My friend(25F)s ex became hot and my friend is upset at me for giving her a reality check.

My friends ex wasn't good to her at all and she broke up eventually with him after dating for 3 years.

That guy discovered fitness and grooming, and not gonna lie he is looking like a model nowadays. We saw his insta photos and reels. My friend suddenly started saying maybe she shouldn't have broken up cos she's still really very much attracted to him.

I was like she's being just stupid. I said exactly this, " You gave him 3 years of your prime 20s. He could have done this at that time. He could have tried to be fit or well groomed even then. HE DID NOT. Plus the hundreds of minor issues you guys had, he never bothered to solve them. He did not put any effort for you nor cater to you. So he won't put any even now and infact will treat you worse if you go back to him. He's not worth it"

She misunderstood me. She assumed I'm saying she's not worth putting efforts and that ex won't put effort for her but will put for other girls. She started saying I'm a bad friend. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

I'm so done with immature friends and I snapped too. Did i say something wrong ?

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u/Junia123ri — 4 days ago

Can anyone tell me why Akku devil is jumping like a monkey on lock up ?

She's not a teenager and she's not looking cute. Please tell her she looks so immature and stupid doing that.

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u/Junia123ri — 5 days ago

Asmita and Shubhangi follow each other on instagram. Friendships are so weird.

Same as title. Any idea why these two follow each other.

I thought Asmita is suzanne and Ruru's friend now.

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u/Junia123ri — 13 days ago
▲ 11 r/kdramas

Need some older kdrama suggestions. Millennials will know what I mean.

I understand that kdramas have taken over OTT, but somehow most of these recent dramas lack a spark and I don't feel like continuing after 4th or 5th episode. I'm just watching sometimes for the sake of finishing them.

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Whereas the older dramas, i never got bored even if it was a predictable ending. I'm talking about dramas like My love from the star, Coffee Prince, i can hear your voice, pinnichio, the heirs, my only one, one spring night, flower of evil, when the weather is fine and all of JiSung's dramas.

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18 again, my liberation notes and 49 days are my most favourite and comfort watches. Be melodramatic and summer strike are two other dramas i loved a lot.

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I love romance and comedy, family/friends oriented series and even historic. But i don't mind watching a good thriller like flower of evil as well.

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Please suggest any dramas if you like my kinda dramas. I need some unconventional not so famous and underrated ones.

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My underrated series suggestions would be Be melodramatic. Beautiful and female centric, and mix of all emotions

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u/Junia123ri — 19 days ago

Banjara hills area, woke up cos of noise. Is this normal here.??

Since 4:30, the mosques nearby are just playing something on the loudspeaker. No offense but it feels like someone is weeping.

It's half an hour now. Still they are not stopping.

Has this become normal now ? I thought it's usually five minutes but this is too much. I'm unable to sleep and have to get up for work in two hours.

How do you guys deal with this?;

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u/Junia123ri — 26 days ago

Part of me is happy to see them back together.

Last season. I liked these 4 and their friendship in the beginning. Then Siwet happened and everything changed.

Good to see Akriti back with them..

u/Junia123ri — 26 days ago
▲ 2 r/pune

What are the best under the sink water purifier options? No Kent please

What are the best under the sink water purifier options? No Kent please

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u/Junia123ri — 1 month ago

Cut off a toxic friend (30F) and I feel lighter. But don't know if i did the right thing

I met my friend as a fresher at an IT company. She only approached me first and asked if i had found a place to stay as most freshers were from different regions. I was happy someone asked me to be their flatmate and instantly said yes to it.

After that, it was 6 to 7 years of being really close friends in the same city. We spent a lot of time together and there were few signs all along that she was selfish.. Like no time for the things i wanted to do but I would always be there for her hospital appointments or if she needs to go somewhere. But I never minded these things because I really thought of her as a family member..

Two years back, her parents got an arranged match and she got married. Even when she got engaged, I could clearly see that friendship was no longer her priority. She suddenly was writing all those cheesy lines and couple posts like he was the only one who ever was important and stuff. She had time for all that but no time to even call me and invite for her wedding, she just send the e-invite on WhatsApp.

I still let go of my ego and attended her wedding. Helped her throughout while she was getting ready with makeup or her meals, and also genuinely wished her well.

Post marriage, she was really busy. Late responses and call backs after 2-3 days. Slowly even that reduced. Only conversations happened when I pinged, and even that it was all about her life mostly. She ignored me multiple times when I messaged her and that really hurt me. Maybe it was not intentional to ignore and she was really busy maybe but truth is she did it.

So i realised her priorities are elsewhere and stopped talking. Yesterday, she called me out of nowhere after months. I said I don't want to talk and I said I was hurt the other few times when I was no longer treated like a close friend, and just a person of convenience. So i need time to forget and resume talking.

She started blaming me and accusing me. She's like she didn't know i stored all this poison for her in my mind. She said a lot of things, all pointing out how wrong I am but not once addressed the part where I was hurt because of her.

So i was done there. I said thanks for the lesson and bye. It doesn't matter now, and don't bother.

I feel light but somewhere also lost a friend who I have known for a decade now. So can't stop thinking if i did something wrong.

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u/Junia123ri — 1 month ago

Aitk for cutting of a toxic Friend? I actually feel light after doing that. And a long post it is.

I met my friend as a fresher at an IT company. She only approached me first and asked if i had found a place to stay as most freshers were from different regions. I was happy someone asked me to be their flatmate and instantly said yes to it.

After that, it was 6 to 7 years of being really close friends in the same city. We spent a lot of time together and there were few signs all along that she was selfish.. Like no time for the things i wanted to do but I would always be there for her hospital appointments or if she needs to go somewhere. But I never minded these things because I really thought of her as a family member..

Two years back, her parents got an arranged match and she got married. Even when she got engaged, I could clearly see that friendship was no longer her priority. She suddenly was writing all those cheesy lines and couple posts like he was the only one who ever was important and stuff. She had time for all that but no time to even call me and invite for her wedding, she just send the e-invite on WhatsApp.

I still let go of my ego and attended her wedding. Helped her throughout while she was getting ready with makeup or her meals, and also genuinely wished her well.

Post marriage, she was really busy. Late responses and call backs after 2-3 days. Slowly even that reduced. Only conversations happened when I pinged, and even that it was all about her life mostly. She ignored me multiple times when I messaged her and that really hurt me. Maybe it was not intentional to ignore and she was really busy maybe but truth is she did it.

So i realised her priorities are elsewhere and stopped talking. Yesterday, she called me out of nowhere after months. I said I don't want to talk and I said I was hurt the other few times when I was no longer treated like a close friend, and just a person of convenience. So i need time to forget and resume talking.

She started blaming me and accusing me. She's like she didn't know i stored all this poison for her in my mind. She said a lot of things, all pointing out how wrong I am but not once addressed the part where I was hurt because of her.

So i was done there. I said thanks for the lesson and bye. It doesn't matter now, and don't bother.

I feel light but somewhere also lost a friend who I have known for a decade now. So can't stop thinking if i did something wrong.

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u/Junia123ri — 1 month ago

Akku devil's followers are fake af

I think now it's very obvious that so many of her followers are fake and just paid bots. She's being exposed everywhere and still not even a small drop in followers ?

Atleast 200k should have unfollowed after what she's done. Because it's the same audience who sympathized for her situation, and now she caused the same situation to Ruru knowingly and still no one unfollows? 😂

So many people like nayandeep, shreya have unfollowed her. And still this madam has increase in following?

Mtv official page itself has 1.8 million followers, and MTV page has been there since 2012. They promote themselves so much and even they are not 2 million. BECAUSE Splitsvilla INSTA AUDIENCE IS NOT MORE THAN that but this madam is reaching 3 million? What a joke.

And hotstar votes for the finale, gullu kaira got 38 million votes and each person can vote 100 times. If most of the audience is behind this AKKU devi, WHY WOULD THEY TAKE OUT TIME AND VOTE for CHULLU AND KAIRA???

And why didn't we see so many fan edits when akku devil got eliminated? If her audience was so big, shouldn't they have boycotted the finale? Nothing of that sort has happened 😂

It's just SO OBVIOUS THAT ITS BOTS OR PAID FOLLOWING NOW.

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u/Junia123ri — 2 months ago

It's obvious akku devil's followers are fake

I think now it's very obvious that so many of her followers are fake and just paid bots. She's being exposed everywhere and still not even a small drop in followers ?

Atleast 200k should have unfollowed after what she's done. Because it's the same audience who sympathized for her situation, and now she caused the same situation to Ruru knowingly and still no one unfollows? 😂

So many people like nayandeep, shreya have unfollowed her. And still this madam has increase in following?

Mtv official page itself has 1.8 million followers, and MTV page has been there since 2012. They promote themselves so much and even they are not 2 million. BECAUSE Splitsvilla INSTA AUDIENCE IS NOT MORE THAN that but this madam is reaching 3 million? What a joke.

And hotstar votes for the finale, gullu kaira got 38 million votes and each person can vote 100 times. If most of the audience is behind this AKKU devi, WHY WOULD THEY TAKE OUT TIME AND VOTE for CHULLU AND KAIRA???

And why didn't we see so many fan edits when akku devil got eliminated? If her audience was so big, shouldn't they have boycotted the finale? Nothing of that sort has happened 😂

It's just SO OBVIOUS THAT ITS BOTS OR PAID FOLLOWING NOW.

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u/Junia123ri — 2 months ago

If suzanne is truthful, then it's really creepy that Akanksha stayed in the same house as Ruru in Delhi

Imagine if Akanksha had access to Ruru's personal things or space, it's creepy to even think that

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u/Junia123ri — 2 months ago