r/FamiliesYouChoose

23M looking for a family I can genuinely become part of

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This is a little difficult to write because I’m not looking for a random friendship and I’m also not looking for someone to pretend to be my parent for a few days

I’m 23 and I’ve reached a point where I really value the idea of having an older person in my life who can genuinely be there as family

I study Business Information Systems and I’ve spent a lot of time around sales business technology and jewelry and gold work so I’m pretty responsible and independent minded

Outside of work I’m into drawing photography travel languages history technology food and learning about different cultures

I’m usually calm and easygoing and I honestly enjoy deep conversations much more than superficial small talk

I’m Egyptian by background and I’ve lived around different cultures so I’m very open minded about where someone comes from

What I’m hoping to find is an older father figure or a couple who genuinely has room in their life for a younger son

Someone who enjoys talking checking in sharing meals celebrating holidays giving advice telling stories and slowly building the kind of relationship where I’m not just some person from Reddit

I’m willing to give the same energy back

I can help with things I’m good at I like being useful and I would want the relationship to feel mutual rather than one sided

I’m also at a stage where stability and mentorship are important to me so I’m open to practical support as well but I’m not trying to turn family into a financial transaction

I would rather earn trust than ask for it

Distance is not a deal breaker for me and neither is age

I care much more about character than anything else

If you are older and genuinely feel like you still have room in your life for a younger son I’d be happy to talk and see whether we naturally click

No pressure and no expectations

Just looking for something real

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u/Ghostframe23 — 11 days ago

36F Help me find my older brother? Never had one...

Hello,

Im a 36 F, married, bi,poly, has a bf. Looking for a long last older brother? Though im not sure what im asking for 😅

Never had one and kinda always wanted one? Im the oldest out of me and my sister, so id like a brother that could spoil me some 😆 or ya know just put up with my craziness? Idk... lol anyways, first time posting here, can you tell?

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u/CherryBite-26 — 11 days ago

19M looking for an older sister/mother figure

hi! I'm a 19 y.o college student from Europe, and I'd love to get to know someone, I don't really care about time zones so any location is fine :). I'm mostly looking for an older sister or a mother figure since that is the type of relationship i've been lacking the most in my life, but anyone is fine! a little about me is that my interests are history, music, politics, video games. if you think we have matching hobbies or youre interested in a chat, my dms are open! (or leave a comment)

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u/acpiorundc07 — 13 days ago

21f- in desperate need of a sister or mother:(

Hi I'm looking for a sister figure or a motherly figure. I'm an only child and I've always wanted a big sister. I have my adopted mom but shes not super motherly, caring or supportive so I'm desperately looking to fill that void.

About me, I'm neurodivergent, chronically ill and lesbian. I'm an only child and adopted. I have 9 pets, 2 dogs, 2 cats, 2 guinea pigs, a hamster and 2 mice. And I'm from the east coast usa!

Anways here are some of my hobbies and interests:

🧶crocheting

🌿 collecting nail polish and painting my nails

🌻 legos

🧿 playing acnh

🌈 thrifting

🔆 animals/pets

🏳️‍🌈watching tiktok

Anyways I'm looking forward to meeting you!! Byeeeeee

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u/mangomoxie04 — 12 days ago