u/Horror_Marketing_601

My girlfriend (trans girl) thrifted a bunch of new tops and was really excited to try them on, but none of them fit. She got really sad, laid on the floor and said she hates her "big man body" and said none of her shirts fit over her "manly shoulders."
She says they don't make the clothes she likes in her size (shes about 6' and probably a medium or large for tops) what should I say or do? I wanna help her, she's so beautiful to me I wanna know how I can help her

I'm trying to record a Hammered Dulcimer for my atmospheric black metal project. Can someone recommend me some mics and mic placement to get a good sound from it?
I'm using a focusrite solo 16i16 as an interface, and fl studio as a daw.

Straight M20 here dating a trans F18, recently she's been sending me lots of pretransition pictures and I don't even know what to say? I don't have any thoughts really, it's not like its bad or good reactions. Like, what do y'all say in this situation?
Also i'm not like worried, just tryna learn yk?

I'm a producer of experimental old school hip hop, looking for a rapper to make a duo/partnership with. dm if interested!

I know all the classics. I especially liked Garden of Shadows, Euchrist, Intestine Baalism, Arsis, and Gates of Ishtar. I also enjoyed Arghoslent and Grenadier's heavier but really melodic, almost Iron Maiden style riffs. (Not tryna start an argument btw that's another discussion)
I'm usually not huge on clean vocals or super "proggy" stuff but i'm always willing to give it a try!

My girlfriend (F18) quit her job shortly after we started dating a few months ago, and I haven't had a consistent job for a while either. However, we both recently got jobs! I'm working day shifts and she's working nights, although the store she works won't close super late.
Since we started dating, we've hung out basically every single day, and obviously with work that's gonna be harder. We're both a bit worried because we won't be able to see each other as much. We're trying to save money to hopefully move in together at the end of the summer (4-5 months)
Does anyone have any tips or ideas on how we can keep seeing each other enough, making the times we do see each other count, and how to keep the spark alive in general?
this post is probably a bit lower stakes than other posts but it's important to me we keep this relationship a priority even with busy schedules.
TLDR how do we keep the spark alive with work schedules that conflict