I M27 and girlfriend F25 have been dating for 3.5 years and sex life has become boring. How do long term couples adjust and keep the spark alive?
M27 Have been dating my girl F26 for 3.5 years. Our sex life has become very boring. My girlfriend constantly blames me for that. I’ve tried doing different things like staycations, trying new things like teasing her for hours before initiating, toys and various other techniques to turn her on. The thing is for the last couple of months it is solely me who has been initiating any form of intimacy and get turned down most of the times which puts extra pressure on me for everything to be perfect always. She never initiates or tries new things. I’ve tried talking to her about this but the conversation always ends up on me not doing anything new or how I used to do certain things before. My question to long term couples is how do you manage the spark in relationship once the regular stuff gets boring?