u/Flimsy-Captain8531

Hello, I'm from Indonesia and would like the presence of genuine people currently. I'm aware friendships take time to build, and I'm okay with that, I just wish for genuine, trustworthy, and capable people to lean upon.

I've been going through tough times in recent memory, and as much as I can help myself, I long for the presence of trustworthy people. Not advice, not "different perspectives", not lectures, just validation and presence, being there with me. I really long for that. At the same time, due to the things that have happened to me in the past, I need time to trust people and again, I'm okay with needing time to build friendship, I just want to try and find genuine people in the meantime. Of course, to the best of my ability, I will try to provide the same 🌻 and if we ended up not vibing, at least we tried, right?

If this resonates with you, hit me up with a short intro of yourself :) some other misc things about me - currently traveling for 3 months around the world, loves learning languages and Pokemon, and enjoys time in nature ^^

Hello, I'm from Indonesia and would like the presence of genuine people currently. I'm aware friendships take time to build, and I'm okay with that, I just wish for genuine, trustworthy, and capable people to lean upon.

I've been going through tough times in recent memory, and as much as I can help myself, I long for the presence of trustworthy people. Not advice, not "different perspectives", not lectures, just validation and presence, being there with me. I really long for that. At the same time, due to the things that have happened to me in the past, I need time to trust people and again, I'm okay with needing time to build friendship, I just want to try and find genuine people in the meantime. Of course, to the best of my ability, I will try to provide the same 🌻 and if we end up not vibing, at least we tried, right?

If this resonates with you, hit me up with a short intro of yourself :) some other misc things about me - currently traveling for 3 months around the world, loves learning languages and Pokemon, and enjoys time in nature ^^

Not just parts of myself that's easy to understand and comfortable. But also the uncomfortable parts. The hatred I have, the frustration I carry, the parts of me that can't survive a minute in the eyes of the public - I have had people told me they loved me, but do they love those parts of me too? Are those any less "me" than my other parts? Do they deserve less love just because they're not as easily understood as the other parts?

I've done my part on limiting their expansion to just within the scope of feeling my feelings. They are real, I won't act upon them, but they need to be seen and unconditionally loved. I have done SO MUCH for my healing process. And yet here I am getting stuck and falling back into the same phase because i don't have people who actually can both understand AND withstand those parts of me without flinching or abandoning. If I were able to be there for myself all the time, I wouldn't ask for help. Because why even bother relying on others when others can't be relied upon? When your feelings are made to feel like a chore, when you do 50 extra miles and that's still not enough to be met where I'd like to be met?

I'm so worn out of everything. I just want to be seen, understood, and held by trustworthy people. Not people who wish to bombard me with advice, but people who want to show their love by being here and not leaving. The kind of love that endures for a long time. Yet I can't find that anywhere other than myself - and trust me, I have tried so hard to be there as much as i could for myself. I can't do everything alone. I'm worn out.

Hey! I'm from Indonesia. As title says.. I'm available for the next 6 hours, lets play some games! Send me a short intro of yourself in DM's and lets play!!

I'm extroverted, I love to share daily things, talk about random things, to "deep" conversations. If you'd like to connect and be casual friends, or see if we connect long term, or anything in between - do let me know! I'm open to seeing where we go - long term if we connect, or just short term if we don't really vibe.

A little about myself - I'm from Indonesia, I love to travel (will depart very soon for a 3 month trip!), language learning (learning Japanese and Russian right now!), Ghibli for movies, and meeting new people! My favorite pokemon is Ampharos 😄

Send a short intro of yourself if you decide to DM me, and we can see where it goes after that!
Have a nice day everyone 🌻