u/Honest-Penalty-5459

Planning to shift to Raipur soon as a fresher interior designer and honestly the city feels very new and unknown to me 😭

I’ll be shifting alone, so I’m a little nervous about safety, because indore is so safe but i want to live near my home as i m also from Chhattisgarh finding a flat, and managing expenses there. Right now in Indore my monthly expenses are around 18k including rent, food, travel, etc.

I’ll be searching for junior interior designer jobs and wanted to know:

* Is Raipur safe for girls living alone?

* Which areas are best for working girls/freshers?

* What’s the average salary for a fresher interior designer there?

* Is that salary enough to manage rent + food + travel comfortably?

* Also if anyone knows good interior design firms hiring freshers please suggest 🥹

Hey everyone!

I’m planning to shift to Ahmedabad soon as a fresher interior designer and honestly the city feels very new and unknown to me 😭

I’ll most probably shift with my roommate, and currently I’m trying to understand a few things before making the move.

I’ll be searching for junior interior designer/interior firm jobs + a flat on rent. Right now in Indore my total monthly expense is around 18k including rent, food, travel, etc.

I also wanted to know realistically what’s the average salary a fresher interior designer earns there? And is it actually enough to manage rent + food + travel comfortably in Ahmedabad?

Some more things I wanted to ask:

What’s the average cost of living for 2 girls sharing a flat?

Which areas are safer and better for working girls/freshers?

Are interior design firms mostly concentrated in any specific area?

How expensive is daily travel there?

Is 18k–22k enough monthly budget to survive comfortably?

1. I'm falling in love with you,

and honestly, it scares me more than l'd like to admit

not because I don't want to,

but because from the very beginning, I told myself not to.

Not to feel too deeply. Not to lose control.

To stay guarded. To protect my heart.

To not get lost in something I might one day lose.

I kept reminding myself to be careful, to keep my heart hidden where no one could ever reach it.

But somehow, without even trying, no matter how much I tried to resist it, you slipped through every wall I built.

Because my soul... it doesn't listen.

With you, it feels like I'm finally home.

And for the first time, I don't feel the need to build walls anymore, or run, or hide because somehow, with you, I finally feel safe.

he’s calm, like a place i run to

when everything feels too loud,

he listens really listens,

like my words actually matter,

he makes time for me

in a world that’s always busy,

and somehow, he still chooses me,

but then there’s me

missing him in the wrong ways,

turning “i need you”

into sharp words and silence,

i fight him

not because i don’t love him,

but because i love him

more than i know how to say,

and maybe one day

i’ll learn to hold him gently

instead of begin mad and pushing him away,

because he’s not the storm

he’s the home i keep running back to. 💛

i genuinely dont know how to deal with this anymore my boyfriend is avoidant and im anxious attached and it feels like were hurting each other without even wanting to he says he loves me but also says things like you deserve better or i cant give you what you need because he feels guilty for not giving me enough time anymore

what hurts the most is that he wasnt like this before he used to text me whenever he got time he was soft caring reassuring and now suddenly he feels distant busy overwhelmed and every conversation feels like hes slowly preparing me to leave

i know hes stressed and focused on his career and i know guilt is eating him alive too but my brain just cant stop panicking i cant eat properly my chest hurts i keep crying my eyes are swollen and i feel physically sick all the time

i dont want to force him i dont want him to feel trapped i just want to understand how to love an avoidant person without losing myself completely in the process

has anyone actually made an anxious and avoidant relationship work what helped you guys

Please help me my one is avoident and i m anxious he say’s to end all because he is in guilt of not giving me what i want he’s in guilt of not begin the person he was earlier how can a person switch like this he was never like this before he was sweet caring texting Everytime he gets time now he’s busy he can be with me he can’t fulfill my needs how i m not in a state of mind that can understand he’s saying rn what should i do gnag please help me i can’t eat properly my body’s rejecting everything i try to give my eyes are swelled my voice is gone i m so so in pain rn