Dipping my toes into polyamory and not sure how to navigate finding a primary partner
I am recently out of a very long-term monogamous relationship that I wasn't satisfied in (for many reasons), but I am really working on finding myself post-breakup.
Part of that has been exploring polyamoury more, which I am loving, but I am not sure how to navigate this part of it all.
I have a partner, let's call him Tim, who has a different primary partner. I am very much okay with my relationship with Tim never evolving into something more serious, but I really want to be married one day and start a family with someone.
How have y'all gone about finding a primary partner when you already have another partner? I feel like it would be much easier the other way if I had an established primary to find someone more casual. Still, I'm not sure how to incorporate something serious into my existing (very happy) relationship.
Any advice for newer poly folx or anything similar to this is greatly appreciated! TIA!