, or anything that is in her name, also making it so that she can’t have a house in her name, (the house we are currently living in is being payed for by my grandad, (grandma’s husband) who is a landlord and owns the property. All this stress has piled onto my mother, managing money and cleaning the house and dealing with my older brother (who has depression and is very lazy, and very rude) and my adhd younger brother, who can get a bit annoying, and is a little spoilt.

She constantly tells me how she doesn’t know what to do, how stressed she is all the time- so at 3 in the morning (it’s nearly 4am as of writing this) she comes into my room to tell me her friend doesn’t have long left to live, and I told her I do feel your grief, but I really can’t deal with having to emotionally take on your baggage and problems you’re suffering. (My mother does not have a partner/adult to regularly talk to- who lives with us atleast, so she instead talks to me.) And she said that I guess I’ll act like a robot, and then left my room and went to bed. I really don’t know what to do, or what to say or how to feel when she puts on her emotional baggage onto me. This is the end of what I’m writing- I’m sorry if some of this doesn’t make sense or is a bit incoherent, I’m not the best at writing and am a bit tired.