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Im seeing my long distance bf and ive been eating lemons and chugging water. I startwd bleeding a few hrs ago but its super diluted still. How can i pause it for a bit in 3 hours?

Im friends with benefits with this guy, and its sort of a situationship as well. Story is too long but the main parts are that he was telling me not to talk (as in talking stage) with other guys, and if i was, to not talk to him (but we both know we do since its not serious with others).

Hes been busy lately for reasons i am aware of, and i also know hes not going out with other girls let alone his own friends. I never told him ab my feelings, only hinted so im not too sure if he knows.

For it to progress further, is it better to just wait and see how it goes or talk to him? What else can I do? He is also a bit avoidant and I don’t want to tell him just yet since its not like I want a relationship at the moment (i dont want to pressure him and get misunderstood and f up) I know he’s attracted/interested but not fully invested. What should I do?

Wtf was that paper??? Everything was filling in the blanks it was bullshit

This guy and I have been fwb for some time. I have some feelings for him but not too much. I Tried too hard to be nonchalant, it only backfired and made me feel worse so I decided to hint at it little by little instead of hiding.

Told him I wanted to see him more, stuff like that. Idk if it was enough to show that I had proper feelings for him tho lol

We have talking stages on social media I guess, but never directly went out with any of them. He would get jealous and told me not to see him if I was seeing other guys and since he brought it up, I said the same. He went on a family trip, found out he was talking to girls so I showed I was jealous and he said “they live on the other side of the world, you’re the only one I’m seeing” and stuff like that, and I don’t really mind that much. We would jokingly flirt when texting as well. Recently he asked “waiting for me?” Since he was on a trip, i half jokingly said I missed him and he was playing around other than giving me an answer. Sometimes I’d tell him (not seriously) he’s pissing me off with the stuff he does and he would reply that he likes me like that.

I know that he was hurt from his past relationship and I think he might still her, but I know wouldn’t go back to her for his own reasons. As a person he’s generally closed off emotionally and doesn’t talk about how he feels. I’ve been a good company to him when we hang out. There’s chemistry both physically and emotionally. I don’t like him as much as I used to, and don’t necessarily want a relationship with him but I’d like for him to like me more to the point where he might want to take me seriously.

Before we were fwb, he liked me first and the first stages I think he had feelings as well. For personal reasons, he got distant from everyone and now he’s okay. The situation above is from when we were back to seeing each other again. Is it a possibility that he still has feelings for me but is rather closed off and not ready?

Any advice? Acting non-chalant is extremely difficult for me, and some are telling me to be honest with him but how would I do that without making it seem too serious or demanding a relationship? Would letting it be do its job?

Just to be clear I don’t want to demand a relationship just yet but I’d like to see where it goes if we see each other as more than just fwb as agreed.

Tl;dr: should i just wait it out with my fwb-situationship or tell him what i want? Im afraid thats too direct. I don’t want pressure

This guy and I have been fwb for some time. I have some feelings for him but not too much. I Tried too hard to be nonchalant, it only backfired and made me feel worse so I decided to hint at it little by little instead of hiding.Told him I wanted to see him more, stuff like that. Idk if it was enough to show that I had proper feelings for him tho lol

We have talking stages on social media I guess, but never directly went out with any of them. He would get jealous and told me not to see him if I was seeing other guys and since he brought it up, I said the same. He went on a family trip, found out he was talking to girls so I showed I was jealous and he said “they live on the other side of the world, you’re the only one I’m seeing” and stuff like that, and I don’t really mind that much. We would jokingly flirt when texting as well. Recently he asked “waiting for me?” Since he was on a trip, i half jokingly said I missed him and he was playing around other than giving me an answer. Sometimes I’d tell him (not seriously) he’s pissing me off with the stuff he does and he would reply that he likes me like that.

I know that he was hurt from his past relationship and I think he might still her, but I know wouldn’t go back to her for his own reasons. As a person he’s generally closed off emotionally and doesn’t talk about how he feels. I’ve been a good company to him when we hang out. There’s chemistry both physically and emotionally. I don’t like him as much as I used to, and don’t necessarily want a relationship with him but I’d like for him to like me more to the point where he might want to take me seriously.

Before we were fwb, he liked me first and the first stages I think he had feelings as well. For personal reasons, he got distant from everyone and now he’s okay. The situation above is from when we were back to seeing each other again. Is it a possibility that he still has feelings for me but is rather closed off and not ready?

Just to be clear I don’t want to demand a relationship just yet but I’d like to see where it goes if we see each other as more than just fwb as agreed.

What should I do?

This guy and I have been fwb for some time. I used to have feelings for him but I slowly got over it. Tried too hard to be nonchalant, it only backfired and made my feelings grow so when I decided to hint at it instead of hiding, it gradually lessened.

Told him I wanted to see him more, stuff like that. Idk if it was enough to show that I had proper feelings for him tho lol

We have other talking stages on social media I guess, but never directly went out with any of them. He would get jealous and told me not to see him if I was seeing other guys and since he brought it up, I said the same. He went on a family trip, found out he was talking to girls so I showed I was jealous and he said “they live on the other side of the world, you’re the only one I’m seeing” and stuff like that, and I don’t really mind that much. We would jokingly flirt when texting as well. Recently he asked “waiting for me?” Since he was on a trip, i half jokingly said I missed him and he was playing around other than giving me an answer. Sometimes I’d tell him (not seriously) he’s pissing me off with the stuff he does and he would reply that he likes me like that.

I know that he was hurt from his past relationship and I think he might still her, but I know wouldn’t go back to her for his own reasons. As a person he’s generally closed off emotionally and doesn’t talk about how he feels. I’ve been a good company to him when we hang out. There’s chemistry both physically and emotionally. I don’t like him as much as I used to, and don’t necessarily want a relationship with him but I’d like for him to like me more to the point where he might want to take me seriously.

Before we were fwb, he liked me first and the first stages I think he had feelings as well. For personal reasons, he got distant from everyone and now he’s okay. The situation above is from when we were back to seeing each other again. Is it a possibility that he still has feelings for me but is rather closed off and not ready?

Any advice? Acting non-chalant is extremely difficult for me, and some are telling me to be honest with him but how would I do that without making it seem too serious or demanding a relationship? Would letting it be do its job?

Tl;dr: how can i progress our fwb to something more? I dont want pressure!

This guy and I have been fwb for some time. I used to have feelings for him but I slowly got over it. Tried too hard to be nonchalant, it only backfired and made my feelings grow so when I decided to hint at it instead of hiding, it gradually lessened.

Told him I wanted to see him more, stuff like that. Idk if it was enough to show that I had proper feelings for him tho lol

We have other talking stages on social media I guess, but never directly went out with any of them. He would get jealous and told me not to see him if I was seeing other guys and since he brought it up, I said the same. He went on a family trip, found out he was talking to girls so I showed I was jealous and he said “they live on the other side of the world, you’re the only one I’m seeing” and stuff like that, and I don’t really mind that much. We would jokingly flirt when texting as well. Recently he asked “waiting for me?” Since he was on a trip, i half jokingly said I missed him and he was playing around other than giving me an answer. Sometimes I’d tell him (not seriously) he’s pissing me off with the stuff he does and he would reply that he likes me like that.

I know that he was hurt from his past relationship and I think he might still her, but I know wouldn’t go back to her for his own reasons. As a person he’s generally closed off emotionally and doesn’t talk about how he feels. I’ve been a good company to him when we hang out. There’s chemistry both physically and emotionally. I don’t like him as much as I used to, and don’t necessarily want a relationship with him but I’d like for him to like me more to the point where he might want to take me seriously.

Before we were fwb, he liked me first and the first stages I think he had feelings as well. For personal reasons, he got distant from everyone and now he’s okay. The situation above is from when we were back to seeing each other again. Is it a possibility that he still has feelings for me but is rather closed off and not ready?

Any advice? Acting non-chalant is extremely difficult for me, and some are telling me to be honest with him but how would I do that without making it seem too serious or demanding a relationship? Would letting it be do its job?

This guy and I have been fwb for some time. I used to have feelings for him but I slowly got over it. Tried too hard to be nonchalant, it only backfired and made my feelings grow so when I decided to hint at it instead of hiding, it gradually lessened.

Told him I wanted to see him more, stuff like that. Idk if it was enough to show that I had proper feelings for him tho lol

We have talking stages on social media I guess, but never directly went out with any of them. He would get jealous and told me not to see him if I was seeing other guys and since he brought it up, I said the same. He went on a family trip, found out he was talking to girls so I showed I was jealous and he said “they live on the other side of the world, you’re the only one I’m seeing” and stuff like that, and I don’t really mind that much. We would jokingly flirt when texting as well. Recently he asked “waiting for me?” Since he was on a trip, i half jokingly said I missed him and he was playing around other than giving me an answer. Sometimes I’d tell him (not seriously) he’s pissing me off with the stuff he does and he would reply that he likes me like that.

I know that he was hurt from his past relationship and I think he might still her, but I know wouldn’t go back to her for his own reasons. As a person he’s generally closed off emotionally and doesn’t talk about how he feels. I’ve been a good company to him when we hang out. There’s chemistry both physically and emotionally. I don’t like him as much as I used to, and don’t necessarily want a relationship with him but I’d like for him to like me more to the point where he might want to take me seriously.

Before we were fwb, he liked me first and the first stages I think he had feelings as well. For personal reasons, he got distant from everyone and now he’s okay. The situation above is from when we were back to seeing each other again. Is it a possibility that he still has feelings for me but is rather closed off and not ready?

Any advice? Acting non-chalant is extremely difficult for me, and some are telling me to be honest with him but how would I do that without making it seem too serious or demanding a relationship? Would letting it be do its job?