I had a hard choice to make and I went with Gram Lights 57DR Semi Gloss Black in 19x9.5 +35. I will most likely have to raise the rear some and even negative camber a bit. They should be arriving tomorrow and should have them on sometime next week. :D
Replaced the stock top mount with Hasport 62A mount. I have the lower mount in-hand which I will install when I do the next oil change.
Way more in-cabin feedback, giving it 3 months to see how it settles.
Thanks to u/devela666 I'm now torn between these 2 wheels. Very similar, in looks/spokes but the key differences are weight (not by much 1-2lbs difference) and the finish (GT have a metallic look to them vs gloss black) and the manufacturing/way they're made at a fraction of the cost. Both wheels weigh below 25lbs. Size I'll be going with is 19x9.5 +38.