u/Icy_Illustrator1521

How likely are men over 30 to change their minds about not having kids?

From your own experience? Just looking for experiences.

My partner (m 35) and I (f 30) have been together for two years and I have always been very sure that I will never want kids. He has always told me that he was sure, however, since he started going to therapy, he is not absolutely sure that he doesn't want them and says it's a maybe.

I'm quite surprised because our families can't help (mine lives in a different country and his parents are over 80), we're not super financially stable, and we don't own our place. So I never expected this change, and I think it might be coming from all his friends having kids.

We have such a wonderful relationship and agree on everything in life; however, I am really scared and worried about investing more time with someone who might want kids in a few years and leave because of that

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u/Icy_Illustrator1521 — 13 days ago

How likely are men over 35 to change their wish on having kids?

From your own experience? Just looking for experiences.

My partner (m 35) and I (f 30) have been together for two years and I have always been very sure that I will never want kids. He has always told me that he was sure, however since he started going to therapy he is not absolutely sure that he doesn't want them and he says it's a maybe.

I'm quite surprised because our families can't help (mine lives in a different country and his parents are over 80) and cannot help, we're not super financially stable and don't own our place. So I never expected this change and I think it might be coming from all his friends having kids.

We have such a wonderful relationship and agree on everything in life, however I am really scared and investing more time with someone who might want kids in a few years and leave because of that.

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u/Icy_Illustrator1521 — 13 days ago
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