u/Kind_Guardian

Lately, I’ve been seeing a lot of meetup posts on the Kanpur subreddit where people claim to be looking for meetups. However, when I check some of these profiles, they are filled with NSFW activity and posts from sexual-content-related subreddits.

This also includes some profiles claiming to be women who genuinely want to meet people in Kanpur, while many of their posts/titles suggest they are actually looking for sexual partners.

I personally experienced something similar when I posted looking for people for a birthday meetup. Most of the responses I received were from NSFW-related profiles. Out of them, only 1 girl and 3 guys seemed genuine/normal.

So whether you’re posting for a meetup yourself or going to someone else’s meetup, please be careful and properly verify the people involved.

Also, don’t blindly trust low-karma accounts or accounts with hidden posts. These can be red flags, especially when someone is asking strangers to meet.

Girls and boys, please stay cautious. Don’t share personal information, photos, your address, or agree to meet someone without properly verifying them. If you do decide to meet, prefer a public place and let someone you trust know where you’re going.

Stay safe. Aage aapki marzi.

Hey! I'm a 22-year-old guy from Kanpur, Uttar Pradesh, and I'm looking for a true Indian best friend someone I can consider family, not just a friend.

I want someone I can talk to freely, laugh with, share my thoughts with, and feel completely relaxed around. If we become close, I'll always stand by you through good times and bad. Loyalty means everything to me, and I'll be there for you for as long as I live. ❤️

It would be amazing if you're someone who:

\\- Is kind and compassionate toward poor children.

\\- Has a soft spot for orphaned kids.

\\- Loves animals. 🐶🐱

\\- Is emotional, sensitive, and understands people's feelings, just like I do.

One thing about me: I don't ghost people, and I don't randomly block people either. If I ever feel that a friendship isn't working, I'll be honest and tell you directly instead of disappearing. Ghosting, unnecessary blocking, and playing immature games just aren't my thing ye sab immature logon ki kahani hai. 😅

Also, I have nothing against foreigners I already have some foreign friends. I'm simply hoping to find a genuine Indian friend, because that's the kind of friendship I'm missing in my life.

If you're looking for a real, honest, loyal, and long-term friendship, feel free to message me. 🤝❤️

Recently, my dog Gian passed away, and I watched him take his last breath right in front of my eyes. My Jack passed away a few months ago due to paralysis. I had four street dogs Gian, Jack, Oli, and Oggy. I used to play with them, have fun with them, and spend so much time with them. Now, only Oli and Oggy are left.

Gian had lost one of his eyes when a truck ran over him when he was a puppy, badly damaging his eye. I took him to the vet, and the vet had to remove the damaged eye. He was extremely attached to me. Whenever I showed affection to another dog, he would immediately come running over, as if saying, Love me, not anyone else.

I miss both of them so much Gian and Jack.

All four of them came into my life at a time when I didn't have any friends. They helped me a lot with my anxiety and stress. They gave me so much love, comfort, and companionship and stood by me through some of the hardest times in my life. They were there for me when I felt like I had no one.

Thank you for everything, my brothers, Gian and Jack.

I will always miss you, and you will always have a special place in my heart.

How many of you are currently enrolled in an online university, and what made you choose online education?

Hey! I'm a 22-year-old guy from Kanpur, Uttar Pradesh, and I'm looking for a true Indian best friend someone I can consider family, not just a friend.

I want someone I can talk to freely, laugh with, share my thoughts with, and feel completely relaxed around. If we become close, I'll always stand by you through good times and bad. Loyalty means everything to me, and I'll be there for you for as long as I live. ❤️

It would be amazing if you're someone who:

\- Is kind and compassionate toward poor children.

\- Has a soft spot for orphaned kids.

\- Loves animals. 🐶🐱

\- Is emotional, sensitive, and understands people's feelings, just like I do.

One thing about me: I don't ghost people, and I don't randomly block people either. If I ever feel that a friendship isn't working, I'll be honest and tell you directly instead of disappearing. Ghosting, unnecessary blocking, and playing immature games just aren't my thing ye sab immature logon ki kahani hai. 😅

Also, I have nothing against foreigners I already have some foreign friends. I'm simply hoping to find a genuine Indian friend, because that's the kind of friendship I'm missing in my life.

If you're looking for a real, honest, loyal, and long-term friendship, feel free to message me. 🤝❤️

I don't know why so many people ignore calls and messages, block each other, or completely cut off contact after a small fight or misunderstanding.

Have they ever stopped to think that it could be the last call? What if that person needed help? What if they were in trouble? What if they were in danger, but you didn't answer because of anger or ego?

Sometimes we value our ego more than someone's life.

In my entire life, I have never intentionally ignored someone's call or message. Even if I'm not close to them, if I see their message, I reply. If someone genuinely needs help, I try my best to help them. Even if I have had a very bad history with someone, I still don't ignore their calls or messages.

Let me tell you a story.

There was a husband and wife who loved each other deeply. They had two children. Like many families, there were frequent arguments between the wife, her mother-in-law, and her sister-in-law. The husband was financially well-off, so he bought a separate house for his wife and children.

However, the husband and wife still argued from time to time. Whenever they fought, the wife would often take the children and go to her parents' house.

One day, after another argument, she again left with the children. The next day was their wedding anniversary. Hoping to make peace, the husband bought flowers and a gift and went to her parents' house. But she refused to meet him and didn't even allow the children to see their father.

Heartbroken, the husband returned home. On the way back, he met with a serious accident.

Before he died, he had tried to call his wife. Later, other people also tried calling her from his phone because she was the last person he had contacted. But she didn't answer. Perhaps she thought, Why should I pick up? I'm still angry.

When the truth finally came out and the husband's family learned what had happened before the accident, they cut all ties with the wife.

Eventually, the wife realized something that haunted her forever. She had missed her last chance to meet her husband. She had ignored his final call. She hadn't allowed him to see his own children one last time.

The guilt became unbearable. Her mental health deteriorated so badly that she could no longer take care of her children. It wasn't only the grief of losing her husband that broke her it was the lifelong regret of knowing she could have seen him one last time but chose not to because of anger and ego.

Eventually, the children's grandparents took them in because their mother was no longer mentally able to care for them.

Just imagine the husband's pain in his final moments. He couldn't see his wife. He couldn't hug his children. He left this world carrying that heartbreak all because of one unresolved argument and one person's ego.

Because when ego enters a relationship, love begins to lose. And by the time people realize what truly mattered, it is often too late.

Life is unpredictable. You don't have to agree with someone after every argument, but sometimes answering one call or listening for a minute can make all the difference. Some regrets last a lifetime.

I’m thinking of visiting an orphanage on my birthday, 10th November.so this year i am going 23.

Personally, I don’t want to go with my family. The reason is that whenever I talk about adoption, they always say that having your own (biological) child is better. I don’t want to take people with me who think that way.

I’m looking for 2 to 4 people to join me.no more than that, mainly because of my budget.

I also don’t want to go alone because I’m a very emotional person, and having someone with me will help me stay composed. I’ve wanted to have this experience for a long time.

One more thing.I’m not planning to celebrate my birthday there because I don’t want to unintentionally remind the children about things they may not have. I just want to spend some quality time with them and bring some food or other useful items. We’ll decide the details later.

If you feel the same way and would genuinely like to join me, please let me know in the comments or send me a DM.

Happy friendship day🎆🎉

Hey! I'm a 22-year-old guy from India, and I'm looking for a true Indian best friend someone I can consider family, not just a friend.

I want someone I can talk to freely, laugh with, share my thoughts with, and feel relaxed around. If we become close, I'll always stand by you through good times and bad. Loyalty means everything to me, and I'll be there for you for as long as I live.

It would be amazing if you're someone who:

-Is kind and compassionate toward poor children.

- Has a soft spot for orphaned kids.

- Loves animals.

- Is emotional, sensitive, and understands people's feelings, just like I do.

One thing about me: I don't ghost people. If I ever feel that a friendship isn't working, I'll be honest and tell you directly instead of disappearing.

Also, I have nothing against foreigners I already have some foreign friends. I'm simply hoping to find a genuine Indian friend because that's what I'm missing.

If you're looking for a real, honest, and long-term friendship, feel free to message me. 🤝❤️

Look, this is what I personally believe: if your pain only teaches you how to heal yourself, then maybe you will eventually find a solution for your own suffering. But if your pain also teaches you how to understand the suffering of others, then to me, you are as precious as a diamond.

Let me explain this through a story.

There was a boy from a village who worked in Delhi and earned a good salary. One day, his mother was diagnosed with cancer. There was no cancer hospital in his village, and treatment in the city was extremely expensive. Thankfully, the boy had enough money. He took his mother to Delhi, got her treated, and after two years she became completely healthy again.

The story could have ended there, and honestly, most people would still call it a happy ending. The son understood his mother’s pain and saved her life. That alone is a beautiful thing.

But now let’s continue the story.

After his mother recovered, the boy started thinking deeply:

“How many people in my village must be dying from cancer simply because they cannot afford treatment? How many mothers are being lost because there is no hospital nearby and poverty leaves them helpless?”

And that thought changed him completely.

He decided that he would work harder than ever before. He promised himself that no matter how difficult it became, one day he would build a cancer hospital in his village where poor people could receive treatment for free.

He thought it would take him 2–4 years, but life was harder than he expected. Still, he did not give up. And after 5 long years of struggle, sacrifice, and hard work, he finally did it.

To me, this is where compassion becomes truly extraordinary.

Because he did not limit his love only to his own mother. He allowed his mother’s pain to open his heart toward the suffering of others too.

That is the kind of person I deeply admire. People whose love is not selective. People who do not care only for “their own people,” but whose humanity extends beyond blood relations, religion, status, gender, or personal benefit.

In today’s world, many people only care when suffering touches their own life. But very few people can look at someone else’s pain and say:

“That pain matters to me too.”

And honestly, if you are that kind of person, then you are rare. Very rare.and i love you irrespective of gender ❤️

A few years ago, something happened that seemed completely ordinary, but it taught me a lesson I'll never forget.so i make a story put of it.

Once upon a time, there was a boy who had to attend a wedding in two days. He needed new clothes, but he had only one wish.he wanted the same pink t-shirt he used to love. His old one was ruined, yet his heart was stuck on that exact shade of pink.

He went to the market searching for it, but he couldn’t find the exact shirt anywhere. While looking around, he found a beautiful black shirt and a stylish green shirt. He liked both of them, but he refused to buy them because deep down, he wanted only the pink one.

One day passed. Then two.

Finally, the day of the wedding arrived. Only two hours were left, and still, he hadn’t found the pink shirt. Realizing he had no time left, he decided he would buy the black or the green shirt after all. But when he returned to the market, both shirts were already sold out.

In the end, he had no choice but to buy a blue shirt a color he didn’t even like. But he had to wear it because he had left himself with no options.

It's about how we behave in life.

Sometimes we become so attached to one specific desire a person, an opportunity, a job, or a dream that we ignore the good options already in front of us.

We keep waiting, believing our first choice will eventually work out.

But life doesn't pause while we wait.

By the time we're ready to accept those other opportunities, they may already be gone. And instead of choosing what we wanted, we're left choosing what remains.

The lesson I learned:

If you don't value the good opportunities in front of you, life may eventually make the decision for you and the outcome might be something you never wanted.

I think people who say, "I don't need men in my life" or "I don't need women in my life," aren't seeing the bigger picture.

When I say we need the opposite gender in our lives, I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. I'm also talking about family a loving mother, father, brother, or sister.

For many girls, having a caring father or a protective, loving brother can make a huge difference. Someone they can trust, talk to, and feel safe with. If those relationships are missing, life often becomes much harder.

The same is true for boys. Having a loving mother or a caring sister.someone who listens without judgment and genuinely cares.can be incredibly important. When those relationships are absent, they often grow up carrying emotional gaps that are difficult to fill.

No matter what people say, I believe that deep down, many girls wish they had a good father or brother if they never had one. And many boys wish they had a loving mother or sister if those relationships were missing.

The problem is that when we don't receive those healthy family relationships, we often start looking for them outside the family. But today's world makes that difficult. Instead of finding genuine sibling-like or parental bonds, we're often pushed toward romantic relationships.

As a result, many people end up expecting their boyfriend or girlfriend to provide the love, emotional safety, and unconditional care that they never received from a parent or sibling. That's a heavy burden for any partner to carry.

This isn't true for everyone, but I think it's more common than we realize.

Hey! I'm a 22-year-old guy from India, and I'm looking for a true Indian best friend someone I can consider family, not just a friend.

I want someone I can talk to freely, laugh with, share my thoughts with, and feel relaxed around. If we become close, I'll always stand by you through good times and bad. Loyalty means everything to me, and I'll be there for you for as long as I live.

It would be amazing if you're someone who:

\- Is kind and compassionate toward poor children.

\- Has a soft spot for orphaned kids.

\- Loves animals.

\- Is emotional, sensitive, and understands people's feelings, just like I do.

One thing about me: I don't ghost people. If I ever feel that a friendship isn't working, I'll be honest and tell you directly instead of disappearing.

Also, I have nothing against foreigners I already have some foreign friends. I'm simply hoping to find a genuine Indian friend because that's what I'm missing.

If you're looking for a real, honest, and long-term friendship, feel free to message me. 🤝❤️