u/Intelligent_Slip6317

Why is it hard to read just when exams are approaching, and you feel not even 40 percent prepared

Say the salary was low: they judge you as money-driven
Say the environment was bad: they label you as difficult or non-accommodating
Say anything honest: it gets used against you

Whats the best answer?

She tried while in USA and I was adopted by an African family

He died last month. He was a complicated man and we did not have an easy relationship in his last decade but I respected him and I loved my wife and she is shattered.
The will reading included a clause we did not see coming. He requested his ashes be scattered off the Dalmatian coast, specifically near a small island where he and his first wife (not my mother in law) spent their honeymoon in 1968.
The clause stipulates this must happen within 90 days of his death or the bulk of the estate is redirected to a charity none of us have heard of.
My wife is the executor.
She is also drowning in grief and trying to manage her mother who is furious about the first wife reference and refusing to participate. We have to pull this trip together in 60 days now and I am the one doing the logistics because she cannot.
The practical mess is that my wife's passport expired and our two kids have never had passports. I need to coordinate three applications including two minor DS 11s while running interference between a grieving wife and an angry mother in law who is threatening to contest the will.
I am trying to apply some stoic discipline here, focus only on what I can control, but the official passport site is genuinely beyond my bandwidth at the moment.
For anyone who has had to execute a complicated final wish under a deadline, how did you keep your head straight? And separately, what is the least mentally taxing way to handle multiple passport applications in a short window?

I am a little bit nervous coz my English skills are not very strong,