u/Internal_Prior6380

College is starting soon and I dont know anyone, so if you’re joining too, feel free to DM me. Would be nice to connect before classes start!!

I have a rank of 558x in clat 2026
Which nlus can i get in based off this rank in vacancy rounds
GENERAL CATEGORY FEMALE

I have BPD, and my boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot for the past few weeks, which has made the relationship feel kinda patchy. We’ve also been talking less since he came back home from college and doesn’t get much privacy anymore.

Now he’s asking for space because he’s going through some stuff, but I’m scared I might change after we start talking again. I feel like I won’t talk to him the way I used to, which could eventually lead to more fights and distance.

And why would he even need space from me? I’m supposed to be his safe space, not some kind of burden. I’d also be really upset if I found out he talked to his friends during this “break” but not to me.

I have Borderline personality disorder , and I feel like I don’t really empathize with my boyfriend or what he’s going through. Sometimes he needs space to clear his head, especially when he gets upset over small things, but I’m the kind of person who needs him to talk to me all the time.

We’ve also been talking a lot less nowadays because he’s kind of depressed, but even knowing that, I still mostly just want him to talk to me, even when he’s not in the position to. I hate admitting it, but I feel like I care more about how it affects me than how he feels.

I dont care even when he has valid reasons to not talk
I don’t want to lose him at all. I want to change, and I’m scared I’ll start distancing myself.

I love him a lot I don’t want to leave him at all but he deserves better
How can i improve

I have BPD, and I feel like I don’t really empathize with my boyfriend or what he’s going through. Sometimes he needs space to clear his head, especially when he gets upset over small things, but I’m the kind of person who needs him to talk to me all the time.

We’ve also been talking a lot less nowadays because he’s kind of depressed, but even knowing that, I still mostly just want him to talk to me, even when he’s not in the position to. I hate admitting it, but I feel like I care more about how it affects me than how he feels.

I dont care even when he has valid reasons to not talk
I don’t want to lose him at all. I want to change, and I’m scared I’ll start distancing myself. I really don’t want that.

What should i do to be better

I have BPD, and I feel like I don’t really empathize with my boyfriend or what he’s going through. Sometimes he needs space to clear his head, especially when he gets upset over small things, but I’m the kind of person who needs him to talk to me all the time.

We’ve also been talking a lot less nowadays because he’s kind of depressed, but even knowing that, I still mostly just want him to talk to me, even when he’s not in the position to. I hate admitting it, but I feel like I care more about how it affects me than how he feels.

I dont care even when he has valid reasons to not talk
I don’t want to lose him at all. I want to change, and I’m scared I’ll start distancing myself. I really don’t want that.

What should i do to be better

I have BPD, and I feel like I don’t really empathize with my boyfriend or what he’s going through. Sometimes he needs space to clear his head, especially when he gets upset over small things, but I’m the kind of person who needs him to talk to me all the time.

We’ve also been talking a lot less nowadays because he’s kind of depressed, but even knowing that, I still mostly just want him to talk to me, even when he’s not in the position to. I hate admitting it, but I feel like I care more about how it affects me than how he feels.

I dont care even when he has valid reasons to not talk
I don’t want to lose him at all. I want to change, and I’m scared I’ll start distancing myself. I really don’t want that.

What should i do to be better