u/Independent-Yam3612

I come into this sub and I see “bi memes day __” and it always makes me feel secondhand cringe. Now im extremely pansexual but I don’t understand how so many people in this community can be so unabashedly cringe, and i dont feel like I fit in. I’m still straight passing and id like to stay that way but sometimes it feels like im at odds with my own appearance. I look straight, and i dress straight, so when i turn around and kiss my boyfriend i feel so conflicted. Why do I want to pass as straight when im not?