u/Jesse_Pinkmaniac

I (30M) am married to an amazing girl (28F). Ma idharidhi arranged marriage so we both didn't know much about each other before marriage. Although she grew up in a village most of her life, she is not really that conservative. We fight and argue sometimes but evaro okallam compromise avtham.

But lately, I was having some problem with her getting verbally abusive. Like any other couple or friends, na wife casual ga vaade telugu cuss words vadthadhi, the low tier ones like niyabba, howle, bhadkav, battebas, lawda ga etc. but recent ga she started using more than that. 1 week back nenu groceries kosam bayatiki vellaanu.

Inkemaina kavalla ani adigithe, lanja arey ani anesi phone cut chesindhi. Intiki vellaaka I pretended as if nothing happened because I didn't want to make a big fuss about it. 2 days back when I was returning from the office, she called me and asked me to bring a few things while returning. Oil, milk, bread inka konni cheppi chivarlo chinnaga malli lanja rey ani anesi cut chesindhi. Nannu alaa annaaka rendu saarlu she was frustrated after I returned home.

Next day kuda same ilantidhe repeat ayyindhi and I got so mad and wanted to confront her about it and decided to talk about it. After going home, I told her we should talk ani and asked her what's up with the cussing. She stared at me erripookly and then I asked her exact ga lanja arey ani endhuku thittukuntunnav nannu ani. She still didn't understand.

I explained her the whole incidents and then she said she was asking me to bring lingerie. I then started at her erripookly and then understood the whole thing. See guys? Not every problem needs a divorce, some things can be talked out. All it needs is honest communication between you and your partner. Don't marry be happy.