Hello everyone, I'm working from Pakistan and I need to access my client's PC in US to work.I have been using VPS (remote desktop connection) for quiet some time but it has stopped working since yesterday, how can I fix it? Is there any other way to work or access another system remotely?
Tl/Dr: Already tried anydesk and TeamViewer, they disconnect after every minute.
I (F) married my husband 3 months ago after a love marriage.
But the moment our nikah was done, it felt like he became a different person. I'm not talking weeks later—I mean within hours.
He became controlling, demanding, and quick to yell. During the engagement period, he felt disrespected by my family because they didn't treat him with the level of attention he expected as the groom/son-in-law. My family is conservative and reserved, while his is much more open and expressive. What my family saw as shyness, he interpreted as disrespect and believes they "used him" because he loved me.
Now, 3 months into the marriage, he refuses to meet any of my family members or friends—ever. He says I can maintain those relationships, but he will never be part of them. Every disagreement somehow becomes either my fault or my family's fault.
When we argue, he yells, insults me, gives me the silent treatment, blames me for his anger ("If you hadn't done that, I wouldn't have gotten angry"), and has thrown or damaged things during arguments. He admits he has an anger problem but refuses to take real responsibility or work on it. I feel like I'm constantly walking on eggshells and don't feel emotionally safe around him.
TL;DR
My question is: Is it too early to be thinking about divorce after only 3 months of marriage, or is recognizing these patterns early actually a valid reason to consider leaving if he refuses to change?
Hi, Its a love marriage , 3 months into it and i have realised he is toxic, manipulative and abusive.He doesnot want anything to do with my family or friends, has limited my interaction with neighbours, im confined in a small complex with him.
On the other hand he is very nice when he isnt reacting, is a provider and takes a stand for me but all of that is nothing compared to the lack of respect and lack of consideration. He is reactive and explosive and doesnot care what he is doing when he is having his episode and later tries to pin it on me?
TL:DR
Is it too soon to get out, or should i talk it out and try to work it out with him?
I (F) married my husband 3 months ago after a love marriage. We came from different cultures and cities, and there were some misunderstandings and communication issues before the wedding. We both agreed to leave the past behind and start fresh.
But the moment our nikah was done, it felt like he became a different person. I'm not talking weeks later—I mean within hours.
He became controlling, demanding, and quick to yell. During the engagement period, he felt disrespected by my family because they didn't treat him with the level of attention he expected as the groom/son-in-law. My family is conservative and reserved, while his is much more open and expressive. What my family saw as shyness, he interpreted as disrespect and believes they "used him" because he loved me.
Now, 3 months into the marriage, he refuses to meet any of my family members or friends—ever. He says I can maintain those relationships, but he will never be part of them. Every disagreement somehow becomes either my fault or my family's fault.
When we argue, he yells, insults me, gives me the silent treatment, blames me for his anger ("If you hadn't done that, I wouldn't have gotten angry"), and has thrown or damaged things during arguments. He admits he has an anger problem but refuses to take real responsibility or work on it. I feel like I'm constantly walking on eggshells and don't feel emotionally safe around him.
The hardest part is that I still love him. I don't want to give up on my marriage, and our families are going to try to intervene. I'm hoping he'll accept responsibility and be willing to change, but I'm also scared that I'm ignoring serious red flags.
TL;DR
My question is: Is it too early to be thinking about divorce after only 3 months of marriage, or is recognizing these patterns early actually a valid reason to consider leaving if he refuses to change?