Should I get into a hoe phase as a guy with no experience in dating 18 m
I am an introverted (loser)
No money
Overweight
maidenless
Neurodivergent
Never dated a woman before
No social status
A total nerd
Virgin
I am black btw (if it matters)
All my friends tell me that I should cold approach
And talk to women but. I am really not interested in girls my age. (Might be cope)
I want to lose my v card, I am interested in playing the field and not get into any relationships.
My sole concern is clapping some cheeks.
I am trying to get to a point where I find myself desirable, before trying to approach any women
(Get some money, lose weight,... )
When I get to that point what strategy should I adopt?
A. Let it come naturally not force anything
B. Talk to as many females as I can
C. Try to find one that I'll really click with
D. Give up entirely
E. build roster of girls that I'll "talk to"
People be giving me each and every advice to the point that I don't know who to listen to
I don't want companionship (i like peace)
I just want to mess around