u/KingJon85

I have been separated 11 months now after a 17 year marriage. Have been dipping my toes into dating some merely as an experiment and because I was craving physical touch.

Met a woman on FB that instantly began falling for me dispite telling her that I want to take things slow.

She is super kind and told me all the things my ex never said. Another thing is that she is cute but really not my type and im not feeling the vibe or connection.

I sorta broke things off with her this morning and I feel guilty because I know how rejection feels. Perhaps im too empathetic in my old age.

Im not letting this world beat me down. When life piles more shit on to of my shoulders, I just laugh and say "is that all you got?"

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Im making divorce the best thing that ever happened to me. Im 41 and in the best shape that ive been in, 15 + years. Im grinding at my job and making money. I challenge myself daily.

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I don't care about her any more. I can 100% say that my feelings for her are dead, but i haven't fully recovered from the trauma she inflicted apon the family. I can't trust another woman yet, and i don't really care to. My goals are #1.

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Once I get my body and money exactly where I want it, perhaps ill attempt to open my life up for a woman.

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Fitness, money, toys, and then woman is my order of priority.

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Im taking care of ME first for the rest of my life. If you don't like it, ill show you the door.

I have been eyeballing one at Miami links for almost $1300 but it seems a little steep for like 125 grams. Anyone have a good shop to recommend?

41 Male here. Divorced in December and I am looking to make some friends to see where it goes from there. Low pressure situation. Just see how things progress naturally.

I like hiking, love music, playing guitar, playing pool, cooking, and occasional weekend adventures.

I am very mellow and have a calm demeanor. I do floor coverings for a living. I am self employed so I have a little more freedom than the average 9-5.

Feel free to hit me up. Pics are in my profile and you can DM if you need more.

Have lost family, ex wife lost her f#cking mind, witnessed some crazy sh!t, and every time i feel like things start to improve, something else happens.

My psycho ex wife wanted me out of her life, but continues to make my life hell every chance she gets. Obviously I live rent free in her head, but im out here just trying to do my own thing.

Im about to throw a dart at a map and just dissappear.

Sorry, I needed to get it out somewhere

I was lightly bumped by an excavator. I think it's mostly paint transfer. There is a tiny crease that I can live with but id like to remove the paint, as the body shop quoted nearly 4 grand for the repair.